so I know there are lots of questions out there like this, but I really wanted to get your opinions.
I'm 20 and I kinda started this girl, right before our second date she called and said she can't date any more cuz she just got a boyfriend but would still love to hang out sometime, I was really pissed and told her that would be ok in a text, she didn't pick up on the disappointment. Anyhow, she txt me a few days later and we've been talking all day every day since about how sexy our halloween costumes will be and stuff. The other guy is her X, he's a wannabe gangster, he's fat lazy and treats her like ****, I don't know why she got back with him.
My question is does she still like me and wants to see what will happen, is she saving me like a plan B, or is she just really nice?
What should I do?
2007-10-25 05:13:31 · 3 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are plan B.
Make yourself less available and force the situation: tell her that you want her but not like this, and she should make her mind up.
You will then know if it is worth waiting or time to move on.
2007-10-25 05:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her doormat basically. If she really wanted to be with you then you wouldn't have this problem. Apparently she's attracted to this wannabe gangster. Let her go completely you don't need the drama in your life. You deserve so much better than that. Let her go on her "wannabe" way.
2007-10-25 12:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you are a just a backup in case her current relationship doesn't workout. Don't allow yourself to be used like that. Let her know that you will be seeing others as well, and she how she takes it. If she truly wants you as just a friend she will have no problem with that, if she wants more then she will be forced to make a choice.
2007-10-25 12:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Monica M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋