Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

My older sister and I got into a huge verbal argument. I became fed up and called her a f**king c**t and she got mad as hell. She dragged me by the arm to the kitchen sink and pinned me against it . She grabbed the bottle of Palmolive dish liquid, and forced some of that horrid stuff in my mouth. When I was able to get away I ran to the bathroom and did my best to rinse out my mouth; by adding water it made it foam up more. I still can't get this horrible taste out of my mouth; I've been rinsing it for hours.

2007-10-29 11:36:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a girl asked for my number 1 and half weeks ago. shes my friend's friend

the next day she texted me alot, sometimes 2 txts in a row

3 days on the trot after she text me each evening asking if im ok and if ive been up to anything. can a friend do this?
or does she see me as more than a friend?

this weekend she prank called me 3am in the morning (witheld no.)
her friend did the talking, not her. after the call they rang me 10 or more times within 30 mins.

apart from random chat they asked what my surname was before they hungup :S i heard girls laughin in the background also.

even though i guessed it was her they wouldnt admit it was her prank calling.

should i text her sometime soon to confront about these prank calls. soemtimes i think maybe she like me but i dont know =\

2007-10-29 11:33:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years.. For the last 1/2 a year I have slowly become unattracted to him...Is there any possible ways when you love somebody to become attracted to them again?

2007-10-29 11:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 11:32:44 · 12 answers · asked by Newlywed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was in the states and met many girls that we not even 20 and they were introducing me to their husbands and didnt understand when i said "you dont waste any time". I saw quite a few hen nights with girls not even old enough to drink. In the uk we like to think things through a little more.

2007-10-29 11:29:44 · 15 answers · asked by jj26 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother in law is completely controlling. She picked out our house for us and since my wife agrees with everything she says, that is the house we bought. I feel like I don't have a say in anything.

Her mom is even listed on our bank account !!! We have had nothing but problems with her and my wife thinks I am the problem. She thinks if I would just go along with what her mom says, we wouldn't have any problems. Her mom is the source of 99% of our arguments.

Most recently after we ran a credit check on my wife, we found out her mom had opened 7 credit cards in her name and now has ruined her credit. My wife didn't even care.

I have tried every way possible to try to work things out, but I am starting to wonder if it is even possible to save our marriage if my wife isn't on my side. We have a 16 month old son together and I want to be here for him, but her mom has been controlling us for almost 9 years now with no sign of change and I can't take it anymore.

2007-10-29 11:29:32 · 25 answers · asked by psycoffman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What to do if a woman loves her spouse deeply, but she hates the way he makes love to her and the way he kisses her even.
What to do if she has tried to show him how she would like things done, but he never seems to get it and it just ends up irritating her. Sometimes she feels terrible because she misses the way someone else she used to date did it.

2007-10-29 11:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been crushing on this girl for a long long time. and a couple years ago i did something really immature (i didnt insult her) that probably turned her off of me for a while. but now we're back in the same class, but i dont talk to her unless we're in groups working on an experiment (she sits right in front of me, and theres not a lot of social time). and since i did what i did a couple of years ago, ive noticed her looking at me, and staring sometimes, and now, in class, when we're working together i get the feeling she may be interested in me. like i said before, ive been crushing on her for a long time, and theres this dance coming up, that i really want to go with her to. which brings me to my question, whats the best way to get a girl alone so you can ask her out?? please please please, ive really gotta know.

2007-10-29 11:27:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was brought up in this family believing it to be my own but have recently been told that i was illegally adopted by them, and that i am the prouct of an irish gypsy woman and a businessman from galway, and my real father stole me from my mother brought me to england and paid my alleged parents to bring me up the person who told me this told me a lot of things that make sense to me. plus i have no record of my birth in this country which has caused me problems throughout the years

2007-10-29 11:25:07 · 4 answers · asked by b beru 4 in Family

I have heard that Male sexual peak: age 18; Female sexual peak: age 33

well for the first part i would agree but is it true thatfor females it is 33?

but another question: what would possibly happen if you leave two people in this ages together in a room, I haved no clue

2007-10-29 11:24:46 · 3 answers · asked by Curious Star 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 11:24:34 · 20 answers · asked by Newlywed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's just now starting to reallly open up to me and we talk whenever we see each other in the halls and he knows i like him. What should I get him. His b-day is on Thursday. Would a hoodie be a good idea or somehing else?

2007-10-29 11:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a song for my father/daughter dance. I thought "Music of my heart" by Nsync/Gloria Esteven would be a good one. But is that more of a husband/wife type of song? Any ideas for other songs? I'm an atheist, so songs cannot mention religion of any kind. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you

2007-10-29 11:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by Louise 4 in Weddings

I've notice that the house isn't as clean as it once was, I've notice some dust and the laudry isn't quite where it once was. I've noticed her attitude has been changing also...to give you an example I called her work the other day cause I couldn't find the remote that SHE lost...he boss told me she couldn't come to the phone cause she was busy...that pissed me. I called her parents to see if they had any idea's...her dad was real nasty with me and smarted off (a$$ hole)...he hates me because I've been outta work for a couple of years and he THINKS it's all my fault...NOT!! I had to quit because my old boss was a jerk. Any-who...cathy was late (AGAIN) coming home from work the other night so my mom had to come over and fix my dinner...well it turns out that cathy had our kitchen organized wrong so my mom fixed it the right way....cathy came home and exploded...I said you should thank my mom for fixing your mess...she didnt' care crap!

any advise how to fix her?

2007-10-29 11:19:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, let us write what we know:
My boyfriend and I have only been together for just under 5 months.
I'm 18, he is 16.
He has two vehicles.
He is considering blowing his savings on a third unnecessary vehicle.
I, obviously, do not support this.
I recognize that I should not influence this decision.
I also recognize that if we do have any kind of serious future together, we should both be saving. I've been saving as much as handling my tuition allows me to becuase I plan to buy a house rather than rent as soon as I finish college and move out. I thought he shared this perspective. Financial stability is a big factor in my book, and he doesn't seem to have much regard for money.
Do I let this ruin the relationship?
Financial issues are not the only ideas on which we differ, and I just don't know if it's worth seeing where this is going if I know I can't start a life wtih him when the time comes because of such differences.
I know we are young, so should this even matter?

2007-10-29 11:19:10 · 1 answers · asked by SunflowerSeed 2 in Singles & Dating

I was a homemaker prior to my divorce (he cheated) and am still looking for decent work. I've found countless jobs outside of Cleveland and decided to move myself and my children to where the job I'm taking is located. Coincedentally, my boyfriend is from that same area. I'm now getting people saying that I'm not thinking about the kids and their best interests (yes, the ex is one of them). I feel like this is my chance to get out of this city and move my kids into a better place... the country.. not to mention that I will have a job there. Unfortunately, my family is here, but my costs are lower and I have friends out there to help if I need them. I feel that it is the right thing to do in my heart. The new place is only 2.5 hours away from the ex and he is still going to get them on his weekends and holidays. I don't understand why this is such a huge deal since he's the one that left us. Am I wrong?

2007-10-29 11:18:48 · 12 answers · asked by Penny's from Heaven 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK,, as of right now 1715 im am cooking, my fiance came, home, from working ummm4 hours.... (military) i work graves at a psych ward plus overtime......Im sick, cause Ive stretched myself thin this week, and Im cooking, cleaning....at the same time, ......and him? On the couch sleeping...........

2007-10-29 11:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by prettiekittie1983 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend of mine is dating a really nice girl, but I think he might be loosing feeling for her. I would't ever want her heart to be broken, and I don't feel comfterable asking my friend about her. It seems like whenever she wants to get cosy with him, he has an excuse, like a cold or something. He suddently stopped giving me any information on where the relationship is going, and it seems like they're much more personal (actually secretive) than before. I don't know whether this is normal in realtionships (they have been dating for at least a couple months) or if they might be heading towards the garbage.

2007-10-29 11:15:24 · 1 answers · asked by Derek F 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me 5 months ago, he wasnt sure how he felt and it wasnt fair to stay in a relationship like that. I said some hurtful things to him out of anger and being broken hearted so he stopped speaking to me a few weeks after the break up. I sent him one email apologizing for everything. I vowed to forgive myself and move on, deleted his number, got rid of photos, and eventually started dated but nothing serious. Last week he calls me, he misses me. He was a great guy but im scared to go back and get hurt again by him. What do I do, should I meet him?

2007-10-29 11:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

must be things..

2007-10-29 11:14:41 · 1 answers · asked by x1gemma1x 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this boyss & i think i like him. the problem is i never met him before. we talked online since feb. of last yr. and he has a girlfriend , but hes always like "oh i want to meet you, your so gorgeous". im meeting him sunday at his soccer game in my town, would it be wrong if i try to get him & brake up with his gf ?

2007-10-29 11:13:44 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we sat together last year for a class and he kept on talking to me even if I was so shy and quiet... like I only smiled back whenever he talked to me and yet he continued to talk to me everyday... he even brought up things about my past that I wouldn't have expected him to remember or even know... whenever I walk pass him in the halls (this year) with my friends, he only looks at me and not at my friends... so does he like me or am I just being overly sensitive?

2007-10-29 11:10:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how should i approach her? any hindi teachers

2007-10-29 11:09:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will i ever find anyone i will trust my husband went of with someone had been doing this for a month behind my back only got married in feb god got three kids dont think i'l ever find a good man?

2007-10-29 11:07:55 · 20 answers · asked by K F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the person in question has once assaulted my wife and has vandalised our property and has been prosecuted for the latter offence my wife keeps throwing him out but then taking him back against my wishes what can i do

2007-10-29 11:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by b beru 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OMG. Help me. Okayy i have a boyfriend and i really like him but then another guy came to my life he's really cute and good looking and he's a football player he likes me but i dont wanna break up with my boyfriend. Wat should i do?

2007-10-29 11:03:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my bf and i text eachotehr questions like kinky things like whats ur fantasy....im almost out of questions any new ideas

2007-10-29 11:03:03 · 25 answers · asked by answermania 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have this 24 yr old staying in my house she doens't work and all she do is sit around and smoke drugs all day and prostiute. so how can i get her out without me telling her to get her stuff and leave?good answers only thank you

2007-10-29 11:01:44 · 13 answers · asked by pop l 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on/off with my girlfriend for 2 years. We each have done hurtful things to one another and she always was pretty sensitive. I always knew she cared about me a lot. We hung out before school started and everything was fine. Then all of a sudden when school started she stopped talking to me and no longer had much interest in me. I texted her every couple of days or so and she always texted back. We stopped talking for awhile. Then she texted me happy birthday. I called and asked her if she wanted to hang out sunday night and she said she couldn't she left all her homework for sunday. She still ignores me in the hallways. We have a class together in school and she doesn't say a word or aknowledge me. How did she forget about me so quick? And why is she doing this to me? Do you think she still cares about me?

2007-10-29 10:59:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband likes watching porn and i like watching Tyson Beckford. We both decided that he'd stop watching porn and I, Tyson Beckford. But yet he still gets caught watching porn and lies about it and when i tried having tyson beckford pics he FREAKED OUT! can someone help.

2007-10-29 10:57:14 · 25 answers · asked by B.S. 1 in Marriage & Divorce