Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

K I think Im a pretty cute girl, I used to model and work out 5 daysa week to stay shapely.
But I am very confused by a guy I LIKE so much.
he has been married before. divorced for ayear.
So he has to be straight, right ?
And he comments about how hot his exwife was and how he finds drew barrymoore and jemma jameson hot. so again he has to be straight, right ?
Well here is where is gets weird:
he told me he once got a lower leg massage from a gay massage therapist for fun.
he gets manicures/pedicures/fakebake tans/loves designer clothes/has spiked fauxhawk hair but says he is just a metrosexual.
we have made out twice and both times frenched. but he would french me and then stop after just a minute or two. then each time he was on top i NEVER felt any kind of arousal down there on him.
every other guy ive ever dated has gotten a good h@rd on after making out like that.
also he tells me how much he respects me and after 3 months still isnt pressuring me for sex.
strange ?

2007-10-25 18:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive asked the girl for lunch this weekend. I'm just wondering what places are really good for lunch. No crapy places like BK. I was thiking of Olive Garden or Friendlys but I dont want it to be too fancy because Im getting to know her in person for the first time. So what places are best available to go out for lunch with a girl for the first time? so that they'll go along with you perhaps for a long term realtionship afterwards?

2007-10-25 18:02:14 · 2 answers · asked by soil03 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend works 80 hrs/wk and I work 40 hrs/wk plus I am taking 16 hours of classes. We are both super busy but try to see each other as much as we can (pretty much every night) he is usually really romantic and Tuesday night he told me "I am going to love you forever." But the wknd before last he said he would call me and he didn't call me because he got off at 1:00 in the morning and was really tired. Then the following wknd he said the same thing and he left early but he didn't have his car and said his brother never came and his friend had to take him home. Then last night he said he would call and come by after I left work and he didn't come because a guy that sold him his car said he was going to take his car away if he didn't pay for his plates to be changed. My dog died today and I was really upset and I blew up at him. I told him that I was tired of him saying he would call and then he doesn't. He is really tired a lot and I'm usually understanding but today I had it

2007-10-25 18:01:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About half a year ago, I started hooking up w/ my best guy friend. After we started hooking up, he began treating me like a girlfriend. He would call, text, im, everything...all the time. He'd even get worried that I might meet someone else. He always picked up on my emotions and did the right thing. Despite all of this, when I asked him why we aren't dating, he said he doesn't think he is ready because he doesn't know where he's going to be in the future. I've tried to break things off a few times, but he never lets me go. He contacts me a lot and says hes fine with just being friends. But everyone tells me that I can do better than him and that I should ditch him. Consensus is that he is not boyfriend material for me. The problem is that I don't know if I can do that because I feel like i am in love with him. Plus, I am his best friend and one of his only close friends. He doesn't really have anyone else. Do i just stop hooking up or do I eliminate him from my life?! What do i do?

2007-10-25 18:00:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long have you been married and is she still the one?

2007-10-25 17:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by Bettie_T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if it is me, but I guess some younger woman likes me.

I haven't dated for years, lazy, out of shape, not much social contact, don't know people, don't know how to read people, a slob, haven't been laid in years, hard headed, I don't know myself blah blah blah.

And to top it off, a complete disorganized, irresponsible, immature idiot to boot.

What am I supposed to do?

2007-10-25 17:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by Doesntstayinvegas.com 3 in Singles & Dating

So if you get married JP [[justice of the peace]]..for an important reason...then you still have your wedding ceremony and reception as planned..like say it is 8 months later...what date do you go by..your original wedding date or your JP date?

2007-10-25 17:48:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

1. Go door to door trying to get a little something in the sack
2. Check out my neighbor's nice pumpkins from my balcony
3. Have Candy spread on my bedroom floor

2007-10-25 17:47:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not talking about being ok..

I'm talking about being content, focussed, happy.

Were you happIER with your ex-lover?

Have you ever felt true love? If yes, then are you serious about being happy (or happier) now that they're gone?

2007-10-25 17:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of weeks ago, my sister in law was told by some guy that he caught his girlfriend and my brother having sex. This guy has a beef with my brother from something else that went sour, according to my brother. This guy even went as far to have his current girlfriend call my sister in law and say that she saw this girl get in my brother's car. Then about a week later, this guy hits on my sister in law. Between all this time, he had been texting her constantly and calling her giving her even more ellaborate info. He basically lost a lot of credibility when he hit on her (he current;y has a gf) and then when he would ellaborate to the point of being non-believable. Then a few days after that a chick (she won't say who) came into my sil's work and told her that she saw my brother cheat 2 months before they got married. My sil says she considers this person reliable and that she's known this "friend" person for 10 years. She can't talk to my brother she says because he just denies it.

2007-10-25 17:40:43 · 5 answers · asked by ANONN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a girl i rhave known for past 5 years, i think im in love with her, but i am unsure of her feelings. i am scared to go further incase i distroy a nice relationship as it is. How can i found out her feeling towards me, perhaps she just likes having a male freind and does not want any more. perhaps im looking for something that just is not there. help.

2007-10-25 17:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm gonna sound like a bit of a whinner sorry, but sometimes you just need to get it out. My husband works on the giant windmills. He has been gone for two months. Thankfully he'll be home in five short days. But that is the problem. Life is so stressing right now, that I feel like this last two weeks has been an eternity. And the next five days don't even seem manageble. AHHHHHHHHHHHH! I just miss him so much, I'm sick of sleeping in this bed by my self, and I miss having dinner with another human! lol, we don't have children yet. *pout*. Sorry guys. Don't bash me

2007-10-25 17:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I m jst married and completed 10 months. I hv no issue with my husband as i m totally satisfied with him. But my problem is my parents in law. They are good in nature but still they are creating problems in my life. We 4 people stay in very small 1 room and in that fly also, for small things, my mother in law get upset do not talk to me for 4-4 days. I say if i m mistaking anywhere she/ he should tell me directly, but they dont. they tell the same things to my husband... and he dont say anything to them because they are very emotional & gets hurted very soon. She dont give me work, whilist i say her give me a work. I am ready to hard work, bt she dont give me & she tells everyone that i dont work, behind me...which is wrong according to me. when i came to know she tells such behind me, i have started working independetly. But still she comes in between, doesnt allow me to work. If i tell to hubby, he dont react & jst say do whatever u wan. & many other pblms, cant specify pls suggest

2007-10-25 17:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When your wife calls you "hubby"?

I hate that word. Whenever I hear a woman refer to her husband that way, I cringe. It sounds boring and tired. It makes your man sound like a hubcap or something. Maybe it's just me...

2007-10-25 17:28:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is this guy that I like and im way to shy to talk to him. He's VERY popular, me, not so much. I do talk to him a bit, but only in class when we are working on projects. I stand no chance . . . although, he has chosen me for every single project in our first hour class. im slightly confused and i dont know what to do. Im trying to focus more on school . . . HELP!!!

2007-10-25 17:28:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 17:26:20 · 23 answers · asked by Johnnyo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he cheated with someone that he let became my friend afterwards. then when i filed he would not pay the court cost and it has not been final yet. he says he loves me and wants me back. that it was a one time thing. i do love him still with all my heart. but i am not sure of what to do. i need some advice on what other people think. help me.

2007-10-25 17:22:27 · 32 answers · asked by ermykatie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I know that you guys aren't psychics.. but yesterday i wrote this guy that stares at me all of the time a short note... He stares at me all of the time and will not look away for anything. I even noticed that he followed me once to watch me get into my car...(he's not the stalker type)..lol I just think he was sneaking a peek before I left.

Anyways, I think he is kind of hot and I decided to take matters into my own hands and wrote him the note that basically told him that I would like to talk w/ him face to face.. and that I look forward to him calling. I also told him to take his time calling if he needed it..(he seems really shy). The only thing that bothers me is that my friend gave him the note this morning and he still HAS NOT CALLED!

I was sure that once he got the note thta he would call me on break or after work.. and he didn't! I feel really stupid right now, but I know that the signs that he gave me were all positive ones.. whats his deal?

2007-10-25 17:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by Vanessa ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i'm feeling kind of discouraged. I go to the mall or anywhere for that matter and well i know when a guy is checking me out or eyeing me. I'm single, i'd really like to go out with someone. I dont know if the guys who check me out just want to look,whether they just dont like making the first move, or whether i just look unnaproachable!

Can anyone possibly help me out and tell me which one of these it is or whether i should just make the first move?

2007-10-25 17:19:55 · 29 answers · asked by Nise 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 17:19:42 · 23 answers · asked by whereRyou? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

went on a date with this guy from my band class. A week later he asked me to homecoming ball. At homecoming ball at the end of the last song>>he spun me out and then spun me into his arms<<. At 3 marching band competitions he "suspiciously" ended sitting right behind me on the bus all 3 times.
My friends say that whenever I am not around and I am the subject in conversation he blushes and his face turns red and he smiles.
He isnt usually shy.
He also talks to my friends alot; he teases them; but he doesnt tease me.
Whenever I have my camera out(on the way to a band competition on the bus)he takes it and will just take picutres of me.
I can feel that he likes me. I'm guessing I'm right.

What do you guys think I should do?
I'm not sure what to do next?
Sometimes we talk, but we are like really shy when we are in group of friends but when we are on a date we aren't nervous to talk at all. what should I do?

2007-10-25 17:18:04 · 2 answers · asked by fresh start. fresh chance. 2 in Singles & Dating

i was in a relationship my senior year in hs for a year and some months. we broke up in a horrible way and it took me pretty much my whole freshman year of college to get over him. i don't get why i havent found someone else since its been so long. im sick of being single

2007-10-25 17:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 17:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by glorivee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when someone says they love you but aren't "in love" with you doesn't " in love " really mean - the new relationship feeling ,the can't get enough of each other, enjoying getting to know each other feeling is gone. so the question is do you call it quites ? i mean if you get into another relationship eventualy its gonna happen agian in a few years or so , and so on
do you stay and deal with it or get into a new relationship every 5-10 years or so?

2007-10-25 17:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by just me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 17:12:37 · 20 answers · asked by Eduardo A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it usually mean? GUy in question is 29, just had a baby.

2007-10-25 17:11:49 · 37 answers · asked by Lilly d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 17:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by txbabe2007 1 in Family

yet then all hell broke loose i heard people screaming what i take and ect...... my ques is i am so made at my boyfriend for calling medics and him giving me cpr till they came.For once i felt nothing!!did'nt know if i was sleeping ,dead whatever i felt nothing in my head or body and that was serenity for me,know i am back to my same miserable self!!!!!! What do i do????????

2007-10-25 17:06:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-25 17:06:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it just me or are there other people on here that like to read questions and answer good ones but all the questions are from middle and high school kids wondering if someone thinks they are hot or not?
is it just me?
can i get some adult feed back here?

2007-10-25 17:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by neverlie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships