Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

My fiance and I called off our wedding and we already had one of our showers. What can I put inside of the card that I am sending with the gift that they got me? I am sending all the gifts back to the people

2007-10-25 05:59:04 · 5 answers · asked by Floridagirl 3 in Weddings

Honestly, is it?

2007-10-25 05:58:19 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-25 05:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm not perfect but I do have a lot going for myself. I'm college educated, I don't smoke, not an alcoholic, not a drugee. I don't use and abuse women. I try to treat others how I would want to be treated. I always desire to have a better life. Anyways, I had a girlfriend who I was with for 2 years then it abruptly ended. It ended due to the fact that a close friend of this girlfriend's was very manipulative possesive and conning. This friend constantly bashed me towards my girlfriend and bated on her to leave me. I saw this behavior and confronted both my girlfriend and this friend of her's about the matter to try to remedy it. However, this friend finally succeeded at getting my girlfriend to cheat on me and then leave me for a friend of this friend's husband, who in my opinion is not any better than me. I know there are always two sides to every story, but I know for a fact that what happened was not justified in any way. Advice, opinions?

2007-10-25 05:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a few close girl friends but most of my friends are guys. And its alot of drama ALOT! That on the real i keep out of cuz in this drama my guy friends and girl friends have dated and it has always ened wrong, And they brake up and i always get put in the middle. Well to make a long story straight my supposed girls are talkin mad crap about me cuz im still friends ith there ex boyfriends and we hang out more then i do with them. See i known my boys longer then the females and now there just sayin im ****** up that i shouldnt turn my back on my girls lalala you know im just look the drama you guys have is between you guys not me.. and the realtionship i have with either has nothing to do with the other, The point is my homeboys have been good to me and they show me love but my girls there pure drama, how do i make them see where not in high school and to grow up?? cuz seriously there gonna say something stupid to me and im gonna ended up beating there ***..and i dont want 2 dothat! see they are the type of females that hold grudges and will do anything to screw you over, and i see that and i dont talk to them as much there evil .. what do i do ?? do i confrot them and see what happens? or should i kick it with my home boys more to tick them off? or should i whatever it i know its imature to go to there level but ****!! its hard not to . or should get even with them for makin my homeboys lifes impossible that live to they mess with them and always find a way to screw them over in whatever they do??

2007-10-25 05:51:25 · 2 answers · asked by bashfulmexicana 2 in Friends

OK I've been seeing this guy and he never stay all night he has to leave and pick up his sister from work but he never comes back until the next day my body mind and soul is saying he has a woman. out the gate i said keep it real with me and i will with you i fill like I'm a cool lady. i think that every man i come across has a woman and they lie about it and then get mad when you get mad at them for lieing this has been on my mind for a long time and i run across this site.

2007-10-25 05:50:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honestly i am just curious...i have been married for 3 years and well, lets say we are on a decline...i was just wondering if this is normal or if the is something wrong here..if it was up to me it would be a little more often!

2007-10-25 05:48:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 05:47:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one your with"

I know that it sounds good and all but how are you supossed to love the one your with when obviously your heart is with another person....but you just can't be with them...

2007-10-25 05:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by jenny_b2007 2 in Singles & Dating

Where do you draw the line with online friends of the opposite sex? When does friendship become an online affair? Am I being paranoid, or is this something I should be worried about? Our home lives have become rather dull, but I don't think he's cheated on me, at least yet.

My hubby is talking to an ex of his via email and some of the comments are becoming quite explicit. He left his email open one night and I quite innocently noticed what was happening and had to read. They are planning to get together when he is in the area during christmas break. She lives out of state, so for now it has been confined to email. They are reminescing about their days as teenagers nearly 20 years ago and how they should not have broken up the relationship. He talks about taking her swimming with her two children, wanting to see her again in a bathing suit. He wants to get a seedy hotel room for them both to meet up in.

2007-10-25 05:41:44 · 12 answers · asked by Wendy G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When for woman..
the sea is full of fishes?

2007-10-25 05:41:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i finished my boyfriend on wednesday, then kissed a guy on wednesday night, thinking it would help me get over him faster. i have NEVER done this before so please dont think i mess around lol. anyways the reason i finished with my b/f was because he cheated on me, treat me like sh*t, did stuff to me in my sleep and took explicit pictures of me when i was asleep. anyways, my question is, after he did all this is it normal that i still feel heartbroken? i was with him for 2 years and we got engaged. im 18, anyone know what i can do to cheer myself up? thanks

2007-10-25 05:36:20 · 32 answers · asked by ~"*Make Me A Mammy*"~ 3 in Singles & Dating

FOR INSTANCE: If you have a girl in which is your friend but you both would like it to be more than just that. You have had sex with her more than once and you both love each other dearly! You both want to be with each other in the future but it just can't happen right now. You both tell each other you love the other in sincerity.
NOW THE QUESTION:
If you had sex with another girl, knowing how much she cared for you and you cared for her, would you tell her? My guyfriend told me that he had sex with another girl but couldn't finish! What does this mean in guy terms? I know we will be together in the future but I was really hurt when he told me. I had the chance to have just sex with someone and didn't because I am in love with him! Please give me some advice.

2007-10-25 05:33:26 · 3 answers · asked by 69CANCER69 2 in Singles & Dating

I honestly don't understand men. Why is luck not always on my side when it comes to being in a relationship with men, I see all these girls, ugly, overweight, they have no goals, obsessively jealous, and they treat their men bad. I’m confident but humble. I like to take care of myself by eating healthy and working out daily. I’m funny but not a smartass. I’m pretty and have a nice body. I have good morals, I don’t sleep around. I go to school and have goals for my life. I don’t party or go out too much at night. I’m not the jealous freak or stalker or show my emotions to early. So why can I not be in a serious relationship. Things tend to somehow one way or another not work out. First I thought that my standards were too high so I decided to maybe date someone not too good looking but …. Wow it didn’t work either.

2007-10-25 05:31:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

QUOTES? Does anybody have like cute little LOVE quotes? On like “whats meant to be, will find it’s way”.. or happiness quotes? If soo, please share, THNAKYOU

2007-10-25 05:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This will seem dumb, but interested in answer. There are two women who like me. The first one is Mary. Mary is potential wife material. She wants a family etc. The thing that throws me off Mary is her past. She's slept around a bit--15 guys. She is average looking. The other is Jane. Jane is very beautiful but is not wife material. She has a different type of past: raped, attempted suicide, abused in past relationships, rage issues, etc. She says she hasn't slept around (she says ;) and she keeps bugging me for a date. I am so sexually attracted to her I can't stand it lol. I have been seeing Mary for about a month but Jane keeps calling me to date. To be honest, I'm not sure that either will work out. Who knows? I am sexually not as experienced as Mary (or maybe Jane who knows lol). Do I sleep with Jane although I can't be with her? She's a once-in-a-lifetime sexual experience. A turn off with Jane though is i don't think she always used protect altho says tested.

2007-10-25 05:29:34 · 5 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Singles & Dating

All right, this guy I totaly like at the moment just informed me that he was ingaged. Which is odd for me cause he's only what 17 and he already tried to get married with a girl. The only reason they arn't gfetting married is she cheated. I'm not sure if I should interfear with what might happen with them. I'm really confused and i would love some help.

2007-10-25 05:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by xX~PiE~Xx 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my fiancee are getting married in january. they all agree [his prnts and him] that we should move in to their house for a couple months to save up money. we would help out with bills, food, etc and would have half the house to ourselves. is it okay?

2007-10-25 05:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-25 05:23:33 · 19 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Singles & Dating

okay my freind i been liking him since last year and i kno hes been liking me to and i finally got the guts to tell him but im not sure if he wants to be more than friends so wat do ido i mean my friends say that he likes me it was so obvious last year and its so obvious this year and dont kno wat he thinks of me now!!

2007-10-25 05:20:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i stay home during the week with my twin 15 month old boys...i clean,wash clothes,cook,etc. i work two 16 hour shifts on weekends.heres my dilema...for the last year,my wife and i have had no relationship other than our boys.when she gets home from work during the week,she goes to bed..we spend no time together..i am at a point where i need some adult interaction..talk,laughter,etc...i mean im with 15 month olds for 14 hours a day..ive been telling her this for about a month and all she does is get defensive and mad.she turns it into an argument..all im doing is letting her know im slippin away and she seems to not care..what should i do ?

2007-10-25 05:19:35 · 34 answers · asked by bojack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hope to get more answers this time

If your husband wanted you to tease and deny him and pleasure for long periods of time would you? I want her to deny me release and only let me get any pleasure after I earn enough points from her. She decides how I earn points. She doesnt allow me to be intimate with her unless i earn a lot of points and she constantly teases me. While she gets whatever she wants. would you do it?

2007-10-25 05:17:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 05:16:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate when guys do this i kills me!! what do u think?

2007-10-25 05:16:35 · 24 answers · asked by ruby c 2 in Singles & Dating

whats wrong with me? i want to cry sometimes, nothing comes. when i was in high school i went to dozens of funerals, and after each one i cried less and less now i go to a funeral or wedding and my eyes are dry as the desert. i lived in peru for 2 months in the ghettos and have seen some bad stuff, i lost my sister, saw one friend bloody with bullet holes and dead on the concrete, and now feel like i have a lot bottled up inside me waiting to be released but i cant seem to get it out. can anyone help?

2007-10-25 05:16:02 · 8 answers · asked by Johnny B 2 in Friends

so I know there are lots of questions out there like this, but I really wanted to get your opinions.

I'm 20 and I kinda started this girl, right before our second date she called and said she can't date any more cuz she just got a boyfriend but would still love to hang out sometime, I was really pissed and told her that would be ok in a text, she didn't pick up on the disappointment. Anyhow, she txt me a few days later and we've been talking all day every day since about how sexy our halloween costumes will be and stuff. The other guy is her X, he's a wannabe gangster, he's fat lazy and treats her like ****, I don't know why she got back with him.

My question is does she still like me and wants to see what will happen, is she saving me like a plan B, or is she just really nice?

What should I do?

2007-10-25 05:13:31 · 3 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

For those of you who lost a parent, maybe both. How did you act toward your girlfriend? Did you push her away without knowing it & she wanted to be by your side? Or did you want her to be there for you all the time? And how long did it take you to get over your parents passing?

2007-10-25 05:12:33 · 12 answers · asked by ladydiana_a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-25 05:11:14 · 22 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm doing an affair with a man who has wife and 2ys old son.

he is saying that '' i can't divorce now because no money enough and a son.''
but he tells me to wait for him.

do you think he is really going to divorce?
and how long do i have to wait?

2007-10-25 05:08:53 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What else could I get them? I have 5.

2007-10-25 05:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings