Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

2007-10-25 04:12:18 · 5 answers · asked by Mero 2 in Family

my husband work all the time and don't have time for me.on weekends he still is busy on saturday changing oil in the truck to playing poker.and sundays he is gone all to play more poker.i feel like i not even married.please help

2007-10-25 04:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know soo many girls that cheat on their men and vice versa and the sad part is no one admits it but it goes on all the time. it's quite obvious. what happend to sticking to the one person instead of sleeping with 3 other people?

2007-10-25 04:10:42 · 4 answers · asked by Alex A 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm desperate.
Seriously desperate.
I'm 20 years old, still live with my parents.
They have so many depts it's unbelievable, even after personal bankrupcy (since about half the debt is to family and friends and we want to repay them).

For last umm 17 years maybe, my dad has been giving math & programming private lessons in our home. He always preferred to work at home. But the thing is, he only has like a lesson or two per day... which is really not enough!!!
He had a couple of odd low-paying jobs from what I remember, each lasting for about a year or two. He never, and I mean never, got a job according to his profession: software programmer and tester. He is very smart. He has three degrees and real potential to make a lot of money. I don't know what is wrong with him. My money from work and credit cards go to the family or my college tuition. My mom is going mad and wants a divorce from my dad because it feels like he will never get a real job even though he always promises to

2007-10-25 04:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by Arielle 1 in Family

if you want to answer in private email me
How many live in the state of VA.?

2007-10-25 04:05:00 · 14 answers · asked by me1234529 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She's always been this way. It's always me, me, me, me. It's like she sends my brother and I down guilt trips just for her doing things that she is SUPPOSED to do. Like giving us shelter or something. She acts like she should be praised for it, etc. We wants all of our money and expects us to give it to her, etc. But, when she's around other people, she's so CHARMING. Peple always go, "your mother is so cool!". SHE'S NOT. She pretends to be all high and mighty, but she's not. She steals money from me and she is always ranting on and on at me about how the company that she works for would be nothing without her because they are all beneath her and idiots. When she is wrong with anyone, she refuses to admit it. She would rather go away yelling, screaming, flinging around than admit that she was wrong.

I'm bipolar, so I'm supposed to be insane. But I still have empathy, I feel bad for the things that I have done when in my episodes and I always apologize. She doesn't. Mother's nvr wrong.

2007-10-25 04:04:17 · 1 answers · asked by creep show 1 in Family

what are some things that men like sexually???? this is why i am asking okay i was in a long term relation ship for about 8 years( we knew eachothers likes and dislikes ) and we have sence split up and i am now currently with someone new personally i am very open sexually if i like something or want something done i will let you know and if i dont i will let you know and i asked my new bf to tell me his likes and dislikes so that i can better please him as well because nomatter what people say sex may not be everthing but it is a major part of a relationship however he is very shy so i am looking for some new things that i can try that men enjoy that he might like sence he is to shy to say thanks in advance for your advise

2007-10-25 04:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by @!#$%^ 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so humm...i had a friend of mine, we had a huge falling out, we were interested in each other but the distance would allow us to be together so at the end we remained friends. he had a gf which i was totally happy about but then he started ignoring me to the point where he blamed me for us having tension in our friendship and at the end we stopped talking. i went on his profile and i saw that he was single...we still live in the same areas, so the distance is still a problem, but i just wanted to email him just saying hi...i really want us to be friends again. so will it be bad if i jsut say hi to him??? advice anyone?? lol....also thing is i dont know if he's really single, he plays with his status all the time....

2007-10-25 04:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-25 04:03:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently discovered that my Husband has been having a secret affair with a workmate who I knew and never thought they could have sex. Several occassions I thought they were seeing each other but when I ask my Husband he would always deny and in fact get annoyed. But recently all hell broke lose, My Husband and the Lady got into a huge misunderstanding and it was brought to my attention that they have had a sexual relationship with this girl for some time now. My Man has said he will never do such a thing again and will never ever, see this girl again but am not so sure. You can imagine the pain am going through now. Advise. I have two children with him. One aged 4 yrs the other one is 4 mths. we have been married for 6 years and he has never been unfaithfull until now.

2007-10-25 04:03:00 · 26 answers · asked by mwilaeuzaih 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i would like to by a "toy" to spice it up.

what are some recommendations and advice for our first "toy"?

thanks!

2007-10-25 04:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by Bill W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We had 2 kids of which are living with him and his mother....We live kind of close to one another and neither of us has filed for it because we don't want anyone putting limitations as to when we can and can't see our kids, depending on which of us will have them, we have been separated for 4 years now and I want to get the divorce..I have been in a relationship during that time and now have a baby. We are all doing well with things the way they are, but i need to get a divorce and would like to know how to file i was kind of thinking we could do a joint custody, neither of us wants to pay child support as we both already do alot for our kids.

2007-10-25 04:00:37 · 12 answers · asked by ~leah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 03:59:27 · 19 answers · asked by Roxxi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, my dad travels some for work and one of the places he frequents in Florida. He owns a business that I work for and when i came in this morning, i found a cell phone belonging to a woman from Florida. I looked thru the phone to discover rather dirty pictures of her privates sent to my dad. And I know she's from FL b/c of her area code. I don't know how long she has been in town, but for about 3 times, dad hasn't come home. He's been rather distant with my step mom as well. Should i confront my dad? This is disturbing to me, and I don't know if I can just let this slide.

2007-10-25 03:59:16 · 11 answers · asked by Willo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 20 years, got divorced and 8 months later am engaged again. Do you think it is to soon?

2007-10-25 03:54:49 · 12 answers · asked by mahaffy_611 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please read all the way

I have now smelled bad for 4-5 years, before that I did not smell to the point that someone would notice. Please I appreciate your help, but donot tell me to take a shower or wear deodrant, or some other rude comments. I have tried almost everything like changeing my diet (no garlic,cury, chocolate, or milk products) having my liver and kidneys tested, going to a dermatologist, eating cholorophill tablets ...etc..etc...etc

IT MAY SOUND "DUMISH" but I now see no hope in being nomal. I have people at work who sit covering their nose all day, everywhere I go people cover there nose fully...some even walk away. I take a shower twice a day. I wear deodrant. I wear powDer. I even wear colone. & Yes I have tried many and in different combinations...

I DONOT Sweat, but I think my skin pores have to do with the smell..


ANYONE CAN HELP? :-(
If not fixing the problem I am now convinced to just cover it up, Any good deodrants, or colones u recommend?

2007-10-25 03:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

?? i am finding this quite difficult but i nearly all the people i know are into drugs and drink and i go back into the same thing when i hang with them, however i dont have a big family and so feel lonely without them! i have however just started a new job where no one does anything like that but obviously ittakes time to change, has anyone ever beenthrough this themselves? i'd appreciate any motivating stories cos at the moment im feeling a bit sort of trapped by my past

2007-10-25 03:51:30 · 11 answers · asked by sharon you 1 in Friends

I'd like to think there is more to it than my husband just being selfish, but we never get to go anywhere just to be alone... dinner, movies, to the park... nada! He says it's enough just for me to be at home with him... But it's not enough for me, and I've told him that several times! He just still doesn't get it. I feel like dropping it because now, if he does take me out, or makes a special effort for us to be alone, I'll feel like he doesn't really want to do it, but is just humoring me!!! Help!

2007-10-25 03:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by quietlycrazy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and started having sex abt 8 months ago. Now I hv actualy lost the interest for it but my guy likes it, I feel uncomfortable when hving sex now. What can I do to help myself.

2007-10-25 03:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my partner for 4yrs now. We are both 22yrs old, engaged a yr and live together for 2 yrs now. I love him to pieces but im distraught with how Im treated as he is extremelly jealous and controlling, especially when alcohol is involved!I hate going on nights out with my partner because when he drinks he has a very aggresive side,not towards me but other people. Literally every time we go out he gets into fights. When he gets into these rows he will then take his anger out on me, not by hitting me but by shouting at me n saying hurtful things, he then walks away from me n leaves me completely alone. I literally beg him to leave the fights etc n just come home but he never listens. So after every nite out i go home alone n cry myself to sleep. He constantly thinks i want to be with other men!I have been cut off frm friends too.He wants to know wher i am all the time and if i spk to another male world war 3 develops! I cnt live like this but i luv him despite all this!Help

2007-10-25 03:47:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone is telling every one that me and this girl is going out and we aren't. And now shes mad and so am I. How do you do it!

2007-10-25 03:46:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 03:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by life iz suck!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 1 ct. tw. marquis setting and it seems that all people are concerned with are HUGE diamond rings--1.5-2 Ct.. now a days.

To me it's the meaning behind the ring...I'm not competing here. Obviously the man I love is marrying me--good enough for me. I just think far too many people are showing off what they have and not focusing on what's really imprtant --a marriage.

Sorry--I had to vent! I noticed people snubbing a girl at work too--she got a nice 1/2 Ct. solitare--what's with society??

2007-10-25 03:44:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-25 03:44:06 · 6 answers · asked by l z 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard you should wear it on your right ring finger, my boiz thinks its gay

2007-10-25 03:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Matrix 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well there is a boy next to my locker and he is funny.. But he told me about this 8th grader that likes me. And I was excited cause I found out who he was and I liked him too. So then his friends found me saying that he wants to go out with me.. So then Josh my crush sends me a e-mail. Saying that he did not like me and I don't want to go with you. And then I asked my locker neightbor about it and he said hes just embrassed.. So now Josh does not like me.. I reallly like him!!!! What do I do??????

2007-10-25 03:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Tessa 1 in Friends

2007-10-25 03:41:39 · 37 answers · asked by sugarpie2 5 in Singles & Dating

I have considered my husbands request and have decided to attend a swingers party I need to know if all the swingers here where scared there first time.

2007-10-25 03:41:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello All! I have been dating this guy for about 2 weeks now and we speak day in and day out....ALL DAY LONG!!! Earlier this week he has told me that he loves me (not inlove) and I just want to know if this is possible....Like has anyone ever experience this before....b/c when he says it, it feels sooo sincere...But when i think about th etime length it makes me kinda pull away.....What do you think?? (serious responses plz...Thx!)

2007-10-25 03:40:03 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs.Purple Label 1 in Singles & Dating

here is another one: what more is ther to life?
life is one big chance
taking a risk...
i fall in love
could this be my last romance?

what is the chances...?
that you are the one,
that we'll last together,
that we will meet heart,soul and body,
that this could be loves last dance?

have we found love...?
only me and him could know
reconizing that special bond between us
my heart beats faster...
a push,a shove against my chest

if not love we are friends
if we don't work we'll still talk
we will make amends

but for now we have the thoughts...
of being together or
till the next time we chat...
in the end i hope its true love we got.

well i hope this is better than my others.

2007-10-25 03:39:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating