Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

How do you become a PI who specializes in catching cheating spouses?
Do you need degree's etc...?

2007-10-25 08:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of one year did not give me anything for sweetest day. He says it's a made up holiday. So, we were wondering how much people actually celebrate it? And if you do, what did you do for that day?

2007-10-25 08:42:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ayy soo it been lyke 5 months since me n diz gurl been goinqq outt
Butt we juss havnt kiss yett...umm jus wondernqqq is the relantionshipp goinqq well 0r goinq nott so good??..wat should i Do??

2007-10-25 08:41:51 · 19 answers · asked by Masta 1 in Singles & Dating

I am miserable and all I can think of is her she is everything to me so how does one stop the hurt? how does one move on ? I cant get her out of my heart mind and soul I have been this way since may when she ended it and when I try to move on I get an email or a phone call. and all of it comes back.

2007-10-25 08:41:26 · 11 answers · asked by bubbac308 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm starting to show a little, so I don't really feel sexy in something that's skin-tight, but I still want to surprise my husband with a sexy costume for Halloween. He absolutely loves my belly, so he wouldn't care either way. So, any suggestions are welcomed! By the way, we're newlyweds--married August 4th--if that helps somehow...Thanks!

2007-10-25 08:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by Shorty1185 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 08:39:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The guy that I've been casually dating for a few months now is a very 'keep to himself' type of guy. The other night, I asked him if he was excited about our hometown team being in the WS, and he really opened up. He told me all about his family and problems that he's having at home. He talked for almost 2 hours. I really do love him and all of this made me feel even closer to him, but I still think that, to him, this is still a casual thing. Or does the fact that he's starting to open up like this mean that maybe this is becoming more than just a casual thing to him too?

2007-10-25 08:39:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 08:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 08:37:57 · 23 answers · asked by brutus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend was really mad when she found out her husband wore dentures and did not tell her beforehand and it turned her off of kissing him? Is that shallow of her?

2007-10-25 08:37:03 · 8 answers · asked by Lean on Me 4 in Singles & Dating

If they are not your spouse of if your single.

2007-10-25 08:36:18 · 40 answers · asked by Shorty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in this behaviour for about 5 yrs and would like to stop but i find it very difficut to stop

2007-10-25 08:36:09 · 13 answers · asked by mboma 1 in Singles & Dating

I know.. its youung.
Everyone is expecting me to be supportive.
That's all I ever hear. Be supportive be supporitive.
But how can I be so supportive when I don't think that she should keep the baby. I know its not my choice, but I know her she's my cousin and she is NOT ready for a child.
I can't possibly pretend to be okay with everything when im not, and Im repremanded when I speak my thoughts.
Do you blame me?
What should i do?

2007-10-25 08:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

like she is not leaving any time soon.how could i tell her that she must leave...mind u i have 3 teenagers of my own.

2007-10-25 08:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by pebbles 1 in Family

Im single and 2 really hot guys go to my school they both asked me out on the same day and they are both real fun and smart and cute and I could just go on forever but I dont know what I should do and to make things worse they are best friends and ive known them since the 1st grade and they are reall great and they both have been their for me I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP im in the 8th grade

2007-10-25 08:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The old men that I date have arthritis in their hands and can't unhook bras. Will this make me look easy?

2007-10-25 08:33:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 08:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by captive101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 08:33:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has not given me any verbal commitment of "being together" but his actions speak otherwise. He calls everyday, he is "there" for me, we visit each other long-distance, and he isn't seeing anyone. And no, he isn't the type of guy to take advantage. So that theory is out.

For sure he likes me, but does he love me?
Guys, what can you tell from his calling everyday behavior.

2007-10-25 08:32:44 · 1 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

ok so i was sittin right behind her in class, and i had this awesome hairstyle that day (thick long hair + curls)

Anyway, I was sittin behind her (to the right) and the proffesor gets really boring,and as a reflex i looked away from the proffessor and right at her. Guess what I saw?

She was TOTALLY eyeing me with her pupils. Her pupils were pointing straight at me, but without turning her head around.

and once i looked at her she looked away pretending like she wasnt looking at me. but i could tell.

HOWEVER, i have seen her with a skinny scrawny guy... her boyfriend??

Do you think do I have a shot talking to her or what?

Thanks

2007-10-25 08:32:38 · 22 answers · asked by geetar 4 in Singles & Dating

My parents stopped supporting me after 4 years of being in college. They are not helping me with anything. I moved out so I could be close to the university (currently in a University apartment) and have asked them for help for school, but they refuse to give it to me, because they are mad that I moved out even though I am 23. I am a full time student and I have to have a full time job in order to make it on my own. But it is so difficult to keep up my grades and my parents refuse to help me. The said they would rather support my dancing that would cost thousands of dollars even though I cannot make any money doing that than helping me with my future. Do you think this is wrong?

2007-10-25 08:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by brighid 2 in Family

I had broken up with my girl for about 2 weeks now.. she called me yesterday and she broke down to tears and told me on how much she missed me .also she confessed to me she thought it was easy to forget about me but its not possible. I tried to stay away from contacting her beacuase I was moving on with my life already , but now Im so lost .... I dont know whats the right thing to do.. I dont want to lose her but at the same time I do beacuase I feel shes not the one for me... :( HELP OPTIONS

2007-10-25 08:30:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married this December and am having four bridesmaids. I have no clue what to get them as a gift for being in the wedding. I'm looking to spend no more than $25 a person. What are some good ideas for gifts that all four girls would like?

2007-10-25 08:29:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Basically, I got dumped by my boyfriend on a text message. We have had one conversation after that incident which he claims he wants to be friends but refuses to see me. I had a very upsetting day yesterday and decided to call him. Needless to say, he declined my phone calls. Question is: I left him a very angry but suttle message on his voice mail. Needless to say, the message ended something to the effects of, "When you can come up to me, face to face then i will respect you as a Man". Am i just taking this too personal or did i react the wrong way?

2007-10-25 08:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my fiance and I are getting married next November and we're trying to figure out what all we should register for.

After our wedding we are going to move into an apartment thats attached to his grandmothers house. Therefore our kitchen will be her kitchen, shared bathroom, and we will be sharing the washer and dryer.

We are 19 and 21, so she offered the apartment so bills wouldnt be a problem while we are building our new house.(we are going to pay her even though she insist on us not too) (for the extra water and electricity)

The apartment includes, a large bedroom, with fireplace, a seperate room ( living room) and also a utility room and closet.

What all do you think we should register for????

2007-10-25 08:29:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She's been like that for more than a year. She messed up, joined bad crowds and we had no choice othe than give her a harsh punishment, she was grounded from almost everything for several months. She changed her behavior and even agred she had messed up, but goty extremely resentful cause she thinks the punishment was too harsh and long and she was sincerely sory and we didnt trust her. She talks to us only when necessarym hates our presence. She doesn't get in troubles, doesn't break rules, is an excellent student, has many activities, even volunteered to help in our church. Everybody likes her, but at home she's always resentful, does her best to avoid us. We tried to talk, said we love her and wanted her best, but she doesn't change. This has been extremely hurtful to us and has disturbed our lives, though she doesn't get in troubles. She says it's her right to be like that, is doing nothing wrong and asked her to respect how she is. I don't what to do, this is a hard situation.

2007-10-25 08:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra 1 in Family

I happen to see my ex a few minutes ago, he saw me too. He called me and told me to turn around so he could see me. This jerk left me 3 weeks ago for his co-worker, they life together.
I had been with him for 61/2 years until he shaked up with his so called lesbian girlfriend (them 2 been roommates for 1 year now) she got ride of her girlfriend and them 2 hooked up.
I am so confused, he talking about want to see me to turn around, that's all i need. We talked on the phone for a while, there wasn't that much to say, I still love him, however, he is in love with his new girl. He came back to me to stay for 5 weeks to write a dera john letter that he tried to love me again, but it wasn't the same. Why you want me to turn around so he could see me?
What a jerk, I am glad now i did not turn around.
Do you guys think he wants to keep a door open in case his s... doesn't work out?

2007-10-25 08:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 08:27:20 · 29 answers · asked by Terri A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can a person deal with living with others. They were so used to having their own place. They are two adults. They have three children. The wife is ready to move. ASAP! The wife has to stay with the husband's 2nd cousin. How can she deal with this situation? They are seeking their own place. She has lived with her mil for five years and now this. She is very uncomfortable. What can she do? Her other family is crazy and there is no hope in staying with other people. She has no choice but to stay with other people.

2007-10-25 08:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know a girl who is friends with this other girl ok. They are both friends and one of them takes her friends sweater, and cuts it up into a million pieces with scizzors because she thought it was "funny". Ridiculous right?

2007-10-25 08:21:21 · 4 answers · asked by Nooreen I 2 in Friends