Ok, I know that you guys aren't psychics.. but yesterday i wrote this guy that stares at me all of the time a short note... He stares at me all of the time and will not look away for anything. I even noticed that he followed me once to watch me get into my car...(he's not the stalker type)..lol I just think he was sneaking a peek before I left.
Anyways, I think he is kind of hot and I decided to take matters into my own hands and wrote him the note that basically told him that I would like to talk w/ him face to face.. and that I look forward to him calling. I also told him to take his time calling if he needed it..(he seems really shy). The only thing that bothers me is that my friend gave him the note this morning and he still HAS NOT CALLED!
I was sure that once he got the note thta he would call me on break or after work.. and he didn't! I feel really stupid right now, but I know that the signs that he gave me were all positive ones.. whats his deal?
2007-10-25 17:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by Vanessa ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you think he has called yet?=[ = [ i feel dumb for writing it now!
2007-10-25 17:21:47 · update #1
because you told him he could take his time
2007-10-25 17:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He'll probably call. He may just not want to seem so eager. Or maybe he's waiting until he can think of some kind of date to ask you out on (especially if he's shy cause he'll want to make sure that it's a good one so you won't say no). Heck, maybe he's broke and is gonna wait til payday! Who Knows? Could be a lot of things. If he doesn't call then theres no reason to feel stupid. You took a shot and so what? If he doesn't call then I'd wonder what the heck he's staring at all the time then though, ya know?
P.S. Maybe he's got an ol' lady at home and it's a question of logistics (heh heh).
2007-10-26 00:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously this guy is attracted to you. Making the first move was a bold decision. Most people go by the two day rule before they call so they do not look desperate. When he calls (and he defiantly will) be mysterious. Don't reveal too much, too soon. The second time he contacts you, be unavailable and unreachable. You can answer 1 out of every 2 calls. This will keep the excitement going and he may even stop acting so shy :-)
2007-10-26 00:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by CT 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is not as interested in you as you thought he was. But just wait and see what happens. And I do think it was kinda dumb what you did. You said he is not a stalker or anything like that. How do you know? You know nothing about this person, so I wouldn't be too sure if I was you. Just because he does not look like one does not mean he is not one. Just be careful, and don't give a total stranger your phone number. I'm not trying to scare you, but you should not trust just anybody like that. Plus he followed you to your car? You must be out of your mind. I hope it's not what I'm thinking, but A guy who stares at me all the times and does not say anything not even once, but follows me to my car it's very weird. And you give him your phone number? Ok.....???????
2007-10-26 00:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Esther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'll let you in on a big secret, most guys are really insecure! If this guy finds you so attractive maybe he's too scared to actually talk to you. Don't take it personally, but guys have fragile egos, and if there is the slightest hint that you may reject them, they'd rather not know. Don't be embarassed, if he doesn't call, just walk it off. The best thing you can do is just pretend like it never happened... ultimately it's his loss!
2007-10-26 00:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, why would you ever write a guy a note that stares at you all the time- especially after he's FOLLOWED you to your car? You should just speak to him every time you catch him staring at you. Just say "hello, how are you?" or "nice to see you again"....just simple little one-liners. He'll either take it and open a conversation with it or he'll back off and stop staring so much.
2007-10-26 00:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Staring @ some1 doesn't mean "I like him/her". I don't think that he's shy n all that. Cause if he was, he wouldn't even look @ u, worse...stare @ u. I truly think that u jumped the gun girl...Now he's going 2 think that u r on his S%^*. Anyway....let time take it's route n wait what happens. If he calls then play it really cool n go easy w/ ur fine self...If not..then I'll call 2 invite u out 4 dinner...How's that?..(wink)
2007-10-26 00:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gambit-Xeneise 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me. When she never called me I felt like you are doing.
Sooooooooooooo, I wrote to her again and this time I delivered the note myself. the note said, "Thank you for stop staring at me after the last note, because that is what I wanted to talk to you about, I don't care for you but I think you are pretty and soon guys will fall for you."
guess what ? she called me and after three years we were married!
2007-10-26 00:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by secret society 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe he doesnt really think u wrote the note.. and u said he was shy so maybe he is taking his time calling u.! he probably. give it time,if he doesnt get his number from one of his friends.. show him signs back
2007-10-26 00:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by beaner m 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
damn you made the first move on a guy....negative pts for you but dont worry if hes been looking at your for a long period of time youll get the call...be patient
2007-10-26 00:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by JoeG 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't want to look too desperate. He's trying to play it cool.
Start worrying if he hasn't called in about 5 days.
2007-10-26 00:25:34 · answer #11 · answered by Liliya829 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋