I honestly don't understand men. Why is luck not always on my side when it comes to being in a relationship with men, I see all these girls, ugly, overweight, they have no goals, obsessively jealous, and they treat their men bad. I’m confident but humble. I like to take care of myself by eating healthy and working out daily. I’m funny but not a smartass. I’m pretty and have a nice body. I have good morals, I don’t sleep around. I go to school and have goals for my life. I don’t party or go out too much at night. I’m not the jealous freak or stalker or show my emotions to early. So why can I not be in a serious relationship. Things tend to somehow one way or another not work out. First I thought that my standards were too high so I decided to maybe date someone not too good looking but …. Wow it didn’t work either.
2007-10-25 05:31:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My last relationship which only lasted 3 months said that "I was like his trophy girlfriend" but that he sometimes felt not enough for me. I kid you not when we you know what he would sometimes stop his excuse was that he thought too much and felt nervous and couldn’t concentrate. It’s not like I am a model!!! I’m not I don’t think I’m even close to it. This guy was extremely good looking and had the perfect personality. So weeks later I see him at the gym with another girl (by the way she wasn’t pretty at all) very average looking.
2007-10-25 05:40:03 · update #1
lissen this world is full of dumb people and it makes the badthings in life seem right. your perfect just the way you are and stay that way. you will find someone that wont be a problem. the problem will be finding someone that is good enough for you.
2007-10-25 06:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny.....I feel the same way.....In my 20's, college grad, work out, nice, sweet, dont party, attractive and I cant find a nice relationship. I think you attract assholes??? I know I have and there is so many girls out there that guys can sleep with without ever having to commit that they rather have that. Men are scared of getting hurt I think. But dont change.....and stop looking for someone to love you. Focus on everything else and it will come......
2007-10-25 13:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is the type of men you are attracted to? Too many women like the bad boys, and end up always in abusive relationships. There are lots of lonely nice boys out there that would love to have a relationship with a fantastic girl like you, but its hard when so many girls prefer really bad boys.
2007-10-25 12:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever lower your standards. You had them up there for a reason and I'm guessing that reason was because you wanted to find love. That perfect match everyone searches for. I didn't lower my standards one bit and got the women I wanted so screw lowering standards. Take those standards back and see what's out there. There are over 1.5 Billion men on our planet...someone around your area HAS to have a majority of those standards.
2007-10-25 12:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by Class 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry was reading this earlier, then i got caught on the phone with a client....
I hear you, I've been going thru the same crap for years since my last serious one. Startin to think it's almost like I'm picking ones I don't want it to work out with :P Either way, keep lookin, eventually the right one will come along for us.....hopefully, lol
2007-10-25 14:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by leprechaun3833 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound Perfect...which can be intimidating to some men. You have to ask yourself "Am I approachable". Spark up a conversation, don't for the men to come to you. See what happens. I mean it is 2007.
2007-10-25 12:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Teah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy! I'm going through the same thing. Who knows? Yeah, your standards probably aren't too high. (I thought mine were, so I dated under. BIG mistake!) Men are just plain dumb.
2007-10-25 12:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you sound just like me! i have spent too much time worrying what i have done wrong..but maybe it is the men. maybe they are too immature to see what a great girl you are and its their loss. have you ever asked them why things didnt work out? maybe that can help. good luck.
2007-10-25 12:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by shanamoakler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out alittle more and put your stuff out there....you seem to have a lot to offer...so offer and see what happens...and do be so selective and judgmental...good luck
2007-10-25 12:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
things never work out for you because you think that you're perfect.
go back and read what you wrote.
you're deeply deeply in love with yourself. that leaves no room in your heart for anyone else.
2007-10-25 12:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋