After living with him for almost 2 years and being separated for 1..throughout that year I tried SO HARD to get him back almost like i was forcing him to take me back..we still spoke to each other and went to bed he would alwyays tell me I love u miss u I want to see u I mean he would beg to see me I kept telling him that we should not see each other and be friends without the included "benefits" he wasn't sure he can do that..but I just found out that he is dating someone..I don't get it why tell me your confused and want to be with me that you love me etc...yet have a girlfriend?? I was told when I went to his house on Sat . she would go on Mon. It's like one day was me the next was her OMG I was so hurt we shared that home. why would he lie? After I confronted him he said she is no one that he doesn't love her and she is not his girlfriend, that right now he is so confused because he wants to get back but says he's not ready (he said if we get back we would get married)..HELP!
2007-10-29 10:09:14 · 1 answers · asked by BARBI L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, you got into a relationship based soly on the fact he loved you. THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS!!!!! Its an act of GOD for a relationship like that to have any moral compass. And well you picked wrong enough with him that you have no chance. So yes hopeless, learn that unless he can give you more then just "I love you, come back to me!!!" Then your a fool for picking him, words mean nothing to actions, hence your heartbreak..... Just think of it this way, it's easy to LIE about loving someone, but harder to show it......
2007-10-30 05:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋