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ive been crushing on this girl for a long long time. and a couple years ago i did something really immature (i didnt insult her) that probably turned her off of me for a while. but now we're back in the same class, but i dont talk to her unless we're in groups working on an experiment (she sits right in front of me, and theres not a lot of social time). and since i did what i did a couple of years ago, ive noticed her looking at me, and staring sometimes, and now, in class, when we're working together i get the feeling she may be interested in me. like i said before, ive been crushing on her for a long time, and theres this dance coming up, that i really want to go with her to. which brings me to my question, whats the best way to get a girl alone so you can ask her out?? please please please, ive really gotta know.

2007-10-29 11:27:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

2 answers

Seize the moments you do have. Shuffling out of class, ask "Hey (name), do you have a second? I realize this may not be the ideal moment, but would you like to go to the dance with me? You can say No, I'm hoping you say Yes, and if you're not sure get back to me later today. I think we'll have a good time together. Remember, Yes is the best answer."

Notes:
1. The actual invitation ("...would you like to go...") is the hardest part, where you throw in all your chips. Don't stumble unless you can do it adorably; best to practice.

2. Breathe. This isn't a long speech (and you should adjust it to fit yourself), but if you blurt it you'll just flood the poor girl, and that can work against both your interests.

3. The whole No/Yes/Later thing kindly gives her a quick and gracious exit while not ducking the question. (If she comes back with "I've already got a date" ask if you can invite her to something else soon, and do it. Pursue the goal; she's important, the actual dance isn't.)

4. The "we'll have a good time" exudes confidence; mean it. Don't be a dweeb -- going with you WILL BE a good time. Fun and enjoyable, not dreams-fulfilling. If you can, to some degree of skill, converse, joke, and dance, it will be.

5. Don't be too late to your next class.

2007-10-29 11:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0 0

jus ask her in a noteor sumthing. jus dont get caught!!!

2007-10-29 11:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by TOP NOTCH CHIC 1 · 0 0

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