Basically, I got dumped by my boyfriend on a text message. We have had one conversation after that incident which he claims he wants to be friends but refuses to see me. I had a very upsetting day yesterday and decided to call him. Needless to say, he declined my phone calls. Question is: I left him a very angry but suttle message on his voice mail. Needless to say, the message ended something to the effects of, "When you can come up to me, face to face then i will respect you as a Man". Am i just taking this too personal or did i react the wrong way?
2007-10-25 08:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and he claims i did nothing wrong in the relationship. He just feels the need to be alone.
2007-10-25 08:30:54 · update #1
He should have had the decency to break up in person or at least by phone not just text you, but you should accept he doesn't want to be with you and let it go. Let him call you if he wants to talk and don't contact him otherwise it will push him further away.
2007-10-25 08:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to feel like that. When I was in high school I got dumped via e-mail. In this e-mail he said he wanted to be friends. I said a lot of ugly things to him and basically made a complete fool of myself. That was 2 and a half years ago and I'm still ashamed of the way I acted. I made a complete fool of myself by hounding him. As hard as it is, leave him alone. It's the best way to have no regrets. Besides, he broke up with you by a text message and clearly not worth another minute of your time.
2007-10-25 15:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by SarahE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't react in the wrong way, fact is you just let off a bit of steam. Me i think your right, he should have been a man about it but there you are. The part about not wanting to see you and needing to be alone speaks volumes to me. Do you see what I'm saying, he can't face telling you the truth. Forget this gutless wonder and find a real man.
2007-10-25 16:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave him alone he is not worth it and definitly not a man if he dumped you via text. I wouldn't want to be his friend at all. The only reason I would not have left him that kind of message or any for that matter is because I do not want him to know I am bitter.
2007-10-25 15:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a smug bastard there something he is not telling you i think there is another person involved maybe it's a man and he's ashamed lol (just to put a smile on your face) anyway on a serious note he is a little boy and don't be bothered with and immature guy like that you deserve better and he is not worth your time so don't waste your time on that idiot go out and njoy yourself after all your HOTT and young hit the clubs with your girl friends and just njoy yourself
2007-10-25 15:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by tastytreat23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's really cowardly to break off with someone by text message. It shows a lack of character.
I'd be pissed, too....however, I would also blow him off and not even bother with him. Chance are, he's met someone new and couldn't face you to break it off.
If you really want to get to have the last laugh, forget about him and act as if you could care less. Some men have huge ego's and love having a woman pining over them.
2007-10-25 15:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sally G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with you by a text message is not only showing lack of character, but immature as well. I agree with what you said to him in your message. However, after all my years of experience with dating and relationships.... (I'm 40-something) the best thing to do is...
DO NOT CALL HIM. No contact whatsoever.
If it is meant to be... he will come back to you, and you will be a strong, confident woman in his eyes and in your heart.
2007-10-25 15:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Michigan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up in a text message? That's terrible, I would have reacted the same way you did!
2007-10-25 15:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by it'sKIRA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you said to him is right on. He didn't have the balls to break up with you to your face, he wanted to be friends who never saw each other in person, and then he rejects your phone calls?? What a LOSER. Forget this guy all together.. he is a little coward.
2007-10-25 15:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Christy V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who do that sort of thing have no class!
2014-09-11 06:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by johnh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋