2007-10-25 17:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by glorivee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Day by day. Just take it one day at a time, and know that you are truly better off. It will hurt and it wont just go away, but time heals all wounds. If you are religious prayer may help you and if not, seeing a therapist or maybe just talking to friends/family and keeping busy (work,exercise, catch a movie, go for a walk, maybe take a little vacation) will all help. Good luck and Im happy for you, it takes a much stronger person to leave an abusive relationship, than one who stays even when they know they shouldn't, I hope anyone else who needs it finds your strength :)
2007-10-25 17:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by jayo88 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You think about what it is that you stand for. What are your values/beliefs? Honesty? Love? Family? Generosity? Kindness? What qualities are important in a person and in your life? You find out who it is that you are and what brings you joy. You live free of walking on egg shells, waiting for the sky to fall. You live your true life. When are you the happiest that doesn't include anyone else but you? Where do you see your life in five years? Where would you like it to be? You dream, you reach, you take risks and laugh a lot. You grow. You look at why you would ever tolerate anyone treating you like that. You learn that you are okay and deserve to be treated like a precious person and you accept nothing less from yourself or anyone else. You go on to live a happy ending.
2007-10-26 00:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for yourself!!!! probable for the first time in your life.. you start by getting to know you as an individual again.. hey you've probably change a lot since you did that... think about the things you always wanted to do. learn, see, taste, smell,l hear the world for from your own tune,, not someone elses. you need to take time to capture you and then think about all the possibilities that lay ahead for you.. think positive... take that class you've always wanted to, go to that place you've always wanted to go but never did cause he didn't like that or didn't want too... you have a whole new life full of whatever you want to make it, a blank canvas to put whatever you want on it.. the world is yours for the taking.. stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do something fun exciting.. live life on your terms,, no one else's... take care of you and yours but make that commitment to live and make yourself happy.. you will always love that person. the end of a relationship doesn't change that but don't let it run your life... live for the day it won't hurt anymore and that day will come but don't sit there waiting for it to come. be happy where you are and make it a point to do something nice for yourself everyday,, you deserve it.. good luck and you can make you happy you just have to be listen to no one but you the answer is there inside you.. good luck....
2007-10-26 00:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how an abusive relationship can also be beautiful. You have a chance now to find someone who'll not only love you but that will give you the respect you deserve. Time is your best friend now.
2007-10-26 00:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...I'm sad with you....Just pick up your heart and Get a hobby hang out with your new friends If you haven't met any go find some and I hope the next guy treats you right. Hold Your Head Up.
2007-10-26 00:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soak everything in. The sunshine, the birds singing, the smell of fresh air. Find things to do.
2007-10-26 00:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out of your house....that's how you live. Enjoy life now that you are single and FREE! I know it's easier said than done but that relationship is all you are going to think about out if you have nothing to do. Go out with friends. Go workout. Do things...keep busy.
2007-10-26 00:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You live free from verbal/physical abuse. You work and do things that make you happy.
2007-10-26 00:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happily ever after. End of story.
2007-10-26 01:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by bundy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find one who isnt like that . my opion?
2007-10-26 00:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋