ok look the thing about me is that im totally paranoid. For example, last year when i had a fight with my best friend i figured that all my classmates would be in his side and i felt like it. Now that school is almost ending... i realise that my best friend has no position in my class... turned out not everyone likes him... and my other best friend hated the fact that i hang out with him... and finally i was able to know that my classmates are not that terrible. And then recently me and my best friend's relationship seems to be stronger but when i look back at things... there seems to be a lot of his terrible things he did... for example when school started he hang out with the only boy from my class and dont even bother with me (my school is private theres only over 10 stud in my class)... and it seemed that if my other classmates hanged out with him he would left me.... the thing is i dont want my future be ruined cause of this thing cos im pursuing my education with him overseas
2007-10-29 10:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by SomeJunk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just relax and keep your eyes on your future. The more you are relaxed the more people will migrate towards you.
Hugs!
2007-10-29 10:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your future be ruined because of your friendships now? You are putting to much emphises on your friendships instead of going to school and meeting all the people, and learning to associate with a lot of them. When you are out of school, and have to work( always told my kids, that while they are at school that is their job) how are you going to handle relationships on the job sites. You can't keep yourself held down to only one friend, you just wasted the opportunity to meet and establish lasting friendships. Maybe you should get some counciling to handle.
2007-10-29 11:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend then he is your friend. weather or not other people like him. stand by his side, but if he gets out of line or makes you feel bad, you should be close enough to tell him how it effected you! good luck
2007-10-29 10:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg! Don't be paranoid. I know someone who everytime I talk to my sister queitly says " What's wrong. What are you talking about." It drives people insane. Please change your ways for your own sake.
2007-10-29 10:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Yup Its Me Again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋