Do u judge person on looks or personality or what?

Question

What do u look for in person? Do u judge a person by their looks or personality or what? what is your age? and the age limit for you? Im askin for reason what do u think of 57 year old man talking to 14 and 15 year old girls and saveing their pics? also girls up in their twenties? Im curious... then him talkin to them on messenger? seriously opinions here.I need them.He claims its harmless.But for him save pics then add all girls to mostly like 165 to 170 to yahoo questions and answers.Saving their real 360* pics commenting them on their profiles then messageing them on yahoo messenger.My boyfriend does me that way So Im curious what ya'll think about that.I know he likes all the girls is pics cause every real pic he sees on questions/answers he adds then views their 360* profile comment them on their pics then adds them to yahoo chat with them how u think that makes me feel huh? this is the same man cause me strain my eye in august that I keep going on about.

Answer 1

I judge by looks first, then personality. If a person is gorgeous on the outside, but not nice... friendly, etc. then their looks level goes way down in my eyes.

I am 42.

Not sure what you mean by the age limit for me?

I think a 57 year old man talking to 14 and 15 year old girls online should be getting some sort of help, if not in jail.

A 57 year old man talking to girls in their 20's.... it's wrong if he is in a committed relationship with you.

Answer 2

I think you need to take a step back at the idea you judge someone...Ideally you're suppose to avoid judging and the only way you can do that is by reallly loving someone. Love generally blinds you to all the flaws you might normally pick out in your average Joe. On the other hand everyone judges and if you would rather have attractive friends or what have you. Seek a balance of Personality and looks that best compliments you. Basically you're trying to make a friend before you ever think relationship. This could go on for years and you might end up findin out that this person only compliments your personality (which is the big picture here) when you're in a particular mood. The whole thing is finding someone who you get along with no matter what kind of mood you are in...somebody that understands your moods without reacting badly instead tries to help you when you want/need it. I hope this helps a bit.

Answer 3

You have to remember girls are different from guys. Most guys will drool all over anything showing enough skin and in today's world, girls are pressured to be sexy and guys are just LOVIN' it. The issue with the 57 year old man and the underage girls is just a bit creepy, and sort of sad. Your boyfriend seems to not think you're good enough for some stupid reason. He's too interested in pictures on the internet. Find a new guy who want you for you and not to look at girls all across the nation on a little screen rather than at his real, live girlfriend. He sounds like a bit of an idiot.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

Well, I first judge people by looks and what they wear, but after that I have to like their personality. If I don't they have no shot. Sometimes, I don't find someone incredibly attractive but then I like their personality and I get attracted. I am 30 years old. I think your boyfriends behavior is inappropriate. Why is he chatting with 14 and 15 yr olds? Does he not know that is illegal and that he could get in trouble or be considered a sexual predator. Not only that, I wouldnt want my boyfriend iming strangers on messenger, saving their pics, and commenting on them. I think you need to confront him. That must make you feel so bad and insecure anout your relationship. Talk to him. If he sees nothing wrong and wont change, I think you may have to lose him. You also don;t want him sneaking around and doing this behind your back either.

Answer 5

I think in the begining weather most like to admit it or not we judge on apperance how often do you see a rich pretty person and a poor ugly homeless person hanging out,apperance says alot about a person how they feel about who they are and how they want others to feel about them, I am 24 and have a 4 year old daughter and when she is a teen such as the young girls you mentioned I wouldnt want any part in them talking to 57 year old men grown men who know better than to talk to young girl what do they talk about what could such different age groups have in common? I would not put up with such things as your spouse saving pictures of these young girls on your computer how would he feel if you were chating and saving pictures of other men young ones makes it that much worse! Im sorry to hear someone is doing this to you and I hope you can use the advice to make him stop or get out! Best wishes!

Answer 6

NO, don't ever judge someone because the prettiest person could true out to be the nastiest person in the world. When you find the right person you want to get to know the inner person. You want to like someone who has almost the same attitude as you. I'm 45 years old and I would date a man between the ages of 45-52. Follow your heart. I know if I had a man who did that he would have to go. I'll feel as if he'll do this to me. Sweetie follow your own heart because it'll never lie. GOOD LUCK> I feel your deserve better.

Answer 7

I judge a person on both looks and personality. The difference is that there is a huge range of looks that I like, but a very narrow personal quality range that I like.
For instance, looks can range from tall and dark to short and blonde, I prefer cute to stunning supermodel types etc. I also prefer curves that are proportional to height. They must also have the right smile, the kind thats not just with their mouth but their eyes too.
In terms of personality, kindness and compassion is key. There just has to be that connection that you cant explain but its there.
I am 20, very nearly 21. I wouldnt go near anyone under 17. It just makes me uncomfortable otherwise.

The guy you describe sounds like a pervert to me. I would have serious doubts about a guy that does that sort of thing.

Answer 8

i look for looks and personality, i have very high standards because i respect myself,im old enough to drink,the age limit is that he cant be more than 6yrs older than me, and as for the thing with the 57yr old man talkin to 14/15yr old girls, i think that is ssssooooo wrong! i think that the 57yr old needs to grow up. i think the 57yr old should get beaten within an inch of life...he probably has kids around that age, how would he feel if another 57 yr old was talkin to them? i think that those girls should know better too

Answer 9

I look for looks and personality. Need a good personality cuz otherwise it would be a hollow relationship. Need looks cuz i dont want them to be ugly. Age limit would probally be round 14-18 (18 would be stretching it a little tho. Just these cuz i would want someone in HS like me.) And i think that is a little strange with that old man.... yuck! O well. Hope this helps :)

Answer 10

A 57 year old man talking to 15 year old girls is pretty weird. I'd wonder about that too. He probably has some sick fintasies, but let's hope that he doesn't ever arrange to meet with them.