Hi im delaney im 14 and i have a bf (boyfriend) is it mad to have a bf cause i liek him alot we have been going out for a year and i really liek him but in a way i think my mom is starting not to like me haeving a bf why? and what do you do when they tellu they Love you but u not really sure if u wan tto tell them u love them i feel safe around him and wreid idk why is it bad? i need help with this one Big thing. My mom doesn't no about him and he is a dirffent coler and she would hate that but she doesn't get it i like him alot what shoul di do tell her or dont tell her!? ?
2007-10-29 09:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by delaneybaird13db 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no im 14 and i ahve had 3 girlfriends and most of them had had boyfriend b4 i was their boyfriend and their parnets knew that they had a boyfriend
2007-10-29 10:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by ROFLCOPTER!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your life, your the one going out with the guy who's not the same race as you and that's cool. i think that you should tell her. if you really like the guy a lot like at the point where you cant live without him its okay to say that you love him too if that's the way you feel if not then don't tell him be real with it and its not bad to have a bf at the age of 14. i was in head start when i had my first bf, so its all good girl.
2007-10-29 16:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad thing at all, as long as you aren't having unprotected sex or anyuthing. Your mom might just feel threatened by him or something because she doesn't know him and she might be uncomfortable with his color, which isn't necissarily racist. Just tell your mom that you appreciate her concern but you won't do anything stupid. I guess there's nothign wrong with having a bf at age 14, just don't expect the relationship to last that long
2007-10-29 16:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by stlouisramfan2003 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
delaneyb, Dear that is too young ! The longer you wait the better it will be ! Concetrate on school and just being a kid ! It is easy to get wrapped up in someone and loose yourself !
2007-10-29 16:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sisters friend is 12 she has a boyfriend but theyre more like friends so tell your boyfriend if we can be more like friends and people may think your so close but your not and thats not being a bad girl so yeah just be more like friends cause your younng focus on school!!
2007-10-29 16:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him now. Your mother and father will go off big time. Not because of color, but because your too young.
2007-10-29 16:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by mikeydonatelli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is: its very important that ur parents approve of your relationships. so you should tell her but even if she doesnt approve, that shouldnt stop you from keeping him if you really like him.
2007-10-29 16:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...she will understand......hmmmm i think it is right to have bf at 14....i had a gf in 5th grade
2007-10-29 16:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie your to young to know what love is....ha
2007-10-29 16:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Oh baby! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋