I have a friend I will call "Kelly" Her mother and father just told her that her dad slept with her bestfriend "Tinas" mom...when she got pregnant with Tina. Tina and Kelly look alot alike..same hair, skin, etc. Tina does not look like her dad, but this other guy. But Kelly does not want to tell her because she is afraid of breaking up their family and Tina thinking she is a liar. They are both almost 24!Their "families" have been friends since they were little. I am really close to Tina and want her to know but also do not think it is my business. Please help because I do believe Tina should know who her real father is, but if it is not true then what it just opened a can of worms. HELP I feel guilty holding it in.
2007-10-25 06:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Sadbrowneyes13 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Who do you think you are telling me that I can't wait to destroy them. I care about her and that is why I feel guilty. I can hold onto it for the rest of my life, but I feel bad.
2007-10-25 07:14:19 · update #1
If I were you I would just not say anything at all. You don't know how this will affect your friend. And, what if it's not true?? So let the chips fall where they may. Let her parents tell her if they feel it is necessary. But, don't be the bearer of bad news. Because even though you want to help, you may just be doing the opposite. Then what??
2007-10-25 11:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by missymommyof3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare open your mouth!!! Nobody HAS to know who the sperm donor was unless illness or a possible marriage between siblings, er half siblings is on the table.
You've got a dirty little secret and you just can't wait to destroy people with it. This is NOT your concern.
2007-10-25 13:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's really something for the parents to tell her. You have no reason to fell guilty, it's the parents that should be doing that.
2007-10-25 13:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by V 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋