I'm 23 and started having sex abt 8 months ago. Now I hv actualy lost the interest for it but my guy likes it, I feel uncomfortable when hving sex now. What can I do to help myself.
2007-10-25 03:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depending on what interest you've lost, you can find something to help or even cure it.
2007-10-25 03:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex is an important part of any relationship.
I don't think losing interest in sex is particularly healthy. It's definitely a large part of the human psyche...and natural.
What's attractive to you? What turns you on? Make lists of these things. A list of things you haven't tried, but would like to.
Are you on any kinds of medications that may be a factor in your sex drive? Anti-depressants or others?
Is there maybe a barrier of some kind? Like, something that has happened in your past?? If it's that, maybe you should consider therapy/counseling. To work the problem you're having over and move on with a healthy life.
Maybe it's something with your partner?? Has he done something to turn you off or are you doing something you don't like?? Are you attracted to your partner sexually??
Why do you feel uncomfortable?? The way you stated it is vague and doesn't give me much to go on, so I'm throwing out possible suggestions.
I really wish you the best of luck. <3
2007-10-25 11:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by tappetytap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it you've lost interest? Are you not having orgasms? If you're not that would definitely make it less interesting. Communicate with him let him know what makes you feel good. If you are not comfortable then don't do it though. Let him know how you feel.
2007-10-25 10:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by bakerchris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy.
2007-10-25 10:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explore more!!!! There is more than one way sweetie!!! You just need a little more variety!
2007-10-25 10:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋