My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years.. For the last 1/2 a year I have slowly become unattracted to him...Is there any possible ways when you love somebody to become attracted to them again?
2007-10-29 11:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is still very attracted to me.
2007-10-29 11:50:12 · update #1
Well what is it about him do you now find unattractive? Has he gained weight? Are you just bored with him? Try joining a gym together and working out, sometimes just that physical activity of exercising together can make sexy feelings erupt. ( I love jogging with my husband and then coming home and ravaging him). Maybe he's too nice and there is not enough excitement. I do believe that levels of attraction change and fluctuate, sometimes my husband is so handsome to me I can't help but stare at him, and other times he's just a normal good looking guy. Try to examine the root cause of your diminished attraction, sometimes women become less attracted if they are not proud of their husbands or they are tired of a specific type of behavior.
2007-10-29 11:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is common in lots of marriages. Attraction varies from time to time. Find out what you are attracted to in men and try to get him to do it or act that way. When he does something you find attractive, praise him so he'll do it more. What drives you crazy in bed? Are there certain clothes that turn you on (e.g. a man in uniform)? What are your fantasies? What is the hottest sex scene in a movie? Find out and tell him about it. This might bring some more excitement into your relationship.
2007-10-29 11:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by chandiepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person tends to look at the bad after so long of being married. You need to look at the good he has to offer. How he treats you. What special qualities he has. What attracted you in the first place. You could be just bored and need to spice things up.
2007-10-29 11:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is caused by phermones, our body energy and aura as well as scent that we cannot smell, but our senses know it`s there. Have you ever passed by someone and felt electric like excitement? That is the power of phermones, your body talking to another body, without you conciously thinking about it.
To become re-attracted, make eye contact when talking, and do the things that you did when you were dating. That shoulsd help. Good luck
2007-10-29 11:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what he is lacking in or there is something he use to do or he may be just let him go or you could have meet some other nice looking man that you are attracted to or just think about when you an him first met an what every it was that got your attention then or what most attracted you to him just think about it an it come to you
2007-10-29 11:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by ccentoria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be attracted to him??
Honestly i think that if u love someone you should already be attracted to him in many diffrent ways.
2007-10-29 11:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by miss_renee_69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah with a little bit of work. Talk to him about it, who knows he might feel the same way.
2007-10-29 11:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is a choice.
2007-10-29 11:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋