honestly i am just curious...i have been married for 3 years and well, lets say we are on a decline...i was just wondering if this is normal or if the is something wrong here..if it was up to me it would be a little more often!
2007-10-25 05:48:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married four years, and it is usually every other day.
2007-10-25 06:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by ashley g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 or 3
2007-10-25 13:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If lucky 1 a week.
Now I have been married for 6 years now, and we have a 2.5 year old and a 7 mth old.
Yes, I would love 4-6 time a week but when you are so tired by the end of the day sometimes you just don't have the strength.
If you don't have kids and you have a regular schedule and your not getting it 3-5 times a week you need to find out why?
Have you become comfortable and lost your romance.
Bring her flowers just because.
Cook her dinner by candle light.
Find out what she wants.
Offer to be her slave for the day and do what ever she asks.
You need to jump start things.
I know if you keep initiating sex you start to feel like your bothering her. Like by the way can we have sex some time this month. But you can't thing that way women (even married women need some romance and encouragement.) tell her that she is beautiful and you are the luckiest guy in the world.
Talk to her. find out what she is thinking.
2007-10-25 16:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by majors5150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been living with my man for 31/2 years and we had sex at least 5 times a day.....Now its more like 3-4 a week and about 4-5 times every time we do it in a day. We are still active but not as much. We both work really hard so we have cut down. Doesn't mean anything unless it has stopped for too long...Like 1 month or so on.
2007-10-25 14:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by irishpr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like everyone else it depends on where you are in your marriage. We have been married 12 years. We were separated for about 10 months. Before the separation it was about twice a week. Since we have been back together it's about 5-7 times a week. But then again before the separation I maybe did oral on him twice a year. Now it's about 5 times a week. Woo hoo! They say when your apart the heart grows fonder, it sure does.
2007-10-25 13:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by joan19701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at 3 years you are at a low point. We were probably lucky to be doing even once a week at that point.
These days, it's more like 8-20 times a week, but I think we are way above average. Avg is probably 1-2 times a week, and I personally think that most people are not happy about it.
2007-10-25 13:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used to be about 5 times a week, that dropped off to 2 -3 times, then to once a week. Once every couple of weeks, monthly, now semiannually. That's 30 years married.
2007-10-25 12:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been married for 5 years, and right around the 3 year mark it started to slow for us too. i still have/had a high drive, but it seems like that's just me. we also have a 2 year old and another on the way, so that definatley makes it harder to just find the time. i'd say right now we're at probably twice a month, which is way sad. :( we used to be twice a day!
2007-10-25 12:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by pinksugarblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a week. but it's the greatest. Sometimes once at 2 weeks. 3 years married. Been like this from the beggining we moved together.
2007-10-25 13:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by LMH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is never perfect. It happens to most married couples. Either the women wanting less or men wanting less. But the bottom line is........as long as you both still love each other, end of discussion. Good luck.
2007-10-25 13:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak about other couples, but the sex life declined in my marriage as well. It wasn't for a lack of love or desire. It was four kids, two careers, soccer, baseball, dance, and all the other things in life.
2007-10-25 13:17:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋