Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

I didn't want any, but the minister I saw last night has persuaded me to have two. A girl and a boy. The problem is how do you choose? I know lots of children, and am having real difficulty choosing between them. (Probably because I was never picked as one myself. lolol) Did you ever pick one just because of your association with their parents.

The same goes for witnesses. How did you decide?

2007-10-25 21:40:02 · 13 answers · asked by Ginny Jin 7 in Weddings

2007-10-25 21:39:23 · 1 answers · asked by Rajinder K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 21:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever noticed that? That they write novels--usually women more-so than men, but both do. Just a whole bunch of babble and redunancy. It's quite annoying. Don't you think? I mean, why? Why do they do that? After reading one of the novels, I could have summoned the same thought up in a mere two sentences. Have you ever noticed that? That they write novels. That go on and on and on and on and on and on and on. Just a whole bunch of babble and redunancy. It's quite annoying. Don't you think? I mean, why? Why do they do that? After reading one of the novels, I could have summoned the same thought up in a mere two sentences. Have you ever noticed that? That they write novels. That go on and on and on and on and on and on and on. Just a whole bunch of babble and redunancy. It's quite annoying. Don't you think? I mean, why? Why do they do that? After reading one of the novels, I could have summoned the same thought up in a mere two sentences

2007-10-25 21:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Jean-Francois 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 21:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am from Malaysia.On a sunday morning, she got up early and told me that she is going to the grocery store with my son.That was the last time i saw her.I rang her mobile but she never pick it up. She sends me a sms message 3 hours later saying she is leaving me and taking my son.And she wants to go for custody of my son and also divorce. She told she has made a police report that she is having my son with her.Me and my wife have been having our difference but we have resolve and moving in life.I have never cheated on her.We had plans for our future of what to do next.I tried searching everywhere for her but i could not find her.I made a police report but they told me that they cant do anything as she is legally the mother and she is doing it on her own will.I tried going to mobile company to trace her, but they can only trace if this is a criminal case.I cant afford a lawyer right now.I need some advise on what to do in this situation.PLEASE HELP..

2007-10-25 21:08:57 · 9 answers · asked by Ram 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our son has a friend who comes over all the time. Our son invites his friend to golf with him and toss around the football. His friends parents have always seemed odd, but yesterday, our sons friend told our son that his parents do not like our son and that the only reason that they let him come over is that our son is inviting their son to play golf. They will not let him do anything else with our son. Of course you can imagine this upset our son (who is only 12) and he was bummed... most people (especially parents) adore our son. Do we ask them why they don't like him or do we ignore it? We don't want to ruin the little opportunity they already have to hang out but at the same time, we want to protect our son and his disappointment of wondering what he has done that make them not like him so much.

2007-10-25 21:04:33 · 19 answers · asked by florida_sassy 4 in Friends

2007-10-25 20:46:26 · 29 answers · asked by ? 7 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and this girl knew i have a girl friend that i care and love since im 14. we have not sex yet as we thought we're not ready so we're both virgins. this other girl is 18 and she always attend our basketball games even i'm with my GF. she calls me many times a day that i don't answer her anymore since i told her i have a GF and will will not cheat on her. she,s very determine and told me whatever it takes you will be mine, i told her just go to my older bro since he's also 18. she said its you that i like, i know you have a big penis it shows while you play and i like men who are still virgins. should i be scared and my team mates said just go ahead and play with her and dumped her after. i dont know if it correct...whats your thought on this?

2007-10-25 20:17:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married now for 6 years. To say that we have trust issues would be an understatement. We seperated once at which time she immediatly moved another man in with her, in front of our children. Unfortunatly we have once again serperated, this time I have evidence that it was planned long before she left. She has been talking to several men on the internet both before and after she left. Now, after letting her use my computer, I have found that she has been sending nude photos of herself to at least 6 men. One minute she wants to work things out, the next she can't stand to look at me. She refuses counseling. I want to save my marriage for the kids and our vows to one another. Is it possible to save it now? I have no idea what she is capable of anymore. Should I just let her go and try to get the kids so that they have some stability in their lives? I know I have my flaws but this is getting out of hand.

2007-10-25 20:13:41 · 12 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read a post the other day that girls actually hate guys who spend money on cool toys and image. I was under the impression that "Image is everything" and so i wear designer clothes, shoes, gold jewellery, expensive TAG watch etc.. and drive a tricked-up convertible sports car all in the belief that it all helps to "impress the ladies". However i always see a lot of hot girls going out with guys who are unemployed, poorly dressed derro's, potheads and dropkicks and often wonder why i bother..Have i been misled? What's the go here?

2007-10-25 19:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f hates his job and wished to make it as a musician. While he's very talented...he kind of plays around more and gets into the drinking and getting high part a bit too much with musician friends. I find they get a little delusional thinking they're going to make it and blow a lot of money, as well as on video games.
Well, they didn't make it yet and he can hardly keep up with his bills.
I'm in-between jobs but preparing to find one ASAP.

Lately, he's been so depressed. He'll just sit there and say he wished he could die and he's not a suicidal person. He's always the guy that has to be everyone's friend and is so chit-chatty. But he doesn't show them this side.
It's not bad enough to tell him to see a dr and he would NEVER go to one anyways. But I just feel awkward when he's like this. Nothing I say or do makes him feel any better....even when I offer him a hug, he doesn't want it.
*When he gets like this he lends up drinking more and acting like an a@@. What do I do?

The fact i

2007-10-25 19:57:31 · 2 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3 in Singles & Dating

You pay rent, they knock on your door for dinner and make obvious gestures of being annoyed by your prescence, if you stand up and object to the rudeness, hours later it is so contrite and "Im sorry if you interpeted it that way". What would you think?

2007-10-25 19:56:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

That's how tall i am, i was wondering if girls (even those taller) can find a guy of my height good looking if i had a good face, body and clothing sense + friendly, confident and happy personality.

I am 18

2007-10-25 19:52:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he called after he got mad with me. well this has been ongoing for 3 yrs. when he does something to me its no big deal. when i do something which is after he has done something to me all hell breaks loose. im tired of him and its over.he bought me a ring but i pawned it. but he broke his promises and i called it off. he didnt do what he said he would. i think he wants to argue some more about that ring. well he said i could keep it , so i did what i needed to do. i had no money for me and my daughter. its over far as im concerned. should i ignore him completely. what would u do. or would u give back the ring even after he told i could have it. but its in pawn shop. ill get it out later when i have the money. he seems like hes more upset about the ring then the break up. hes a controller when it comes to money and he lies alot. i thought he was going to change. he said i should have had enough money to do what i needed. why is he trying to keep u with what i have in my purse?

2007-10-25 19:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my neighbours went overseas. They asked me and my father to look after their place while they're away. Anyway, today my mother (who lives in different house), decided it would be OK to take some firewood from their house. So, I thought it wrong of me to let her do it, so I told her not to, because the neigbours have trusted me to look after the property. She got very upset, returned the wood, and basically has ceased communication with me. Did I handle this right (even though I am feeling like crap, and so is my mother)? Should I have just let her take a few pieces and not worry about it? Finally, what should I do now? Suggestions please.

2007-10-25 19:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by jontej 2 in Family

I'm just curious how good these names are:
My name is Diana (hate my middle name)
My daughter is Brianna Janiece
My son is Tristan Andrew (Andrew is after his father)
My son in heaven is Deandre Troy (1st name is like my 1st name and his fathers 1st name put together. Troy is like a soldier because he fought a hard battle but lost) Please rate honestly my feelings won't be hurt.

2007-10-25 19:46:56 · 10 answers · asked by luv2luvudee 2 in Family

What should a man wear to impress you?

2007-10-25 19:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your some how famous in any aspect please tell me.

2007-10-25 19:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 hes 19 and hes got a 2month old son. Now b4 you starting thinking well ur too young, the girl he had the baby with was my age 15. Im glad hes got a son kinder i just dont like the fact that its with another girl. is it normal to have these mixed feelings. i no that him being a father and all comes first and i respect that but he moved away from his son 7 hours away to be exact. i love him alot and want to be with him but when ever i think about him i think of his son is this just a stage im going through or wat coz i dont want to drop him for having a son awwww man if any of this made sence please help.

2007-10-25 19:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if flirting is the same as cheating?

2007-10-25 19:36:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have just lost our home in foreclosure and are in serious debt. To help us out his dad gave us a car. We decided to sell it to earn some extra money. His cousin was looking for an economical car in order to commute to work so he bought it from us or so my husband told me. Months later I asked him about it and he admitted he gave it away. I was so mad. As it was, I really didn't like his cousin because their friendship has put a strain into our relationship so this even made it worse. Before this when I gave birth to our first son I had told my husband that I didn't want anyone to stay over our house the first week because I wanted to enjoy our son. Well, he didn't listen and invited his cousin and he spent the weekend over. I had just given birth and I asked him something so simple but he refused to listen. He refuses to apologize and says that he wont jeopardize his friendship? Help? How do I communicate how I feel?

2007-10-25 19:35:13 · 10 answers · asked by nancy f 3 in Marriage & Divorce

jerk. preferably alternative/punk, something like that... NIN, throw me a bone. a song that describes such a person. thank you for your help :)

2007-10-25 19:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by I am the truth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have made promise with my god, and parents nothing sexual(any for of touching, hugging, kissing..) before marriage and I believe if I do God will punish before I die and after I die... whenever I have disobey God I have ended up getting hurt somehow someway and I truly and honestly fear God and won't do anything major to disrespect him btw religion is something I have taught myself so may not rit about everything... but it is a promise made and it is wrong to break that promise... my friends say you will die alone because u have to be a gf before you get married and no guys going to agree with your rules... the will all end up thinking you are just a cold heart bit@h and if I am speaking to a guy and he touches me on my arm or hand my body does respond positively to it... it just ruins my day and makes me very upset I don’t want to die alone I look forward on having a marriage and being in love with my husband... taking care of him... being a good friend to him... always being there for him... and he would be completely devoted and in love with me... always trying to make me smile... traveling around the world together alone... and I find it very hard to fit the idea of having sex in the picture of what it means to be married even if he is married to me Most of the guys I meet the compliment me on my figure... and says they loves having sex... I really want to date and have a bf and build a good relationship to carry it on into marriage
p.s. I have a few a lot of guy friends who wants to go out with me and I almost had 1 bf but always had this same rules I am 21 who looks 30 and my parents are over protective of me with a military style and says if any guy put his hands on me we will both die in hill and God hates sl@ts

2007-10-25 19:33:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a bit shy when it comes to the bedroom. I don't really have alot of experience. Help please.

2007-10-25 19:31:42 · 19 answers · asked by tout petite 2 in Singles & Dating

OR should be "we're going to do what's necessary to have a good and happy marriage".

2007-10-25 19:30:35 · 20 answers · asked by Is that all there is? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She is 20, Im 19, we went out for about 6 months, and we broke up 6 months ago, but we had sex after that, but no that much, then I moved away, n just seen her when I go visit back, but havent really talked about us, n stuff, just party. We broke up because she used to flirt n stuff, lie, we damn, so many fights, so we saw it wasnt gonna work, but I still love her, its just that I have a big STOP in my hearth not to be around her, n stuff. She is a lot in me moving away, the biggest reason probably.. anyway, since I left, she had seen other guys that i know, had sex with some, ive heard, n stuff, well anyway the thing is I still care when I hear those things, n i still want her to be successful n i care about her a lot.. Most of the things I do, I think what would she say about that, n stuff, its crazy. Is it ever going away ? or ? :P a new girl doesnt really work.. i just cant be real with them n stuff, n i compare her to them...

2007-10-25 19:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When do your relatives ever stop being difficult, for example Your aunties, brothers, and sisters of that sort, I'm asking this
Question, because I got this mean aunt name Kim, she has this habbit of setting clocka twenty minutes fast, what is her
Deal and she likes to take over the bathroom for a whole hour
She is supposed to be moving in her new apartment and she
Hasn't done that, yet I mean I think God has moved her back
In my place just to make my miserable or to test me. She is
as Ruthless as they come, got tapes around the place like
She is trying to record our thoughts or something. She is
Nerv wrecking at times, I want to scream or cut myself.
I wouldn't say she is a ***** to my friends she is one and
I won't defend, because she makes a happen of taking
Her past problems that got her to this point on me, if someone
Has an answer for this, please tell me why she does the things
That she does, she acts very crazy and weird, all she does
Around the house.

2007-10-25 19:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

k whats the next greatest thing besides sex??? girls what do you think??? guys what do you like??? i mean i haven't done much with a guy before so i want to know what will be fun... be realist yet creative and HONEST!! thanks a billion =]

2007-10-25 19:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

makes plenty of money, and he doesn't really want me to work which is fine with me because I have never really had a good work ethic about me. (Please don't criticize me about that!)

I just sometimes feel useless, and really bored. My typical day goes like this-
I get up anywhere from 9AM-11AM. Usually when I get up I watch the news and check my email and stuff. Then my husband comes home for lunch from 12-12:30. Then after he leaves I usually do my chores like washing clothes, dishes, etc. A few days a week some of my girlfriends will come hang out with me and we will just hang out and talk or go shopping and run errands. I am always home by 5PM when my husband gets here and we usually talk for a while and then go out to dinner (I am a sorry cook, and don't really care to learn how to either). After that we come home and watch tv and hang out. Then he goes to bed because he has to leave for work early in the mornings. So I tuck him into bed and then play on the net or watch tv...

2007-10-25 19:20:19 · 19 answers · asked by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships