Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

Try to make a long story short. I've been dating a guy for just two weeks, but he is VERY into me and yes, we have been intimate once. My ex boyfriend and I had broken up a few weeks ago and I did tell the new guy about him. The ex boyfriend and I have reconsiled and are seeing each other again. I don't feel comfortable telling him that. How can I break things off with him without hurting his feelings? I am completely in love with my ex boyfriend who is again my boyfriend and even though the new guy was very nice and fun to hang out with, I can't imagine being with anyone else and need to break things off but I know he's going to be upset and hurt because he was already talking about a future with me. How can I do this? Do I have to do it in person?

2007-10-25 03:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by funone0928 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a caketopper for my wedding cake, of dorothy and the scarecrow.
Im an avid wizard of oz fan and this year my fiance and I are going as Dorothy and the Scarecrow to my company halloween party. It's got sentimental value with the both of us! Serious answers only! :)

2007-10-25 03:39:16 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

2007-10-25 03:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by Kimmy Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My son's father does not help me take care of my son. He does even work. I filed for child support because of this and now there's a warrant out for his arrest. I told him that I would never keep my son away from him no matter what we go through but he doesn't even take care of him. We got into an argument because he want me to take him off child support so the warrant will go away. He says that I'm a only thinking about money and not the fact the spending time with my son. Now he wants me to bring my son to his house so he can spend some time with him. But I told him he has to come here if he wants to see him. I'm uncomfortable with letting him go because of the arguments we have and i don't want him to take him one day. Here are the other reasons, He has no job, he doesn't really want a job cuz he's tryna be a rapper, he has no fixed address, i live in MD and he in VA, he sleeps at different peoples homes. He has no money, and he sometimes com pares himself to jesus! Am I wrong?

2007-10-25 03:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by 15 2 in Family

i..i am 19 years old. when i was little my brother joined the military anyway i kno he is not in it anymore but i would like to find out his email or reg. adress so i can keep in touch with him i dont have a credit card so the online things don t help much how can i find my brother? i am also missing a few friends too

2007-10-25 03:35:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy two weeks ago today and we just about liked each other from the word go. We are both over 30 and were both avoiding a relationship but we feel so right with each other. We sit and talk and we keep commenting on how we've never done this or that with the past people in our lives and its true..Even though we are attracted to each other very much physically, we've agreed not to have sex till am comfortable with it because its not something i take lightly....Is it possible to think you've found your soulmate after such a short time?????

2007-10-25 03:35:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What things should you eat in the beginning of your pregnancy

2007-10-25 03:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by juv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you lose something you cannot replace, when you get what you want but not what you need,
could it be worse?

shes gone

2007-10-25 03:30:11 · 12 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am always there for them, I listen to their crap, put up with them, laugh with them, listen to them gossip about others and eachother, kept secrets for them, everything, but it seems like, after they are through with me helping them, they are through with me! I tell them secrets and they go and tell other people! I try to have a serious conversation with them, and they talk to other people about it, and make jokes about it! I know that they talk to eachother about me behind my back! I told them a secret, and they told someone else, then tried to convince me that I told that person! I hate that person's guts, why would I tell them?!?!?!? Its just so stupid! And I don't know what to do! They are my only friends at this school, and they know A LOT on me! I want to stop being their friend, but when someone does that, they tell their business! I really don't want that to happen! What do I do?!

2007-10-25 03:29:10 · 5 answers · asked by §~You can't judge me!~§ 3 in Friends

2007-10-25 03:28:48 · 40 answers · asked by April 5 in Marriage & Divorce

had relationships with heavy drinkers and drug users, it seems i cant find anyone who doesnt, do these people exist? and if so where do i find them!!??

2007-10-25 03:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by sharon you 1 in Singles & Dating

This man works a full time job and spends all day saturday with the kids Sunday is his only day of peace? Should he be able to have friends over and watch football for 12 hours?
Every Sunday no exceptions.

2007-10-25 03:25:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 03:25:40 · 4 answers · asked by little_timmy1983 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have 20 boys who come to cub scouts. I plan my butt off for pack meeting and then have no parents show up. What can I do to get more parents involved? We have fun pack meetings and the boys love it. I feel bad when I give the boys their awards and they don't have a parent there. Then I feel bad because I went through all of the work and parents don't show. Please help me if you have any ideas.

2007-10-25 03:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by MJMBD5 1 in Family

is it possible to get divorced an not let the other know about it until its final.or what is the best way to do it without hating each other...told you was stupid ? but.....points right

2007-10-25 03:18:56 · 16 answers · asked by Annouyed 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What if the guy is so shy, he won't look at you at all?
I mean, not even a glance, when I walk in the room at college. He looks about my age, 28-30. He's in 2 classes with me, but for four days. He had no choice to smile back at me once, but because he accidentally looked at me? what is wrong with him? Does he not like me at all? Or too shy?

2007-10-25 03:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ding dong the wicked witch is dead.thats what all the kids are going to sing.

2007-10-25 03:13:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I understand why he wants to. and i agree. but i am 7 months pregnant. living at his parents home in florida. to be honest. i haven't known them but for three months so this is all new to me. mycar is broke. and financially i depend on him. yet i do not have access to "our" bank account yet. we havent gotten around to it. My family bought us tickets to fly home for thanksgiving. him as well. he hasnt gotten to meet a lot of my family yet. so its important to me that he goes. the tickets are non refundable. if he coes to cali he will miss this trip.when i told him i didnt want him to go he got mad at me. and said he thought that i would be more underanding. from my point of view we havent been together for a year yet. i am pregnant and 12 hour from my home with a family that is stillvery ew to me. i will have no car and no money. and my husband will be gone. is it so foolish of me to think that he might stay home considering he doesnt have to go. they simply asked if he wanted to or not

2007-10-25 03:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and stay elsewhere for the night OR should the two of you sit down and talk it out/work it out right away and not runaway?.....

2007-10-25 03:13:01 · 23 answers · asked by Linda P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who is more willing to compromise on looks? the man or the woman? that is if a person doesnt fit your "standard" which gender would be more willing to compromise and accept less?

2007-10-25 03:11:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would happen to you ,what woul you feel what would it causes in you, if you become acuainted
to some one you share your pure personality, knowing that the other has the cabability to feel this pureness, and suddenly,on an irrational cause, even you search deep in you, soul, you are juged as someone who is untrue, even you know that all your words are the pure expreesion of your soul that,you are net?
Would you resignate? Or would ou see it as an hurtfull experience, you have to learn from...and which conclusion for your behaviour in future would you draw?

2007-10-25 03:10:04 · 10 answers · asked by Coral C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of them don't even know him and have never met him. They are mad at me for not inviting them. Should I have invited them? Is it wrong for me to feel as though this is for people in the family who actually have known him?

2007-10-25 03:08:41 · 18 answers · asked by Married and loving it!!!! 3 in Family

I have a 5 year old daughter. Her father and I are divorced. He is stationed in Kosovo and his parents have been getting my daughter every other weekend since he has been gone. Her father and I communicate very well but his parents are another story altogether. I am on a set income and work hard to buy what my daughter needs. His parents sometimes pick her up from school on a friday or during the week , then take her to school the next day. I am fine with that except they never bring her clothes back that she had on the previous day(s). The clothes they send her to school in are useless to me. It is in the 50's here and they will send her home in a short set. Meanwhile I wont see the clothes I bought until the following summer or when they are entirely too small. I just want to at least see the clothes again. Am I being petty?

2007-10-25 03:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by vivian M 2 in Family

Last night my soon to be ex and I spoke about our sick child and ended up having a decent conversation about getting the divorce over with. It ends up that after comparing what he was told to what I was told, our lawyers are "playing" us by blaming everything on the other person's lawyer. We made some of our own decisions then and we are going to start having letters with agreements written and notorized instead of waiting for our lie-ers (lawyers). Will these be binding agreements if they are notorized? We're both more disgusted than ever now !!!!! Has anyone else been in this situation?

2007-10-25 03:03:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend keeps hitting on the girls he knows i like. I told him i like these girls but he keeps doing it wenever he gets the chance. he has a girlfriend to. i dont want to just get rid of him cause we are child hood friends.

2007-10-25 03:02:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Read this short question and answer http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5562872

I think she is crazy-i will not invite my mothers friends to the wedding bc she might get upset. My wedding is a personal celebration that I want to share with people close to me, not everyone i ever met!

2007-10-25 03:01:49 · 21 answers · asked by Sunshine 4 in Weddings

I mean I sleep with them, but only because their wives don't. I think I am doing them both a favor. Anyway I am starting to have feelings for a married man and I feel really guilty. What should I do?

2007-10-25 02:58:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 02:57:21 · 18 answers · asked by dac3130 1 in Weddings

That's one of the only parts of a traditional wedding I've always envisioned... Dad says his knees are too bad for the walking but he'll meet me at the front and say he gives me away...

Plus, money's been tight the whole time we've been trying to plan anyway, but I don't want my Dad to feel like I think he ruined our plans...

So should we just do a less formal ceremony without all that, or still do it the way my Dad suggested?

2007-10-25 02:52:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well yesterday me and my boy friend were fooling around so i grabbed his shirt, and he tweeked out! He was all like bitching at me about how his shirt was $70 and that i didnt care. So i wouldnt let him leave. Then he forced me out of the way and left with out saying good bye or even I love you! So when he got home i texted him and said I'm really realy realy sorry about what i did and i will never be mean to him again. And he flipped out about last week when i went with my friend to this creepy guys house and he wanted to hang out with me so he stayed home insted of going to his dads house. [He cant stand not being at his dads house] So then he got all mad at me and blamed it on me and acted like a dick, and didnt even acknolage that he made me depressed. He just went to bed and stopped texting me. Well this morning he didnt even text me to say good moring or i love you, have a good day, or how i slept! Do you think he hates me?????????

2007-10-25 02:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by Robin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships