My ex broke up with me 5 months ago, he wasnt sure how he felt and it wasnt fair to stay in a relationship like that. I said some hurtful things to him out of anger and being broken hearted so he stopped speaking to me a few weeks after the break up. I sent him one email apologizing for everything. I vowed to forgive myself and move on, deleted his number, got rid of photos, and eventually started dated but nothing serious. Last week he calls me, he misses me. He was a great guy but im scared to go back and get hurt again by him. What do I do, should I meet him?
2007-10-29 11:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say give it a chance. if it doesn't work out this time, THEN move on. who knows, maybe things have changed with him. go for it
2007-10-29 11:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by LOL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absense does make the heart grow stronger, kinda like the old saying "you don't know what you've got, till it's gone"
I moved half way across the country to be back with my fiance... i just couln't hack being away from her.
I'm sure that he realises his mistake, but you have to ask yourself if you want him back. i mean 5 months isn't much time at all. and after 2 weeks delete his number, tear up photos, and start dating... doesn't sound to me like he was anything truly special to you.
Ask yourself why he misses you, probably the same reasons that another man will fall in love with you.
He is not the only man out there, Is he "THE ONE"?? If not move on... let him suffer for his stupidity........
2007-10-29 18:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask yourself this, how was he relationship before he started feeling unsure? What is a good one? or did you guys fight all the time? If it was a good one then it might be worth meeting him for a cup of coffee or something and just talking. To see what he has to say. Remember just because you agree to meet doesn't mean you are getting back together.
Also, you can take things slow if you are scared. After your talk if you want to hang out and see what happens then great, if not.. then just be up front with him.
2007-10-29 18:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by aque_fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people don't know what they have until it's gone. That very well could be what's happening to him. However, sometimes people just don't like it that their ex are dating again. Or he could be having a slow dating season. You know him and we don't, so you be the judge of his character. If you love him and he seems sincere, go for it, but don't let your guard down right away. Good luck.
2007-10-29 18:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jane_S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....you are setting yourself for heart ache again......do you remember that long never ending sobbing, crying nights you went through when he first broke up with you?? I dont think you want that feeling again. If you meet him, or see him it will be a never ending story of break-up heart ache and make-up again
2007-10-29 18:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. What do you think has change that would make the relationship better now? I'm guessing nothing.
2007-10-29 18:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by ajmommy002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let him go and move on to someone that is sure of want they want in life and with you in the future
2007-10-29 18:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you this much ... an ex is an ex for a reason
2007-10-29 18:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by JULIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you can't miss someone you're around all the time.
2007-10-29 18:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by VTNomad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont go back how is he gona not want to be with you and then he realizes wat he had and now he expects you to b with him dont do it beacuse wat if he does it again and then ure left heart broken so i say dont u have moved on a little so keep it going theres better people outhere!
2007-10-29 18:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by bananaramarex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋