2007-10-25 17:26:20 · 23 answers · asked by Johnnyo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Judging by these comments, there seem to be a lot of narrow minded people out there. Anyway, she knows what attracts her to other women. If she knows any bi or lesbian girls, that would be a place to start.. not necessarily with them, but maybe they could introduce her to others. Also, have her try going to gay clubs/bars and see if she finds anyone who interests her.
2007-10-25 17:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She already told you, if you two are not tight about this your looking at disaster. The other woman had better be interested in being with both of you or your going to lose your wife and do more damage to your relationship. Your her husband and as such she is to be submissive to you. She needs to see you as the leader and the place she puts her trust. Don't allow her to have an affair or call all the shots or you will lose her.
2007-10-26 08:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by djtravis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find our source then the both of you sit down work out pros and cons . If you both have a solid relationship and clear communication things should work out . Make sure to search for the right person or you could end up in a mess. I have found that my experience as a women in this matter was safe and secure ..but i had a good friend that was willing .
2007-10-25 17:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by rosie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My wife also wanted to do the same thing,so she started things off slowly with fellow open minded females and its a fun thing for us,when you can watch you wife being pleasured by a female.Take it slow and work through the mixed emotions that will be along the way.It can eather make or break a couple.Most of all it has to be something that your both are ok with,so there will be no hard feelings down the road.
2007-10-25 17:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by skipper b 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That is a really tricky situation mate, and I certainly don't envy your task.
She should know that infidelity will likely destroy the marriage and you should tell her that in no uncertain terms, whilst still acknowledging and appreciating her honesty... seriously, she could have gone behind your back.
Perhaps you could ask her if she would be willing to allow you to fulfil a male fantasy at the same time and let you join in?
Seriously though, curiosity is one thing, but your wife should understand that the fact that she is thinking of sex outside of your partnership will likely destroy it.
2007-10-25 17:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Judo Chop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is not do it at all. it will change EVERYTHING. It will cause a lot of issues in your relationship. What if she likes it more than she likes you? What if she decides she wants more? then what? maybe it'd be okay if you weren't married, but if you go through with this, your relationship will never be the same and there will be a lot of problems between the two of you. And if that's not convincing...do you really want to be the guy who "turned his wife gay"????
2007-10-25 17:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell you to first work in steps. Like bringing her to your favorite strip club and seeing who she likes and see if she likes getting lapdanced and getting boobies thrust in her face and getting her crotch rubbed.
But then you might be biting more than you can chew as in she may like women more than she likes you. Big problem. I'm really thinking that you want to get into some kind of threeway, right??? Well, good luck. It'll probably happen but then you're marriage will probably start to erode.
Peace
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Best of luck.
2007-10-25 17:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Eh Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But why would she want to if you are married, well its possible to have a three sum, as weird as it sounds try online..let her experiance things and test things, but dont let her alone because its possilbe that she might leave you for a women if she is more interested in women.
2007-10-25 17:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly know how many men in this world think of tired excuse to live out there own fantasy? But ill tell u one thing and i am not being mean here, your not cutting it for her if this is the truth. But everyone woman has heard this crap before, get original.
2007-10-25 17:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by MakeAmyUp! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She can get down on her knees and start praying. She is obliviously sick and needs help. You do ,too ,for even helping her. No wonder this world is in such a bad shape. Morals have left the planet.
2007-10-25 17:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋