I met this guy two weeks ago today and we just about liked each other from the word go. We are both over 30 and were both avoiding a relationship but we feel so right with each other. We sit and talk and we keep commenting on how we've never done this or that with the past people in our lives and its true..Even though we are attracted to each other very much physically, we've agreed not to have sex till am comfortable with it because its not something i take lightly....Is it possible to think you've found your soulmate after such a short time?????
2007-10-25 03:35:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, but you are wise to take your time before totally committing. If you continue to feel this way after a time you may have very well found him.
2007-10-25 03:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible you have met your soul mate in just a short time. Time will tell. I met my hubby and married him in a month. We have been together for 13 years and he is still the love of my life. I know I have my soul mate! I also think that after 2 weeks of not having sex that when and if the time is right that you should MAKE LOVE!!! This will just add more spark to your fire, unless this ends up being a problem area with you or him. I mean have deep conversations with him all the time. let him know how you are feeling, or at least open the door to let him reveal how he is feeling about you. If you do make love, do it sober so you get the full inner feelings that you so deserve with this new love. Take it all slow and enjoy. I hope you have found your soul mate and live happily ever after. From the bottom of my heart, Good luck sweetie!
2007-10-25 05:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have read stories of such relationships and they are still together whereas some people went out for 5 or 10 years, know a lot about each other but are not together. Just a comment. What do you think
2007-10-25 03:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! I know for a fact that you can. I am 27 but I found my honey a couple years ago and it was about a year after I had ended it with my ex. We met and hit it off right from the get go!! He was amazing, he made me laugh, he gave me butterflies and made me feel like I had NEVER felt before. We talked all the time everyday probably four or five times a day for a week and I knew that he was the one that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with but I was AFRAID to say anything because of the HORRIBLE relationship that I had with my ex who was nothing but a POS who treated me so bad! I told him that I just wanted to be friends at first but the more we hung out and the more time we spent together the harder it was to resist him!! ;) And after a month of that we were hooked he told me he loved me and I started crying telling him that I've loved him for a long time but was afraid to say anything cause I didn't want to get hurt again and he told me that he would never hurt me and he has kept that promise so far. Don't get me wrong we do have our moments and fights but it is NOTHING compared to how horrible I was treated in the past! =D SO I SAY GO FOR IT!! You deserve happiness and if he makes you happy sweetie, then follow your heart! Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you!
2007-10-25 03:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kassie D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything is possible, I mean think about it, Our grandparents got married after knowing each other for two dates, sometimes one. I knew my husband online for about 6 months and then we met and got married 14 days later. We have been together for two wonderful years and I still feel about him the day I first set eyes on him. Just becareful, but if you know you know. There is no need to wait a year or whatever else people tell you, you are living your life and you never know when the journey will end, so enjoy it as best you can!
2007-10-25 04:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tankerwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be possible that you found your soul-mate.
But I liked the part where you did not compromise on the sex issue. You should guard your most valuable commodity for the person that you are willing to spent the rest of your life with and this should be mutual between you. Take your time and and learn about him as much as you can on how he spends his free time, what kind of a family back ground has he. Also try to find people that know him and ask about him what they think of him.
You can't get enough being careful in these day.
2007-10-25 03:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hon... once in a while, we meet someone with whom we feel a strong connection and attraction. And it's a very good feeling! I don't think it's "wrong" by any means to feel you may have found your soulmate.
However, please DO take the time to get to know this guy.. it's only been a couple of weeks. In my 50 years of experience on this planet, i've come to find it takes at least a year to get to know someone well. Sometimes longer.
My last two beau's seemed like very nice gentlemen, but i didn't rush into anything. I was crazy about one of them, and after several months, i learned he was still hung up on his ex wife, and didn't treat his family very well, had anger issues and was depressive. I realized he wasn't for me, even though i was in love with the guy. The second boyfriend was ok, nice and polite... treated me well, but turned out to be the biggest liar on the face of the earth! He said he was going to buy a second home, said he sent his daughter to college and paid for it all (why would you tell someone this at all?), and told me he was financially "set"... well, 8 months later he got a sherriff's notice on his front door that the house would be sold in front of the courthouse because he was thousands of dollars behind on his mortgage (for the 5th time in three years)...He never even helped raise his daughter, let alone send her to college or anywhere else... he wasn't involved in her life and doesn't even know if she was in the school band or was a cheerleader.
I'm not saying this will happen in your case, but please take it one day at the time. And i'm hoping for YOUR sake that this guy turns out to be the man of your dreams, hon! You deserve good things, and i hope this guy is "the one"!
take care of you.... and i wish you all the best.
2007-10-25 03:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i am surprised you could ask such a question at your age. Love takes time. Definately infatuated with each other, but not wot worry thats how it begins. Good luck
2007-10-25 03:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soulmates are typically not romantic lovers, but that doesn't mean you haven't found someone who would be a great match for you. After 2 wks it's a bit soon for love to have developed but you're on your way to getting to know one another.
Enjoy and best wishes to you both. ☺☻
2007-10-25 03:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope for the sake of humanity that it is! It certainly sounds promising especially considering he doesn't mind waiting, Good luck to you.
2007-10-25 04:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Linz10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋