Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

My sister lives in North Carolina and I live in West Virginia. She lives about 5 - 6 hours away. My husband has this weekend off and my mom invited me and my husband to go to my sisters house with her, so she didn't have to go alone. He won't go because he doesn't want to have to deal with my sisters roommates 3 kids. I haven't been to her house in a little over 2 years, because he won't go. I've begged him to go, and I can't go without him... personal reasons. But Then he pulls this BS of "well when she comes in she doesn't make the effort to come and see you. So why should we drive 5 - 6 hours to go see her when we'll just get stuck babysitting anyways." She's only able to come in for 2 days at a time. And to make it easy for her we usually go to my moms to see her since she just lives down the road. He says I'm being selfish. But I don't think I am. My mom even told him that he could take the car and go site seeing, since he's never been to North Carolina. But he still won't go.

2007-10-25 06:58:28 · 14 answers · asked by Kaye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy claims he wanted to go out with me. some days he doesnt say anything. other days hes all on me and wants to talk. like yesterday he was hugging me and telling his guy friends i was going to be his girl. today he only said Hi. he has my number and NEVER CALLS. and then he gave me his new number . i dont understand

2007-10-25 06:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by halo1 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple of weeks ago i went on a trip to Poland to visit Auschwitz and i met a guy in my group that i only really said one sentence to. We started talking over the internet and he asked me to coffee...the thing is...there doesn't seem to be any...spark. I mean, i don't know if you can tell if there's chemistry between two people over a screen, but he doesn't seem exactly my type. So, should i go for coffee or shouldn't i? :)

2007-10-25 06:57:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my ex-boyfriend wants to see my baby after it is born but because i live with my parents they don't want him to come over to this house because he and his mom treated us bad when we went over to tell them the good news. Well I don't mind him coming over but what can he do? Can he go to court and force my parents to let him in the house so that he can see the baby? I mean I would say yes but this isn't my house. And me and my ex don't really get along. i don't want the baby moving back and forth every few days and I can't move out at the present time. What are his options? or mine?

2007-10-25 06:56:48 · 15 answers · asked by That Person 3 in Family

I do when im home alone

2007-10-25 06:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by Sebastian 3 in Singles & Dating

On the Headline News, Nancy Grace was talking about this woman who was driving her vehicle with her two children, and she was drunk. It is all over the news, she is looking at a year in jail. This is her second offense, same thing different day. However, if this was a guy who had drove drunk with his kids he would probably be looking at life in prison without the possibility of parole. The laws are so different for men than women. Did you know that when it comes to child support, a guy has to pay something like 44% of the average income in his state? If a woman ever had to pay child support to a man she only has to pay 23%. Where is the justification of that? I believe that the law looks at women as homemakers or something. Where is this equality that they sought when they wanted to vote? Why is their such a difference? In every aspect of life, from approval of a loan, to child support, to sex, to whatever, why is society like this, and why doesn't someone fix it?

2007-10-25 06:56:10 · 11 answers · asked by Living In Fast Forward 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend I will call "Kelly" Her mother and father just told her that her dad slept with her bestfriend "Tinas" mom...when she got pregnant with Tina. Tina and Kelly look alot alike..same hair, skin, etc. Tina does not look like her dad, but this other guy. But Kelly does not want to tell her because she is afraid of breaking up their family and Tina thinking she is a liar. They are both almost 24!Their "families" have been friends since they were little. I am really close to Tina and want her to know but also do not think it is my business. Please help because I do believe Tina should know who her real father is, but if it is not true then what it just opened a can of worms. HELP I feel guilty holding it in.

2007-10-25 06:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Sadbrowneyes13 4 in Friends

what are your thoughts? is it cheating.... is it okay since it's not physical?

2007-10-25 06:53:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She broke up with me last week and she sent all the gifts that i bought her back to me to me, what should i do?
I really really feel insulted, bcz i loved her and i spent so much time when i bought those gifts. Even thought they are not the best but it was the best i could afford.
Does this mean she doesent love me anymore?
Do you think if i call her i will put myself down?
We have been with each other for almost three years i dont know if i should call her or if i should do the same thing she did to me. Please help me! i am so sad

2007-10-25 06:53:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me add that they hang out all the time. It could make things awkward if you weren't on good terms with said sister, however, she has been not nice to you in any way, shape, or form.

2007-10-25 06:52:51 · 4 answers · asked by coffeerapper02 1 in Friends

My neighbor always finds someways to put his hands on my? He has only did it a couple of times, once in front of his wife, so I didnt pay it any attention. But yesterday after our kids got on the bus he grabbed the back of my neck playfully and let his hand fall down my back and pulled away right before he touched my butt. It was very uncomfortable, what should I think? Was he just playing around? Either way I know my husband would totally try to kill him, so I didnt mention it, dont really need the drama. What should I do? BTW, I know Im attractive, but I dont flirt. His wife says he likes teasing me, but I dont think she would of liked it. We just moved in a few months ago and I really like the neighborhood and other neighbors and I dont dislike him, I just dont want him touching me.

2007-10-25 06:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetpea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 06:49:44 · 14 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We live together with his room mate, and are moving out on our own come January. Lately Ive been feeling so lost.. like I dont know who I am anymore. And I've been feeling like I just want to have fun, not be in a serious relationship. But he's so perfect. Hes what every girl could ever want. Hes so nice, sweet, funny. He helps me out with anything i ever ask ( and lots of the time I dont even need to ask). But I just feel like its not right for me right now. Am I a terrible person?! I dont want to break his heart .. but I dont want us to move out and then break up and then he has no room mate either!
What should I do? Should I follow the part in me that says
"Just stick with it. Hes ever girls dream guy! He loves you to bits!!" or should I follow the
" Your only 20! Go out and have some fun! Find who you really are. Dont worry about anything!"

2007-10-25 06:48:45 · 20 answers · asked by flygurl_037 3 in Singles & Dating

It just happened last night, and he said that his mom kept telling him a bunch to do. Did he really mean to not call me or just forgot or got busy? I he also apologized for not calling me. Please Help!!!

2007-10-25 06:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

Many marriages end because of outside interference. Why is this?

2007-10-25 06:46:16 · 25 answers · asked by 504hotboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your man talked you into having a three-some, would you want to be with a close friend or a complete stranger? If you had to chose now, who would you pick?

2007-10-25 06:45:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With your significant other? With you parents? Etc...

2007-10-25 06:44:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know why but, i'm horny nearly all of the time. The slightest thing can make me horny. Masturbation doesn't please me enough. Maybe you could help me come up with some ideas on how to control these feelings. Any masturbation tips?

2007-10-25 06:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by FreezingCold:( 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl and I've never had an orgasm.
What's it feel like (other than it feeling good), and how will I know when I have one?

2007-10-25 06:41:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im almost always happy but then it can change in like 1 second. I am happy and then the other second I start to cry :/ and I just wonder why am I like this... its very hard

2007-10-25 06:40:38 · 29 answers · asked by yepso 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my wife went to work, to drop of a gift, in a trouser suit, and as she walked in a guy (18) said ''wow, you look hot!).

He works with her and to be honest, it made her day.

I'm going away for a week with work tomorrow and I guess I'm just being paranoid.

My wife is 30 and I'm 37 (the little git is 18!!).

Should I be worried?

Also, she has a works do for the girl she bought a gift for on Saturday, and I'm encouraging her to go as she does not go out much.

I'm kicking myself, even though I trust her, as she does not drink and I think she could be led astray..

2007-10-25 06:39:06 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking about divorcing my husband. He has been abusive in the past (over a year ago), has not worked the majority of our marriage, has used drugs, cheated, etc. He recently turned things around as in got a job, stopped using drugs, and has been doing good for about three months now. However, he is still a jerk and verbally abusive toward me. We have one child together and one coming in two months. How long does the process take, about how much does it cost, and what will I have to do to have full custody with no visitation?

2007-10-25 06:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you could get married abroad, why would you and where would you?

2007-10-25 06:38:07 · 9 answers · asked by :) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it best to come clean, even though you no they will never ever speak to you again?

2007-10-25 06:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by BeeBee 2 in Friends

2007-10-25 06:35:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you are aware of one of their groups cronic Hepititis C infection. Should I say something to them or the the health department? They have small children and I'm afraid that they are in danger.

Sex is a natural experience with adults and should be enjoyed but the exposure in this group can lead to serious health problems even death.

What should I do, if anything, or let them have their fun now and pay later?

2007-10-25 06:35:22 · 28 answers · asked by Mystical Oracle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I know someone in class that likes me, because he would always try to sit by me and we would do our classwork together. He always give me weird stares too, smiling all the time. I can tell this boy likes me, but whenever I do, I tend to hold my feelings back for some reason. I like this boy too, but I am a bit shy and I don't know how to show my feelings or at least become friends with him. Right now all we are is really good classmates. So advice anyone???

2007-10-25 06:33:42 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Phoebe 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have recently got engaged but currently both still live with our parents, as we are saving for a deposit as we dont wanna waste money renting.
I've been recieveing a fair bit on critism from people who say that you shouldn't even consider getting engaged until you have your own property. I was just wondering if this is the norm.

2007-10-25 06:33:01 · 26 answers · asked by Kelly M 1 in Weddings

My husband of 20 years and I have had our ups and downs in the last few years. We nearly separated a couple of times. During a discussion last night, he accused me of talking to people about him. I admitted I had, but not for a year. I asked if he had talked to anyone about me. He said no, but I could tell he was lying. He splits hairs, so I asked it several different ways. He said no. Later, he said he had talked to a friend (who I know of, but do not know and never see). Why would he have lied about this? I was actually asking because his former secretary called him last Sat nite when I was out with the kids. There are several calls between them on his phone over the last few weeks - on Thurs and Fri at the end of the day.

2007-10-25 06:31:48 · 17 answers · asked by xxxxxxxxx 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going with this boy RON for 3 years and i love hiim to death on and off but i alos have been goin with this other boy RYAN for one year and half the Ryan treats me like a queen but the other treats me like a dog i really love Ron and he suppose to be having a baby on the way what do I do?HELP?

2007-10-25 06:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating