Is this weird? And how do i chose?

Question

Well i like three different girls. One ive known for about a year now and has been my good friend. Another is a grade ahead of me and the only reason i met her was because of band, Ive known her for like 9 weeks i guess. The other is also a Grade ahead of me but has carpooled with me since like third grade and is on the same swim team as me. All three are nice people but i need some help.

I think its weird how in my mind, they cycle through which i like best. Like one week ill be crazy about one and the other week its not the same. But i always like all three of them. Kinda confusing which way do i go?

Btw both the ones that are a grade ahead of me are short. the one in my grade is the same size as me. Does this mean i like short people? And their all brunette does that mean i like brunettes?


Sorry thats its such a long question but this is all thats been on my mind as of late and i really need help.

Answer 1

In relationships there are no long answers, just short, ignorant ones. All that aside, your dealing with the usually route us youngins get into, your figuring yourself out, your chaning almost daily, eventually you'll see deeper into people making harder to confuse yourself like this. Just enjoy the roller-coster, and try to learn as much as you can, thats your only cure.

Answer 2

Well obviously you have some decisiveness issues... But it's sometimes understandable. Go with the one in your grade. The one's older than you will probably get crap for being asked out by a guy younger than them, and it looks bad for them, and since there are multiple choices you should take the one that will most likely say yes. But never ask out all three of them. Oh and most guys like girls their height or shorter and you are definitely at least more into brunettes than blonds or something..