he called after he got mad with me. well this has been ongoing for 3 yrs. when he does something to me its no big deal. when i do something which is after he has done something to me all hell breaks loose. im tired of him and its over.he bought me a ring but i pawned it. but he broke his promises and i called it off. he didnt do what he said he would. i think he wants to argue some more about that ring. well he said i could keep it , so i did what i needed to do. i had no money for me and my daughter. its over far as im concerned. should i ignore him completely. what would u do. or would u give back the ring even after he told i could have it. but its in pawn shop. ill get it out later when i have the money. he seems like hes more upset about the ring then the break up. hes a controller when it comes to money and he lies alot. i thought he was going to change. he said i should have had enough money to do what i needed. why is he trying to keep u with what i have in my purse?
2007-10-25 19:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are nuts for even considering giving this jerk his ring back. Stop letting him try to bully you and flip it around and bully HIM instead!! Tell him you deserved the ring and much, much more for putting up with him for 3 years, etc., etc.
I would never even waste my time or energy on this punk unless you absolutely HAVE to talk to him-remember he is a liar anyway.
2007-10-25 20:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people may think you shouldn't have pawned it, but it was a gift to you and yours to do with as you pleased. If your daughter needed something, then by all means. It sounds to me like he is just trying to get you to talk to him, and the ring is something he thinks he can use to make you feel guilty enough to answer the phone. If you are done, then don't answer and make a clean break.
2007-10-26 02:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sammie Jo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is his child, tell him that you will give him the ring back when he starts paying child support for the baby!!
In a court of law, he would legally be entitled to the ring back if it was an engagement ring, and you broke off the engagement. If it was just a gift, no, he is not entitled to it. If he told you to keep the ring, and you have several witnesses, you might get away with keeping it.
Tell him it is none of his business how much money you have, and that you will see him in court for child support!!
2007-10-26 03:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said you cpould keep it, It was a gift. He gave it to you. If you want to take it all the way to court you'd win. He did not lend it to you. Yes, it was made over a promise that was not held but its still yours. He sounds like a real Jerk and you really just need to get him out of yours and your daughters life for the best. If you have to its only some $30 to get a restraining order against him and it'll last for 6 months he won't even be allowed to call you if it comes down to that which i hope it doesn't
2007-10-26 02:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Insomniac Tryin to Help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did-not say what kind of ring it was.
If it was an engagement-ring, and you didn't marry him, then you should not have pawned it. You should have given it back to him. Because you accepting an engagement ring is your agreement to marry him.
If it's not a engagement ring,
but just some decorative ring that he just gave you as a gift, then you have the right to sell-it although it's a tacky thing to do.
2007-10-26 03:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The ring is a gift keep it. find some one that wants to spend time with you and your daughter and not your wallet.
2007-10-26 03:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by goodfella150 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so he thought he could buy you with a ring and you're worth more than that but you can buy your peace back by giving him back the ring, pretty cheap price for peace I think if you can get the ring, give it back.
2007-10-26 02:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by OzDonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone, block his # & get a restrainin order
2007-10-26 02:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by darkdiamond4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋