i realy like this guy but he has two girlfriends and there fine with dating the same gut because there best friends but i want them to break upp becausei want to date him is that mean?
but i want to know how to break them upp i dont even now the girls hes dating but the guy i like does have a tendencey of breaking upp with girls in about a week after they go out should i wait for him or be the breaker upper
2007-10-25 07:47:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, if he is dating two girls at once, even if they know about it and do not mind, he is a cheater and he does not respect any girl.
Second of all, if he is cheating now, he will cheat on you.
Third of all, he is a crush and therefore you are not able to think rationally about him. He is not that great a catch. I am absolutely sure of that.
Take care,
Troy
2007-10-25 07:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing unusual, as a matter of fact it's almost natural.
Humans after all are 'animals' just as much as any other creature on this planet, the natural want for someone your interested in not being with someone else is a natural thing.
I wouldn't call it mean, but I would sugguest becomming friends with him first, see if you like his personality. A common mistake made in relationships (from 16 - 60) is mistaking physical attraction for emotional attraction.
Physical attraction general ends up in you breaking up in due time. Emontional attraction can end up in a wonderful relationship.
2007-10-25 07:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not mean of you to want this guy to break up with his two girlfriends, but it's VERY selfish. Bear in mind this guy may not be interested in you in that way, and if that's the case it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. So even if he did break up with his two girlfriends -- and chances are he won't since these two girls are dumb enough not to mind that they have to share him -- there's no guarantee he'd go out with you anyway. Don't meddle. Wait until he's single and then make your move.
2007-10-25 07:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you have a crush on him, doesn't mean he has any interest in you and if he was interested in you , wouldn't he be dating you? Even if you succeed in breaking them up, there is no guarantee he would suddenly be interested in you and if he found out you had anything to do with breaking them up, he may hate you for it. If he only lasts a week with each girl, why do you need to break them up? - you'll be the flavor of the week soon (or not) and then he'll break up with you
2007-10-25 07:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MM seems a tuffy really but would you want to date a guy only for a week? sounds like he casn't keep hold of a women much longer then that or he is a player!!.
O'well yes you like him so if you only want to see him for a week then see if he is interested in you and then wait for him you will get your chance if he likes you, but first you must find out if he likes you in that way.
As for the other girls it seems to me that if he would date two he would date 3 or 4 :)
good luck
2007-10-25 07:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rick K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is mean. Imagine if you were one of those other girls. Would you want someone chasing him? He breaks up with them in about a week? He is not a good catch dear.
2007-10-25 07:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go there, it isnt mean to want it, just mean to do stuff to get it. But like i said, dont go there, if he is dating two girls, than he is playing with fire already, he is a different kind of guy, if you started dating him don't you think he'll start looking for a number 2 girl friend?
2007-10-25 07:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by zorro1701e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really want a guy who is dating 2 girls at the same time and is breaking up with them so fast? think about it and i am preety sure you wouldnt want to be the "that" girl
2007-10-25 07:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by mon amour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant get over your sad little existence. Leave them alone. If it works for them they should keep doing what they're doing. Breaking them up for your own sick selfish pleasure is just coniving. If you want him so bad, be his third girlfriend. If they other two don't like it maybe that's what'll break them up. Who knows, maybe he doesn't want you. Have you ever thought of that?
2007-10-25 07:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by pinkcandyjunkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, It's common for that to happen, If your in Junior High, That relationship...Realistically won't work out.
But there is more fish in the sea. So don't Be down.
:) Hope this helped!
2007-10-25 07:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by brittany;<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋