Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

Speaking of my wife. she had a procedure performed to somehow widen the opening a bit, which helped some, but it's still uncomfortable for her. I am 8.5" and 6" around.

2007-10-25 07:51:56 · 20 answers · asked by TB28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Now I know that cheating has been around since the dawn of mankind. It will never go away. I KNOW THAT! Its just more talked about now. I know. But for the sake of a conversation. . .

Do you feel that cheating has become as big of a problem we're always hearing about? Do you feel that people are really stepping out on their spouses and partners more now?

And do you think that those who do. . . even really care?

2007-10-25 07:51:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i realy like this guy but he has two girlfriends and there fine with dating the same gut because there best friends but i want them to break upp becausei want to date him is that mean?

but i want to know how to break them upp i dont even now the girls hes dating but the guy i like does have a tendencey of breaking upp with girls in about a week after they go out should i wait for him or be the breaker upper

2007-10-25 07:47:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a woman:
I hope to never know someone as ugly and lowlife as that in my life.
She is a country bumpkin!
She is a weak *** punk coward!
She is strange and stupid and a liar!
She is someone who will never be satisfied!
She is POS!
She is someone who has no compassion for people especially my children!

2007-10-25 07:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is for those of you who have kids, especially older kids, like in their teens now. In other words, you've been at this a while and know what it's all about. If you could start over at the point before you had kids, KNOWING WHAT YOU KNOW NOW, would you have kids again?

I'm asking this because there was a poll taken in some women's magazine (Women's Day or Good Housekeeping or something) that asked that same question, and over 80% of the women who responded said NO, if they knew then what they know now, they wouldn't have kids. They cited things like the financial drain, the emotional drain, the time drain, the drain on their very life energy, etc. as reasons why they would not.

When the results came back, people were truly shocked that THAT many women wouldn't have kids if they could go back and do it all again, knowing what they know now.

So, would you?
Why, or why not?

2007-10-25 07:46:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi im a nice guy but always the jerky guys alway hav the girl of my dream wat should i do

2007-10-25 07:46:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do night fill in a supermarket 2 nights a week, Ive worked there for 7 yrs now. The boss went away this week and left me in charge, the only problem is that im the youngest there (22). One woman is new and doesnt like me explaining anything to her, I think it is the age thing. Anyways, 3 times tonight someone tryed to break into the centre by breaking the glass, when it was nearly home time about 4 of them lifted up the rollar door of the shop to go have a look at the glass,I asked them all to come inside so I could close off that area because it was unsafe and the people could have still been out there and I didnt want them getting into the shop. She gave me a dirty look and started saying she was worried about her car, wich was parked around the other side of the centre no where near the broken window. Would you have said the same to keep everyone and the shop safe in you were left in charge? Would you have a problem with someone younger that you being in charge for the night?

2007-10-25 07:46:32 · 4 answers · asked by Kenny K 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and this guy have been stalking for a while and i think i like him, we're going out next week for the first time but i've heard he's a bit of a player.

should i risk it?

2007-10-25 07:44:37 · 29 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pretty sure my husband is an "online cheater" But, he knows how to delete everything in the computer, so how the heck do i catch him? any ideas are greatly appreciated!

2007-10-25 07:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He looks like my ex. He acts like my ex. I hate my ex. Should I cancel?

2007-10-25 07:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In March my Dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I tried to call my husband, who had been at a concert the night before, all day long from the hospital. My brother had stopped at my house, woke my husband up and told him the news and that I needed him and wanted him to come up there (2 hours away.) Well, he went back to bed and slept all day with his ringer off. He finally called after 5 pm. When I was talking to him about it he said, "that's life, people get cancer and die everyday. Your dad is not the first one. It's sad but its life." Then when I came home the next day he ended up going to 2 more concerts through the course of the weekend, spending no time with me. It got worse, I completely with drew myself and he did his own thing which was being drunk all of the time. Now he feels threatended because I have a myspace page and get tons of requests from men, and now wants to work on our marriage and says he is so sorry he hurt me so deeply. Do I forgive and how?

2007-10-25 07:40:27 · 28 answers · asked by Amber D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I am 20 years old and he is 23 years old. We are definetly in love and talk of marriage has been briefly mentioned. Although, in the last couple of times I have hung out with him, he really has been talking about marriage alot with me and always says that he wants to marry me someday and father my children. As great as it is to hear that from someone you love, I personally think it is too soon to talk about marriage all the time. I want to know why he feels the need to talk about it with me, and if it could be a way of keeping me around (a way of controlling me to stay with him). Don't get me wrong, I love him very much and someday I can see myself ending up with him, but I personally think that talking about something so important all the time somewhat defeats its meaning. Please help me with this situation and how I should handle it. What should I say back to him from now on?

2007-10-25 07:40:00 · 1 answers · asked by ITALIAN7 1 in Singles & Dating

I've would like your opinion about living together vs. not living together before marriage. I've been reading yahoo answers about the pros and cons of living together before you are married and how it could fail, but I don't hear about marriages when they don't live together their marriage failed. I've also read all the statistics about living together and marriage failure, but I notice that it is coming from a religions point of view and they really don't tell you about the fail marriages when following religious doctrine. I would like to know if you are divorced now, was it because that you lived with your spouse first before you got married and now you're getting a divorced or do you wish that you could of lived with your spouse prior to you getting married so you can know more about your spouse before you married them? Do you regret living together or not living together first?

2007-10-25 07:39:27 · 13 answers · asked by bitterly_sweetness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend, we'll call him D had a physical fight with his wife while drunk. They both didn't really hurt each other, but both definitely lost control in the heat of the moment. (she is bigger than him, so I know it was an equal fight)

He says this is the only time they have ever hurt each other, and both apologized profusely after things calmed down. In looking up signs of a healthy relationship, they seem to hit all the marks. When looking up signs of an abusive relationships, codependency was the only thing that seemed to fit. (D disappeared off the face of the earth when he met his wife because he was so in love w/ her)

However, being outside of the situation, I can't see the entire picture. They both acknowledge what they did wrong and have forgiven each other. But do you think they need outside help like counseling? I just want my friend to be okay and wanted some insight on extreme arguments vs abusive relationships.

2007-10-25 07:38:13 · 15 answers · asked by rorybuns 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Position? If you or her is in control. I just need ideas, please help!!!

2007-10-25 07:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have been close friends with this guy for like ever. 3.5 years. (that is long when you are a teen) anyways he's been going out with katelyn for 5 months. she was going to a different school so mine and rj's relationship stayed fine. I would hear all the crap like him saying, " i feel like crap when im around here...i feel like im always saying sorry"...stuff like that. and i would just nod. (never bagged on her) OH, by the way did i tell you she i beautiful and he has no back bone. so, she decides to go to his school the next year, which is also my school. So over the summer me and rj hang out like normal, everything seems fine. then the next school years starts and i see the girlfriend she stares at me all weird and i go over to say "hi" to rj, she glares at me and he totally ignores me. then later that day i see rj all by himself. i ask whats up and he just walks away. apparently she thinks i hate her. so is it my fault or his or the girlfriends? Whats the reason?

2007-10-25 07:36:31 · 18 answers · asked by thespian2damax 2 in Friends

If you do or don't please tell ur age and how long you have been married or have been in a partnership? Just asking to see what the "norm" is, if there is a "norm".

2007-10-25 07:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

I know a couple who are getting married in a little over a week and I only found out a few weeks ago. Due to personal circumstances I am pretty broke at the moment. We're friends (co-workers first but still good friends) and I am one of only a handful of people invited to their super casual wedding (basically a civil cerimony). What can I get them?

2007-10-25 07:34:55 · 20 answers · asked by artsyfartsy 4 in Weddings

And he said it was "not too infrequently." We didn't part on good terms (broke up 18 mo. ago), but we have occasionally e-mailed and wished each other well. He says now that he's thinking about me and wants to meet up again. I would like to have more friends, so I am interested in talking. However, I'm afraid I'd end up doing physical things even with him, even though I'm not emotionally interested in him. Does it sound like he's interested, romantically or sexually? Or should I just not worry about that and go hang out? I am not sure what to think.

2007-10-25 07:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 & want to resolve issues w/ my father before I get married next year. My father mentally & emotionally abused me and physically abused my little brother (who is 20 now) for 10 years. He took us from our mom, didn't use the child support on us, didn't feed us adequately, left us at home for weeks alone,etc.
He had my baby brother (12y/o now) w/ another woman. And I thought my father would realize he was a bad parent & do better, but he treats my baby brother badly too. He constantly asks me "Why does daddy treat me like this? Why doesn't he love us?"
I want him realize how he has horribly affected me & my brothers' lives! I want an apology & I want him to change the way he treats us! In the past I've tried to speak to him but he ends the subject by ignoring me or screaming at me to make me cry & scare me away.
Which do you think will get him to listen to me more?
Should I tell him in a letter or try to tell him face to face? Thanks for reading all this.

2007-10-25 07:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-25 07:32:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 07:32:04 · 31 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Family

What if the guy is so shy, he won't look at you at all?
I mean, not even a glance, when I walk in the room at college. He looks about my age, 28-30. He's in 2 classes with me, but for four days. He had no choice to smile back at me once, but because he accidentally looked at me? what is wrong with him? Does he not like me at all? Or is he too shy? Give me some examples of how you may of acted before. Serious answers Please! Thank you so much.

2007-10-25 07:30:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And did your father give you away or someone else?

My father is no longer alive so should I walk up the aisle alone?

2007-10-25 07:30:36 · 45 answers · asked by Ginny Jin 7 in Weddings

They know i am like best friends with all the guys and girls going? yet they are still worried?

2007-10-25 07:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A rather close friend of mine is having her 16th birthday on december 25 (yes, christmas). I'm not quite confident on what to get for her sweet 16th. I do have special feelings for her, and wish to get her something special. Sadly, jewelry is out of my reach; i cant find a proper place to buy them near me.
I'm planning on a buoquet of roses, a box of ferrero rocher (she loves them), and a little teddy bear (i mean a little 2 in. x 3 in. x 1 in. bear). Oh, and of course a birthday card as well. Will this be a good idea? Any better ideas? preferrably a romantic type of present/gift please.
However, the school christmas break starts on 22 december, and i won't be able to meet up with her on her birthday. the 21st will be a half school day, and we'll be going to the movies and shopping with some other friends. I'll have to give it to her on that day. Should i give it to her in the morning when we meet up at school or in the evening before we separate and return home?

2007-10-25 07:28:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive tried rubbing her shoulders..she says "ouch"..i leave notes on fridge everyday."no response"..as if no notes were not there..ill call her at work and just say "i love you ".nothin...shes even mean to her older kids..i'm trying but im getting exhausted and frustrated..doesnt seem to be an affair on her end..but dang if i aint needin some lovin..can yall help me out with some advice?

2007-10-25 07:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by bojack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my 1st year of high school and already I have a semi bad reputation. People call me a ho who don't even know me. My guess behind that is because I hang around a lot of boys(they are mainly my friends because girls love to fight and argue but I am not like that). They say that I am a ho because they see me with a different boy everyday. I mean if you don't want to see me with different boys then don't look at me then. I have asked all of my upperclass friends do they think I am a ho and they all said no. I asked the 9th grade boys do they think I am a ho and they also said no. Only the girls(9th) call me that, I guess because I don't hang around them. I am still a virgin, I dont have sex. Well I am a smart, pretty, black girl and I am not trying to sound conceited but a lot of boys want to "talk" to me, I talk to them as friends but nothing more than that. I am very misjudge, my mamma and my close girl friend said that it's because the girls are jealous of me and they are hatin

2007-10-25 07:26:41 · 22 answers · asked by Kiara W 2 in Friends

Well that girl I talked about on the other questions now is going out with a guy that asked her out... I was really good friends with her too... I don't know what I should do... I'm 13 if you didn't read the other questions... but read it to get more informed..

2007-10-25 07:25:45 · 6 answers · asked by First l 1 in Singles & Dating

omg i love mustangs love love love hella my friends jsut talk **** but whatever i lovwe them. so tell me what you think of them. i love mustangs if your aguy send me a message and tell me what you like about them hey maybe i will buy a mustang when i get older god they are beutiful

2007-10-25 07:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by brandy 2 in Singles & Dating