Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

I fell in love with this one guy and I found out that he has a girlfriend and they are all serious about each other.Well, I was in love with him but now I want nothing to do with him What can I do to avoid him because he is annoying me!I can't stand it because his girlfriend does the same thing to me!What can I do?

2007-10-25 10:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 10:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah F 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i just got a boyfriend and his name is colin, i heard from alot of girls that hes a flirt. We are hanging out sometime this week we are going to hook up for the first time and he asked me if he could finger me. I'm in 8th grade and i'm still not sure about this.

I heard he doesnt last logn with girls but i really like him. Should i let him finger me? Is this a good idea? idk please help me.

2007-10-25 10:00:58 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle S 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 21 and never seen a girl naked befroe is that bad??

2007-10-25 09:57:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok im a high school guy in chicago that has a thing for interacial dating and i find that whenever im in school i can easily get white girls but when i go out and i try to hit on a white girl thay laugh and seem not interested

Why is this happeng what does this mean? I mean not manny people call me cute or whatnot but girls still talk to me at school whats up with the public?

Evry

2007-10-25 09:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is 28 too old to go to the clubs?

I've been going out lately and have noticed that I may be becoming that "creepy old man" at the club. could this really be happening?

2007-10-25 09:55:46 · 17 answers · asked by resurrected 3 in Singles & Dating

Well i like three different girls. One ive known for about a year now and has been my good friend. Another is a grade ahead of me and the only reason i met her was because of band, Ive known her for like 9 weeks i guess. The other is also a Grade ahead of me but has carpooled with me since like third grade and is on the same swim team as me. All three are nice people but i need some help.

I think its weird how in my mind, they cycle through which i like best. Like one week ill be crazy about one and the other week its not the same. But i always like all three of them. Kinda confusing which way do i go?

Btw both the ones that are a grade ahead of me are short. the one in my grade is the same size as me. Does this mean i like short people? And their all brunette does that mean i like brunettes?


Sorry thats its such a long question but this is all thats been on my mind as of late and i really need help.

2007-10-25 09:54:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has a habit of saying mean things when he's upset (things I would never say). Then when he actually apologizes it fells like a slap in the face because I think he feels like he can say whatever, however he wants and a simple word will make it all better. But it doesn't. He doesn't get it and when I tell him this, it's all of a sudden my fault. Anyone else deal with this type of immaturity?

2007-10-25 09:53:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just a question?

2007-10-25 09:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AntpxMHTIN.mO.G.aH7F5.Xsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071025134622AA4oSnY

2007-10-25 09:51:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 09:47:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What am I thinking

2007-10-25 09:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by pimple 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've met the most wonderful girl in the world. She really is adoreable and sweet and caring. Problem is, she says that she doesn't find me physically attractive. When we have sex it's really close. Lots of kissing and holding and gazing into each others eyes etc. Not the usual "bang bang" garbage that I've been used to. This is causing me a massive amount of confusion. When I'm with her, she makes me feel desirable in ways that I haven't felt before from girls that have said they do find me attractive. She says to her that what's important is the way I make her feel special and loved, but it's left me feeling nervous and it's leading to insecurity in me. Part of me says that what she shows me in a physical way should over-ride what she says and I am having real trouble connecting the two anyway cause of the desire in her eyes when we're close. I really don't know what to do, think or believe. I feel that the insecurity and lack of feeling attractive to her will eat away at me.

2007-10-25 09:44:26 · 22 answers · asked by nice_lancashire_fella 1 in Singles & Dating

if the guy has thick eyebrows what can he do to make them better. he wont go to a place and wax them as that would be too embarrasing. i know many guys do it now but that doesnt matter. if he has something like nair can he use that instead. what should he do? what do guys do?

2007-10-25 09:41:08 · 25 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

I know for a fact that it wasn't me who peed on the bed. The only other person is my boyfriend. Should I ask him what he did?

2007-10-25 09:39:59 · 41 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

he broke my heart and i dont wanna move on even though i know i should and returning a wedding dress is insanely depressing. there was another girl so i know i have to leave but he had become such a huge part of who i am, so now im lost not knowing who i am i would even know how to go on a date anymore. What if i never find someone that i can love as much as i love him?

2007-10-25 09:39:57 · 6 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

I think one should not divorce a women who can't give her a child but one must divorce a women who won't give a child.

2007-10-25 09:39:51 · 26 answers · asked by little girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20, and I'm not trying to rip on the yonger people here but are all of you really sick of all the middle/high school kids asking how should I talk to him or I think he likes me etc... It's one thing to have older, more experienced people help the younger ones out and that's really cool, but it's another to have a twelve year old ask you if it's the right time to have sex!, and getting the same question over and over. I've only been here for a week and I've pretty much stopped coming because I'm sick of solving highschool problems I got through with years ago.

and for the gradeschoolers, aren't you sick of the sarcastic answers, and lack of respect that the older people here give you?

what I'm asking is would everyone else here be alright with age catagories within the dating & relationships section? Something so that the older people could still help the younger ones get through their stuff, but find mature real conversations that apply to them as well?

2007-10-25 09:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

i have had this friend since high school, about 10 years now, he is a mutual friend of mine and my boyfriend and he has been around us and our (now) 9 year old daughter since she was born. he even visited her in the hospital. he loves her.
not unusual that 1 day he offered to watch her while me and her dad went out for a while and the next day, the friends mom called me, frantic that he was with her that late at night. she said that i have to be more careful who i have around my young daughter, which i 100% agree but he is like "uncle" to her. she said i dont know what goes through his head and i shouldnt trust him. no grown man should spend all night with a young girl like that.

when i came home, they were asleep, he was on the couch and she was laying on the side of him right next to him. i feel confident that he would never do that but since then i have been having nightmares about her being molested.

should i keep him away, does she know something i dont know about him???

2007-10-25 09:38:55 · 19 answers · asked by not the usual.. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She hasnt been able to forget him all these years and could not love me all these years but I was totally unaware of this. Suddenly when I was on tour I come to know that for past two months she has started talking to someone over phone and after investgating found out that it was his ex-lover. She now wants to go back to him and break this marraige. We have a 5 yr old kid and she is even ready to let the child with me to go to him.
She says she never loved me and can no longer stay with me. Her relation with my house members were never good. Only I know about the current situation. I always loved her truly and still love her. If i break the news to all my family members and her parents I can imagine the blast that she will face and I cannot see her getting disgraced. On the other hand I cannot live without her and my son coz I know my son cannot live without her too.
I cannot imagine life without them. I also understand that she never loved me and cannot stay with me.What do I do?

2007-10-25 09:38:21 · 35 answers · asked by Sabby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I filed for divorce last November. My first attorney was not good so I fired him and hired another. I have made it clear what I want in the settlement. Both of us still live in the house we own. My attorney says I should stay in the house until it is sold or the divorce is final. This is dragging on too long now.
I am presently looking for a job that will pay me well enough to cover childcare for our child and housing. As for the house I think we should leave as soon as we can and request that my spouse pay off two accounts of mine. That would be better than getting half of tlhe proceeds from the sale of our house. This way he can stall all he wants at least I can move on. What do you say?

2007-10-25 09:37:25 · 2 answers · asked by psi2006 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems that marriage is dying and men and women don't care, anymore.

2007-10-25 09:36:07 · 16 answers · asked by Bobbi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 09:35:57 · 5 answers · asked by THATKRAZiCHiCK. 2 in Singles & Dating

What do u look for in person? Do u judge a person by their looks or personality or what? what is your age? and the age limit for you? Im askin for reason what do u think of 57 year old man talking to 14 and 15 year old girls and saveing their pics? also girls up in their twenties? Im curious... then him talkin to them on messenger? seriously opinions here.I need them.He claims its harmless.But for him save pics then add all girls to mostly like 165 to 170 to yahoo questions and answers.Saving their real 360* pics commenting them on their profiles then messageing them on yahoo messenger.My boyfriend does me that way So Im curious what ya'll think about that.I know he likes all the girls is pics cause every real pic he sees on questions/answers he adds then views their 360* profile comment them on their pics then adds them to yahoo chat with them how u think that makes me feel huh? this is the same man cause me strain my eye in august that I keep going on about.

2007-10-25 09:34:20 · 45 answers · asked by shelia_duncan2006 2 in Singles & Dating

he gave me his home residence and his cell number, we have spoke, we know each other for a week, can i trust that he is honest because he gave me all this info?

2007-10-25 09:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by smart girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and im a freshmen in high school ive asked like 20 girls and all siad no what do i do?

2007-10-25 09:32:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would prefer answers from people who had tried the swinging lifestyle and can give me an honest opinion of both pros and cons of swinging.

Thanks.

Tony

2007-10-25 09:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by cho4o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Boy

2007-10-25 09:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by Oochoo 2 in Singles & Dating

My future husband and I are building a new home and everytime we check on the progress our married neighbors come over to chat. The female neighbor smiles, stares,stands close and touches my futrue husband plus she is doing this while she is with her husband. Do I talk to her or what? I hate to start a war before we move in but I can not tolerate this much longer. Thanks for any help.

2007-10-25 09:28:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love this one boy and i really do care about him but his X girlfriend wont let him go. so he's tied up with her. all she does to him is give him stress, and my brother dont like him because theres a rumor going around saying that he asked me and this other girl out while he was going out with this one girl. but none of that is true. and my brother wants to fight with him. what should i do? i know i can be a better girlfriend for him. help me and i'm 16 years old and never had a boyfriend so please help!

2007-10-25 09:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating