I've notice that the house isn't as clean as it once was, I've notice some dust and the laudry isn't quite where it once was. I've noticed her attitude has been changing also...to give you an example I called her work the other day cause I couldn't find the remote that SHE lost...he boss told me she couldn't come to the phone cause she was busy...that pissed me. I called her parents to see if they had any idea's...her dad was real nasty with me and smarted off (a$$ hole)...he hates me because I've been outta work for a couple of years and he THINKS it's all my fault...NOT!! I had to quit because my old boss was a jerk. Any-who...cathy was late (AGAIN) coming home from work the other night so my mom had to come over and fix my dinner...well it turns out that cathy had our kitchen organized wrong so my mom fixed it the right way....cathy came home and exploded...I said you should thank my mom for fixing your mess...she didnt' care crap!
any advise how to fix her?
2007-10-29 11:19:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you for the entertaining story. You could have added that you drink beer all day and where a dirty wife beater t-shirt. I think that woud have really given your audiance a visual.
2007-10-29 11:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Read what you write. You said she was lazy? Why are you at home looking for the remote while she's at work? what's wrong with this picture? Your mother had to fix your dinner? are you kidding me?
First let me tell you that my husband cooks, cleans, washes clothes, WORKS, and when I get home has a smile on his face and is ready to make passionate love all night long. You know why? Because we put each other first. My main goal is to please him and make sure he is happy and his is to do the same for me. The beautiful outcome is we are both incredibly happy! But notice we BOTH give. You have to give to get. Get off your a#$ cook dinner, dust, do the laundry, and apologize to your wife for being so blind that you don't even appreciate that she goes out everyday to work to support your lazy a%@
2007-10-29 21:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by only1sol2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but since you're not working, how about you keeping the house clean, the laundry done, dusting, and helping her get caught up. No, your Mom did not have to come over and cook for you and redo the kitchen. You should have made yourself a sandwich.
You don't quit a job, until you have another one!!
Recommend you apologize.
2007-10-29 18:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first not to be mean, but you need to learn how to take care of yourself. I suggest cleaning up your act and really get out there to look for a job. You can take something with less pay or something you wouldn't normally do until you find what you are looking for. You are not being a responsible adult here. I don't blame your wife for getting mad. The reason things haven't been as clean as you would like is probably because of you and you not doing your part. Get off that couch and get a job.
2007-10-29 18:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a paper get a job go looking for work when you find a job which could be tomarrow it may not be what you want but at least its a job and let you wife quit her job and clean the house and keep up with the remote look at the name im a guy with two kids and a happy wife that doesnt work and my house is clean and i know where the remote is or get off your dead butt and find it
2007-10-29 18:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by JOHN H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change her, but you have a lot of changing to do. There is no reason you can't work. Go get a job. If she is bringing in the money, and you are a house husband, you should be doing all the house work and cooking dinner. You should have her dinner ready for her when she comes home from work. You have everything backwards.
2007-10-29 18:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about you clean up the house and make the dinner, as you have been unable to hold down a job for the last two years
2007-10-29 18:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Wiffyman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you in the mood to irritate the female population, or what? There's no way you're serious! Surely there isn't a women left that would put up with this kind of crap, and not have a hole dug in the backyard waiting for the next provocation!
2007-10-29 18:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ista 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all i c what's the problem, U, y don't u cook, y don't u clean the house. if she comes late from work it's probably cause she doesn't want to come home.
try to be nice, help out in the house, cook, if their's a change compliment her for it. change is sometimes good. besides she is the one doing all the cleaning so technically she is allow to change.
give her a chance. and appreciate her before u loose her..
2007-10-29 18:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by grace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She works... you don't; and let me get this because your "old boss was a jerk", you don't cook, you don't clean, you call her dad names, your mom still changes your diapers... you need advise on how to fix her? Give her a divorce.
2007-10-29 18:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah momma's boy I know how to fix her , you pack your chit and go home to your mommy thats how lmao.
I really dont like opening question's only to find their a waste of time but thanks for the laugh.
Oh and the remote is under the mattress in your bedroom she thought it'd get you up off your lazy @rse .
2007-10-29 18:51:26 · answer #11 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋