Does everyone belivee that if you have male friends and your married. your still cheating and visa versa.
I mean we are all adults is it possible to have friends, who you do love, trust and respect and talk to on the hpone and text is that all considered cheating especially if the spouse hears all conversations and is aware of the frie4ndship???
2007-10-29 10:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by Invictvs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, its not cheating...Woman should be able to have male friends and vice versa....If there is no trust then theres a huge problem with the relationship already....My best friend is my son's baseball coach for the past five years and my husband knows him well....Our children have play dates and we also all hang out together as a family...We speak on the phone all the time and we relate to each other more like brother and sister....We spend our holidays together and it has work out good....With communication and trust you should be able to have a healthy relationship and not have any problems or doubts with your partner......
2007-10-29 10:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have male friends. And my husband has never accused me of cheating on him with any of them. He knows them, he also talks to them. And one is a ex-boyfriend from high school. I love my husband, if I didn't I wouldn't have married him and he knows it.
I could see it being a problem for someone that isn't secure in their relationship, but I see nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. And I don't see it as cheating if you are only friends with them.
2007-10-29 10:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a guy, we have been friends for over 25 years. I've been with my husband for 10. While my husband was in the military I hung out with my best friend and his wife. No one has ever considered us more than just friends, even when we were single. But sadly there are people out there who think men and women can't be just friends.
2007-10-29 10:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Girly1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating, but there is a levl of respect to consider. Say like if your guy friend texts you saying he loves you or wants to see you naked. It is completely reasonable for your man to be jealous and upset. You should not allow your friends to disrespect your marriage in such a manner. But if it's just innocent stuff among friends, there should be no need to worry.
2007-10-29 10:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make an emotional connection to the person.You both create a bond that no-one else understands. You meet for coffee. Next is an affair. If you loved your husband you would not behave this way.
Stop the chatting now, or say goodbye to your husband. Friends of the oppoite sex are best left at the workplace. I want my wife to spend time with me, not chatting with her male friend on the phone.
2007-10-29 10:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't believe it's cheating to have friends of the opposite sex if you're married. My husband and I both have numerous friends of the opposite sex, and we like it that way.
Now, I do believe that every couple establishes the rules in their own relationship in terms of what's cheating and what isn't. As long as both parties are in agreement, more power to them. If they can't agree, that's something that definitely needs to be worked out one way or another before marriage even enters the picture.
2007-10-29 10:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's a personal thing, especially w/the technology we have today, but if my husband was sharing special time w/a girl who he called his "friend," I would not tolerate it. "I" am his best friend, his confidant, lover, pal, buddy, partner, companion, etc. and he is mine....and we've worked it out this way for 17 years now....he and i have that understanding. My friend, had a friend who also became her husband's friend, and now her husband is married to her "old" best friend and she is alone. It's human nature - marry someone who is enough for you..... â¥
2007-10-29 12:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having opposite sex friends is not cheating.....unless you are hiding the fact that you have friends of the opposite sex from your spouse....I still don't think it is cheating...but it is lying by omission....
2007-10-29 10:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats just dumb and ignorant. I have lots of guy friends and I often go out with them and my husband stays home and same with him he knows more woman than me, we trust each other completely. Nothing has ever happened. friends are friends, trust must be earned though.
2007-10-29 10:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The people that believe that are the ones who have or are cheating.
2007-10-29 11:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋