Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

If you went downtown on your man and he fell asleep during it? If he told you he was really tired before, and you fooled around and were both satisfied, but then you wanted MORE and kept going, would you get upset with him? We both laughed about it the next day, and she SAID she understands, but i think deep down she's hurt a little. It's not like it wasn't enjoyable or anything, just couldn't keep my eyes open anymore. What's an acceptable "I'm sorry" or apology for that?

2007-10-29 10:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK THERE IS THIS BOY WHO GOES TO MY SCHOOL AND AT THE BEGINING OF THE SCHOOL YEAR HE WENT WITH THIS GIRL THEY BROKE UP BUT SHE STAYS WEARING HIS SHIRT WITH HIS NAME ON IT AND THEY STAY HUGGED UP BUT WHEN I ASK HIM DOES HE LIKE HER OR DO THEY TALK HE SAYS NO . IM SOO CONFUSED BECAUSE I REALLY DO LIKE HIM BUT IDK IF HE LIKES ME? PLEASE HELP BECAUSE HE FLIRTS WITH ME OFTEN BUT WHEN SHES AROUND THINGS CHANGE DOES HE LIKE ME OF IS HE JUST A FRIEND?

2007-10-29 10:55:30 · 16 answers · asked by one_only_tia 1 in Singles & Dating

How come we can't stay together anymore? We get in relationships and then let the smallest issues send us running away from each other. Look at the old people they are married 50, 60, even 70 years. What are the causes of so much fighting between men and women now? Is this a stupid question?

2007-10-29 10:53:28 · 8 answers · asked by drglizard 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 10:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by larrikin11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Might as well get the big bomb out of the way first. I'm 30 she's 19. I wasn't aware of this when I asked her out. On our first date I was so impressed by her maturity that I continued to see her in spite of how many eyebrows would be raised. She's absolutely amazing and I'm planning on proposing to her soon.

The problem that I'm encountering is that I'm not a virgin and she is. I want to respect her standards, she comes from a very religious background and I'm pretty convinced that if things went too far that she would feel very guilty and it would put our relationship at risk. We've talked about where we stand on physical subjects and she has made it clear that she doesn't want to do anything more than kissing before marriage. I want to respect her but this is a frustrating process on my part, especially since we are a year into the relationship and it will most likely be about a year until we are married. I'm wondering if anyone else has been in my shoes?

2007-10-29 10:48:54 · 21 answers · asked by mr cheesy poof 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok look the thing about me is that im totally paranoid. For example, last year when i had a fight with my best friend i figured that all my classmates would be in his side and i felt like it. Now that school is almost ending... i realise that my best friend has no position in my class... turned out not everyone likes him... and my other best friend hated the fact that i hang out with him... and finally i was able to know that my classmates are not that terrible. And then recently me and my best friend's relationship seems to be stronger but when i look back at things... there seems to be a lot of his terrible things he did... for example when school started he hang out with the only boy from my class and dont even bother with me (my school is private theres only over 10 stud in my class)... and it seemed that if my other classmates hanged out with him he would left me.... the thing is i dont want my future be ruined cause of this thing cos im pursuing my education with him overseas

2007-10-29 10:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by SomeJunk 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee wanted me to pay him back $50 he used on me last month for gas, and some other stuff. is this right? we are planning to get married, shouldn't we start to think as one? i am willing to help him financially in any way i can, but i don't think it's right to pay him back. yes, you pay back a friend, but to pay back your fiance cause you borrowed from him? am i crazy? is this wrong or right? im confused!!! my dad was always the sole provider, and im just used with this kind of family!

2007-10-29 10:46:26 · 15 answers · asked by victoria_b_maria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy in my school a lot and he seriously did ask me out at a dance and now in shool hes saying i asked him out and i didnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and now he likes this girl outside of school what do i do?!

2007-10-29 10:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son's dad remarried and stationed in another state. Zack is going on a vist for christmas. But matt wants him longer. Now reallistically I know I need that time to get things together at home. On the otherhand, Im nervous........my son is 3 has not been away from home more than 2 weeks, and he be with my ex's new wife. I know Im the mother, I know nothing will change that. Honestly she has not made a good impression on me... What advice can others that have been through this give me, to make me at ease?

2007-10-29 10:45:40 · 2 answers · asked by prettiekittie1983 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boss recently told me to "watch out cause sex is gonna get sooooo much better." Do you think that's true? Do people get more kinky the older they get?

2007-10-29 10:45:32 · 5 answers · asked by SW 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm the divorced mom of two. Got out of a bad relationship last year and the jerk JUST quit bothering me. I've FINALLY moved on with a GREAT...no, WONDERFUL man and we have SOOO much in common BUT now; all the sudden, my heart has been racing, I passed out at his sisters yesterday, broke in to major sweats, wanted to throw up - and I'm not sure what brought it on. Today - my heart has been racing over and over and I've been very rude to my man! All the sudden a few things are bugging me about him ie: can someone REALLY be THIS nice? He compliments me all the time and to tell you the truth....it's irritating the CRAP out of me??

ARE THESE ANXIETY ATTACKS??? IF so - WHY all the sudden...when I have something GOOD going for me - why am I reacting this way???

2007-10-29 10:39:11 · 13 answers · asked by FF'n Momma 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious as to what honest opinions are about people who are on disability. I'm on medical disability for depression. Would you date someone who you knew (from the beginning) was on disability? Or would that be a turn off to you? Be honest now.

I'm hoping to be going back to work at the first of the year (fingers crossed!), but it's always bothered me as to how my being on disability is perceived by others. I know it can be looked at as something very negative. I know it shouldn't matter, but I hate to tell people that I don't work and am on disability for depression. I'm 28 and to look at me, there's nothing "wrong" but depression has just been really dibilitating to me over the past several years. I really hope that I can make friends and find the person I was meant to marry and I'm doing things to try to make that happen, but I was just wondering. Yes, I'm in therapy and it's helping...thank goodness!

Honest answers not politically correct ones.

2007-10-29 10:37:20 · 12 answers · asked by First Lady 7 in Singles & Dating

Does everyone belivee that if you have male friends and your married. your still cheating and visa versa.
I mean we are all adults is it possible to have friends, who you do love, trust and respect and talk to on the hpone and text is that all considered cheating especially if the spouse hears all conversations and is aware of the frie4ndship???

2007-10-29 10:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by Invictvs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and my parents aren't too strict, but they wont let me have any guy friends! (even though i do, alot.)
it's mostly my dad, but my mom gets so uptight and interrogative when i mention a guy friend.

my dad agreed that it was okay to have guy friends as long as they weren't boyfriends
but he totally contridicted this the other day when he had my cellphone and one of my guy-friends called to ask for homework. my dad called me afterwards and started complaining about "why do you have so many boys trying to contact you? why did he call you? who is he?!?"

how can i let my parents understand that they are all just friends? its annoying that their so overprotective! do they not trust me or think im going to "do" something bad or something??

2007-10-29 10:36:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sickeningly enough, the guy I have lived with for over a year got drunk this weekend and when I wasn't looking went up a girl's skirt and then followed her to the bathroom asking to be let in. She called the cops and they wanted to arrest him but had no witnesses. He claimed she was crazy but then admitted the next day after I pointed out that he was stupid drunk that he could have done it but he doesn't remember it (although he remembers stuff after that incident). Should I tell him to get out or should I try to work through it? He swears he'll never drink again. Even after I told him I doubted it.

2007-10-29 10:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

About 1-2 weeks ago my boyfriend's parents started buying rum and mixing it with Coke. And ever since my boyfriend has been drinking every night (some if not most nights he will get drunk) and I'm really concerned. His parents allow him because "they would rather have him do it with them instead of behind thier backs" but I don't agree with the way they're raising him...but that's not up to me....I've talked to my boyfriend about it (who is 17) and encouraged him to not do so but everytime he gets mad...how can i talk to him? or better yet, what should i do? i dont want this to affect his grades (which are really good right now) and this is not something a teenager should do its bad for the brain!

2007-10-29 10:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family

My girlfriend suddenly told me that she did not want to be with my anymore. We have been dealing with some relationship issues for almost two months now. She then told me 30 minutes later by sms that she wants to commit suicide. When I saw her she was depressed, weak, and sad looking. What should I say or do to help her? I truly love her and do not want her to do anything that she regrets!! She asked me to do it with her then said no. She wil do it herself. But she will not tell me what she plans on doing. Help!!

2007-10-29 10:22:59 · 14 answers · asked by Hearty 2 in Singles & Dating

im only in 6th grade but so many people r dating

2007-10-29 10:19:09 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dating sites are there any good ones? What experience have you yahoo answer people had with them? and is yahoo chat dangerus?

2007-10-29 10:09:45 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

After living with him for almost 2 years and being separated for 1..throughout that year I tried SO HARD to get him back almost like i was forcing him to take me back..we still spoke to each other and went to bed he would alwyays tell me I love u miss u I want to see u I mean he would beg to see me I kept telling him that we should not see each other and be friends without the included "benefits" he wasn't sure he can do that..but I just found out that he is dating someone..I don't get it why tell me your confused and want to be with me that you love me etc...yet have a girlfriend?? I was told when I went to his house on Sat . she would go on Mon. It's like one day was me the next was her OMG I was so hurt we shared that home. why would he lie? After I confronted him he said she is no one that he doesn't love her and she is not his girlfriend, that right now he is so confused because he wants to get back but says he's not ready (he said if we get back we would get married)..HELP!

2007-10-29 10:09:14 · 1 answers · asked by BARBI L 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy hugs a girl and rubs her back at the same time. especially when they haven't seen that person in about 5 years? thanx!

2007-10-29 10:08:55 · 1 answers · asked by me, me, and me 4 in Singles & Dating

If a male friend just randomly started to feel your boobs, how would you react? Would you be angry? Would you be okay with it?

2007-10-29 10:08:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

god, i dont know what to do. Here's the story, my older brother got really depressed cause his ex broke up with him cause she was cheating on him. and then he started cutting himself and thinking about suicide. he got help from a psychiatrist. i thought he got better, but i was wrong. he woke last night, oct. 28. 2007 claiming he had a really bad nightmare. and the music he listens to is about suicide, death, cutting yourself, devils, demons, dark angel, etc. and that music isn't making his depression any better. and i guess the dream was about possessed creatures, or devils, something with the devil in it. and my younger brohter found a razor blade in the bathroom. and i dont know what to do. i'm so scared. and dont tell me to tell my parents cause they already know.

2007-10-29 10:02:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i havent kissde a guy yet and so frustrating cuz i really want to. and i really like this guy and i dream/think about kissing him but i dont even know if he likes me. Hes a Gemini. are there any signals that a gemini would show ife he liked you or wanted to kiss you?

i need help and advice please.

2007-10-29 10:02:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 10:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by Josh R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 09:59:07 · 5 answers · asked by reya m 1 in Singles & Dating

What attracts you to a man?
What makes you flat weak in the knees for him?

2007-10-29 09:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by Alexander Shannon 5 in Singles & Dating

I am just doing a survey out of curiousity...ok so you meet a woman and she is everything you have been looking for BUT later you find out that MRS> Perfect is a guy! Would you stay or leave?

2007-10-29 09:52:19 · 34 answers · asked by - 3 in Singles & Dating

so, last night i was supposed to meet the guy i [was] dating at the bar he was playing at but he never showed, called, nothing. he told me he would be there in 10 minutes. So I left after an hour of not hearing from him. 15 minutes after i left, he came in. then called me, but i refused to answer. then he called me [i answered] and apologized, and i thought everything was ok. i get a message from him this morning saying he is not playing games... he is done.

WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED? He was drunk and high last night. Doubt he was this morning.

Any way I can rememdy the situation before I face taking extreme measures?

2007-10-29 09:51:17 · 24 answers · asked by sweetblueyes 5 in Singles & Dating

So, I have a friend named Danny and I think that I might like him more than a friend. I was going to ask him out or at least tell him I like him, but I'm not sure it could work becaus ewe are good friends. I see him every morning and in lunch, etc., so I'm afraid if I tell him and he denies it then thing will become ackward (sp). What do you think, should I hold off maybe, I'm not sure what to do, please help, thanks in advance!

simplebutsweet13

2007-10-29 09:47:34 · 7 answers · asked by simplebutsweet 2 in Singles & Dating