My girlfriend suddenly told me that she did not want to be with my anymore. We have been dealing with some relationship issues for almost two months now. She then told me 30 minutes later by sms that she wants to commit suicide. When I saw her she was depressed, weak, and sad looking. What should I say or do to help her? I truly love her and do not want her to do anything that she regrets!! She asked me to do it with her then said no. She wil do it herself. But she will not tell me what she plans on doing. Help!!
2007-10-29 10:22:59 · 14 answers · asked by Hearty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just hold onto her (literally. as in put your arms around her) even if she doesnt decide to sob and pour out her heart. knowign someone is there for you can make a LOT of difference.
just hold her tight, and tell her everything is gonna be ok, even when it seems like its not gonna be. tell her that its not the end of the world, that she's too young to die. that its not worth it, whatever it was. eventually she'll crack and the tears will come and things will loosen up a bit
2007-10-29 10:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her some help! Why does she want to do that? Is she having Family problems? Talk To Her Parents
Love,
Nevember Rain<3
2007-10-29 17:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by November Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats terrible! if she wants to be away from you, just leave her alone; but find someone to keep an eye on her like one of her best friends. surround her with happy things, or things that she likes. anything that will get her mind off of it. if its not you, then try to help her with things. don't be an asshole. if you are getting her pissed at you, its just gonna make her wanna do it more. you have to keep stalling her. i don't know how old you are or if you live in the same house or what, but i think its a good time for a sleepover (not sexually, unless thats what you do.) but just make sure you make her happy. thats the most important thing. if you give her more reasons to do this, she will want to do it more. this is a tuff situation and im sorry, but thats life and what happens, happens. all you can do is try to prevent it. just dont make it your fault. you'll feel terrible and then youll feel liek you want to kill yourself too. just dont make this situation worse than it all ready is.
i hope you the best. my prayers are with you and your girlfriend.
2007-10-29 17:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by girl1001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to call the cops and report this to them. If she is serious, then she needs help, and your are not the one to give it to her. Both of you guys have been going back and forth, and this needs to end. If you won't call and get her help, than go pick her up and take her to the hospital. Games can be very serious, when peoples hearts are on the line.
2007-10-29 17:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seriously needs some help. Be there for her and tell like her parents or someone else close to her. She'll probably say that she'll hate you for it but her life is more important.
2007-10-29 17:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dani Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need tell someone because she needs help this is nothing to play with go to her now and stay by her side until someone comes home then tell her parents if they will be supportive if not suggest counceling and say that you will go with her if she wants you'll even wait outside if that is what she wants she needs support don't leave her alone
2007-10-29 17:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok.tell her all the facts about suicide, how it doens't help, tell her u r wolnderful, lif3e is wonderful, make her think.i csnt believee this.just do WHAtEVER u can to mkae her stay alive. every human being is speaical.
2007-10-29 17:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by babyt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents or some other adult (like an aunt of hers, or the police) that can get to her, and help her, before it's too late.
2007-10-29 17:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you here and not on a suicide hotline talking to someone??? We are not doctors!
2007-10-29 17:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kita 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't help her alone. Tell her parents and her counselor.
2007-10-29 17:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋