If you went downtown on your man and he fell asleep during it? If he told you he was really tired before, and you fooled around and were both satisfied, but then you wanted MORE and kept going, would you get upset with him? We both laughed about it the next day, and she SAID she understands, but i think deep down she's hurt a little. It's not like it wasn't enjoyable or anything, just couldn't keep my eyes open anymore. What's an acceptable "I'm sorry" or apology for that?
2007-10-29 10:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This happened to me. The first time my husband (we were just dating then) fell asleep, I was shocked and thought that maybe I wasn't good enough that he got bored and went to sleep. I even went so far as to call up an ex (that I lived with at one time) and asked him about it. Well he boosted my ego and said that I should talk to him about it. So I did, he told me he was really tired and that what I was doing felt so good it made him really relaxed, that he just went to sleep. We have been married for 10 years and believe me I have put him to sleep that way a few times, sometimes I do it just so he can relax and go to sleep. You wanna know whats even better I wake him up by doing it. I don't think you have to be sorry, just talk to her about it and tell her she doesn't have to feel hurt by it.
2007-10-29 11:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Girly1 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
This has happened to everyone at some point or will happen. I have had my husband fall asleep in the middle of intercourse. If she loves you she will forgive you. It does hurt, you can't help it. It's a natural thing to wonder if you just aren't good eonough, but if it doesn't happen oten then not a proble. If you fall asleep on her a lot...look out. Make sire you let her know that it was wonderful and relaxing but sometimes you are so realxed you just slip into sleep. Make up for it tonight. All will be fine. Don't dwell on it and don't keep bringing it up. But do make sure that it happens from time to time.
2007-10-29 18:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should say she is sorry. It must have been some lame "downtowning" if you fell asleep during. My wife has woken me up from a dead sleep at 3:00 in the morning and there is no way I could sleep through it. It was HER fault. Don't apologize.
2007-10-29 18:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh you should just put it in the past and the next time make sure you aren't so tired when you are doing it or put your pants back on so she knows you are done and go to sleep. yes sorry should be enough. If she is jerly about it then she is in the wrong. It happens.
2007-10-29 18:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were tired and fell asleep while getting oral nothing to it. Its good that you laughed about it the next day. Just finish it tonight and show her just how sorry you really are.. im sure she'll love u more for it... take care and have fun =)
2007-10-29 18:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by NENA 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go downtown on her for 4-5 hours, or until she falls asleep from exhaustion. That should do it!
2007-10-29 17:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
My husband does this to me all time and I think it okay if she loves like I love my husband at least you gave me some I am happy. she will be okay don't worry you were tried just don;t do it all the time she needs to understand that you were tired and it is okay I do when I want my husband to relax and go to sleep. Marriage is not only about sex it is about love and communication and comprehension.
2007-10-29 18:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lost 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is really too funny...honestly you say you were enjoying it but it couldn't have been that much or there is no way you would have feel asleep...but anyway, you did, you apologized...you move on and make sure you drink a red bull first next time ;)
2007-10-29 18:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I too would think that was pretty damn funny, but deep down I would feel a bit insulted. Like am I not good enough to keep you awake, kinda thing... make sure you compliment here extra the next few times, to assure her that you like it.
2007-10-29 18:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by ashley g 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ive had that happen to me before. Its very very hurtful and almost shameful. She was performing an act of apparent love and you FELL ASLEEP. thats horrible. Nothing will heal that except time. And maybe flowers :)
2007-10-29 18:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by kaylaj0418 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋