i am in a relationship with a married man with so many girlfriends, 9 to mention, all are active relationship... im the 10th woman so far. he said he loved me truly compared to the 9. im confused because i feel he is also playing with my feelings. why cant he stop his relationship with the rest? does he really loves me? or im just one of his "women". i do loved this man. i have difficulty disengaging with him.
2007-10-29 20:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by magayon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This man is having his cake(s) and eating them, too. You need to have a little more self respect and end this cycle. You deserve a man who will want to be in a relationship with ONLY you - who thinks you are the MOST important person in his life. Why would he want to stop his other relationships? He has 10 women to play around with, and they all are misguided in believing that it's right.
2007-10-29 20:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you will get when getting involved with a married man is heartache. If he was honest, he would have divorced his wife before getting involved with other women. What he is doing is deceitful and loathsome. What you are doing is playing with fire. But whether you continue with him or not is your own choice. Just be honest with yourself and be prepared to accept the consequences of your actions.
2007-10-30 04:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the relationship now! Why would you want to share your man! You are only the 10th. There is going to be an 11th, 12th, it will never stop.
2007-10-30 03:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by school_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you are okay with the relationship. It sounds like he has been upfront with you about the others. If you feel that you have to have him to yourself, then you should move on because that is not going to happen. He probably does love you, but he probably loves the others as well.
P.S. What does his wife think about this situation?
2007-10-30 10:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Gary H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a real question? If you have any morals, just break it off. If you don't, we can't stop you from making a mess of your life.
2007-10-30 04:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..in your place ..'are there any shortage of healthy MAN'.....dont you feel shame being the 10th for a married man?.....are you that much cheap?...dont you have any dignity?
2007-10-30 06:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to run for the hills. hes playing you like a fiddle and your falling for it..
2007-10-30 03:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his just messing with your head make a run for it babe
2007-10-30 04:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by sarahjanexxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋