Am I being Ridiculous?

Question

Alright, let us write what we know:
My boyfriend and I have only been together for just under 5 months.
I'm 18, he is 16.
He has two vehicles.
He is considering blowing his savings on a third unnecessary vehicle.
I, obviously, do not support this.
I recognize that I should not influence this decision.
I also recognize that if we do have any kind of serious future together, we should both be saving. I've been saving as much as handling my tuition allows me to becuase I plan to buy a house rather than rent as soon as I finish college and move out. I thought he shared this perspective. Financial stability is a big factor in my book, and he doesn't seem to have much regard for money.
Do I let this ruin the relationship?
Financial issues are not the only ideas on which we differ, and I just don't know if it's worth seeing where this is going if I know I can't start a life wtih him when the time comes because of such differences.
I know we are young, so should this even matter?

Answer 1

Well its all a sign of both of you not being able to relating and understand each other (BAD). Of his emotional attunement, were he doesn't FEEL the right way about how he should love you, as you do for him. Which would mean you both have completely different views on the purpose of the relaitonship. I get the feeling its works great for him, because he's got a older lady that doesn't expect much out of him, plus SEX! You most be a tad bit insecure about yourself, to tolerate this kind of behavior in the frist place, so your sort of hoping to train him to be what you need him to be, while getting your feeling of belonging satisfied, along with your own need for SEX! If there isn't any sex going on, the rest still stands, but if their isn't any he should have and you should have, better motivators for being fair about the relationship and seeing EYE-2-EYE. Which is why sex is damaging to relationships to soon, becuase people think its the center of love, when IN FACT its how we live our lives for each other. So he's failing in his love for you one way or another, but for you both to be in this situation, you failing on your loves for yourself also. No offense love is never enough (ask a abused spouse if you don't believe me, any ONE of the millions) its HOW you love that matters, so not good stuff to have be going on. BUT YOUR 18 IN COLLEGE!!!! I'd give you a chance! You've got plenty of oppurtunities coming, don't settle, because THAT'S exactly what this looks like.......