so, last night i was supposed to meet the guy i [was] dating at the bar he was playing at but he never showed, called, nothing. he told me he would be there in 10 minutes. So I left after an hour of not hearing from him. 15 minutes after i left, he came in. then called me, but i refused to answer. then he called me [i answered] and apologized, and i thought everything was ok. i get a message from him this morning saying he is not playing games... he is done.
WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED? He was drunk and high last night. Doubt he was this morning.
Any way I can rememdy the situation before I face taking extreme measures?
2007-10-29 09:51:17 · 24 answers · asked by sweetblueyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what do i do with the Direct Box for his guitar that he left in my car?
He refuses to talk to me about the whole thing. So, I just started trying to figure out what I do with this damn thing. Any suggestions? IM NOT hocking it on eBay [unless i have to] and im not breaking it [unless i have to] lol :)
2007-10-29 10:00:33 · update #1
what the hell. just ask him what happened and tell him your perception of that night. maybe you guys can clear things up.
2007-10-29 09:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is just a jerk. If he was playing there he should have been on time to play, end of story. The fact that he called one minute to apologize one minute and then said it was over the next shows he may be high on something besides you. consider yourself lucky that this never developed into a relationship because he would be making your life miserable.
Find someone better.
2007-10-29 17:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity and commitment phobia to start with .So why not take the extreme measure now and dump him for good. Can you imagine having a relationship with a guy like that?
2007-10-29 16:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow...this kinda sounds like me. He just needs a bit of space, kind of like a break from the relationship for a while so that he can get his life together, he might come back depending on how serious the relationship was that or he seeing another chic. I know i wish me and my girl were still together but i have problems i need to fix first...
2007-10-29 16:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should thank him he did you a favor by showing you what a dikk he is... RIght there he showed you that he is inconsiderate, dumb, immature, insensitive, crazy, disrespectful, full of himself etc... Thats not a good guy to be with. Just don't talk to him at all. What happened is he's a fukc up individual that you don't need to deal with. Honey he did you a favor by showing his true self, a dumb asrss, now don't talk to him ever again and find yourself someone who is worthy of you and should treat you like a queen and never settle for less. Go be happy... don't talk to losers...
2007-10-29 16:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to his house and explain to him that he told you that he siad that he would be there in 10 minutes and an hour passed and he wasnt there. also tell him that he was drunk and high last night and he probably doesnt remember and that you wrent and you do and even if you arent , tell him that you are hurt and that you will give him another chance if he is willing to take it and if he takes it then that is great and if he doesnt then he isnt the right guy for you. good luck hun!! :)
2007-10-29 16:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by jojee!! 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ya, I want a drunk and stoned boyfriend too - look, it's no excuse for him to do that sort of crap when he is intoxicated.
Guy is a dick and you pursuing him just makes all the others guys look at you and question themselves - Soon, every guy will be a giant douche bag and all the women will love us.
Christ, move on
2007-10-29 16:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Corvus 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's a little psycho to me. Did he ever expain why he was late? I don't know what could justify him not calling you and saying he would be late. That's just disrespectful. Dump him and get a man that respects you!
2007-10-29 16:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Redbutter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you need drunk and high? Run as fast as you can. This creep is a loser, and is playing a big game, himself, and it has lethal consequenses. Stay clear of this guy, and find another place to meet people.
2007-10-29 16:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Garnet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you want with some drunk High idiot anyways? Can't you do better than that?
He had the nerve to put you last on his list of prioritys, now it's your turn to toss him in the trash.
2007-10-29 16:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋