Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

It is normal for a guy to do that? and he has gotten hard quite a few times so i kinda believe him. but how can i tell if he is really big or if he just has a really big ego?

2007-10-25 15:49:48 · 22 answers · asked by pear~bear 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 18 years old but my family members treat me like i'm 12. i've always been a good child, i never gave them anything to worry about, i was manerable, i never ran away or sneaked out late at night. but they still treat me like a baby; i cant go anywhere or do anything without them on my back. i'm a christain so i dont go partying, or clubing, mostly i stay home or go to church, i'm wat you'd cal a house-rat.
recently i went to choir practise and my aunt embarassed me and got me so angry!, PRACTISE FINISHED 1 HOUR EARLIER THAN USUAL SO I CALLED MY MOM TO LET HER KNOW, all of a sudden my aunt storms out of the building demanding that i leave now as she doesnt want anything to happen between my mom and her, i told her i called my mom, but she kept yelling and got me so angry i just left. all my friends my age dont get treated the way i do. i can even have my friends cal me without me getting drilled. i nedd to find a way to tell my family that i'm tired of being treated like a child.

2007-10-25 15:49:15 · 5 answers · asked by sonia-gaye 1 in Family

how can I look smarter and hot at the same time.
im not willing to sacrifice looks for intelligence but I want both.
heres what I already do so dont tell me to do these.. think of new ways

. Pretend to read big books ( i just stare at them and flip pages)
. make facial expressions during conversations that make me look like I know things
.wear trendy glasses
.read newspapers and like magazines and stuff
go to the library and stare at books



any more suggestions?
luvs you

2007-10-25 15:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sisters and I have inheirted jewelery from my mother's estate. Each piece of jewelery has a different montary value. Do you think the best way to divide the jewelery is to have everyone choose the piece that they want and to "payoff" the other siblings for their choice?

2007-10-25 15:45:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-25 15:43:09 · 15 answers · asked by eric75433 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for only 10 months. I found out by checking my husband's phone that he and this girl have been meeting to "watch football" on Monday nights when I am at work. The problem is that he lied to me and told me he has been watching football "with the boys" whenever I see him when I get off of work. It's not like they are old friends, either; they had only met through mutual friends in the past twice, and only recently, her # has just appeared in his contacts. I feel it is inappropriate and disrespectful to me for a married man to take a single or married woman out for drinks, dinner OR football, and especially to lie about it after. I left her a message & she called me back and said that she knew we were married, but had no idea that he was keeping their time together secret and that she would definitely not hang out with him/call him again. There are plenty of his guy friends that love football that he can hang out with. Why do you think he is acting this way?

2007-10-25 15:42:26 · 34 answers · asked by momo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to be seen? She always has a smurk on her face... She even honks at me. I saw her tonight at Walmart I was still in my vehicle and she was walking in...She turned back around to see who was driving the car. She seems way too interested for their relationship to be over. What do you think?

2007-10-25 15:41:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23 and recently left a job to seriously consider what i want to do in life and take some time out. I have a whole stash of money i saved while i was working and i'm using that to do a bit of travel for 3 weeks in Nov. I thought i would do it while i have the time, money and little commitment.
Even though i have already paid for my trip myself, my dad gave me a card last night telling me how proud he was with a cheque for $5000!!
Now i absolutely refuse to take money from my parents, no matter how much i'm struggling, I'm at the age where i feel i should be independant. I feel really ashamed that i'm even still at home. But my dad constantly tries to shove money and 'support' down my throat, everything from buying me an apartment to trying to pay me things i can easily afford!
It is tempting to take the money but i will feel so guilty and 'bludgey'. Everyone is saying i should let him help just this once, as it would make him happy. I feel tempted but bad for having it easy..

2007-10-25 15:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by Athalia 1 in Family

ok i am 18 years old and i am attending a local university. I really want to move out and live on my own for a while. I want the freedom that is associated with college and that others who live away from home get to experience. The only problem is that is i leave i know it will be on bad terms. My parents are still trying to give me curfews of 10:30 and i am like are you kidding me and they simply say our house our rules. Which is fair, but my dad is always on me to find college friends, because i still hang out with all of my friends i graduated with... my question is how in the hell do i find college friends when college people do not even go out till 10:30 lol i mean i have to be home when they are just leaving home lol. i can afford living with a roommate, but i work fo my dad(he has seveeral business) and i make like 1200 a month and that is plenty i mean i would only spend like 900 a month on rent, car, cell phone...etc read details below

2007-10-25 15:40:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, i live in dorms and on tuesday (two days ago) we went on a sort of date. it wasn't actually a date, but i'm pretty sure he likes me and i like him and he hinted about further dates. anyways, i didn't see him yesterday and i messaged him on facebook but he didn't respond, he doesn't usually respond to anyone on facebook. i haven't seen him yet today, should i go over to his room right now? or would that be too pushy?

2007-10-25 15:40:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it when judge signs or when hosband and wife sign the papers?? Thankyou for answers.

2007-10-25 15:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by Polar Bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

IF U KNEW THEN WHAT U KNOW NOW WOULD U STILL BE MARRIED TO YOUR SPOUSE???? I KNOW I WOULD, I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND HE LOVES ME,, MORE THAN I EVER KNEW AND HE IS MY TRUE SOUL MATE, SO I WANT TO HEAR FROM U??? WOULD U SAY I DO OR I DONT???? COME ON THIS IS FOR FUN ONLY BUT I AM CURIOUS TO SEE WHAT ALL OF YOU WOULD SAY... THANKS AND HAVE A GREAT AND BLESSED WEEKEND...

2007-10-25 15:39:00 · 13 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This question is also for those who are lifetime partners. Also, for the heterosexual couples...who is the older one in your relationship, the guy or the girl? Just wondering.

2007-10-25 15:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by Liesel 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Later I found out that I had came down with a sexual transmitted disease and I have had sex with only her for the last 2 1/2 years. We have no children together but I will have to recieve medical attention to move on with my life. Besides getting a divorse should I take her to court and make her responsible for the medical bills?

2007-10-25 15:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by gregsimmons001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it more about the cut and style?

2007-10-25 15:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by lippy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you could say one thing to your ex being totally honest, what would it be?

Mine would be "I want you back"... but I know I'll never get to say it

2007-10-25 15:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this boy that is really cute and i have always thought so but idk he's sort of popular and im sort of not...well anywho i had this AMAZING dream involving him and me and i was crying in a pool (idk lol) and then he came and didnt say anything and i just buried my head into his shoulder and it was really strong and he held me in this random pool and i was crying....it was really random but i felt really really safe in the dream and when I woke up i thought it was real and now i cant stop thinking about him. whats up??

2007-10-25 15:28:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 15:28:34 · 1 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

a good friend of my fiances is getting married. he did not ask my man to be in the wedding, however the girl he is marrying has asked me to be a bridesmaid.
when they were just dating she would always tell me that i would not be in their wedding unless it was some small part and the only way i would be a bridesmaid would be if one of her other friends backed out or couldnt do it.
the other day i got a phone call asking me if i would be willing to dye my hair again bc she thinks that it would look better with her choice of bridesmaids dresses if i wanted to be in the wedding. she then went on to me tell that a friend had said she couldnt do it but she had two other people in mind for the position.
She told me she didnt need to know right away and just to let her know when i thought about it.
i know it is her day but i feel a little hurt about things she has said in the past. should i accept her offer and just let it be done, should i say something to her, or should i just declin

2007-10-25 15:28:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The invisible friend who stands back and ruins what life you have left to live.

2007-10-25 15:25:57 · 6 answers · asked by windmillsarecool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really really like this guy and he asked me out. But the problem is , I only see him during 3rd period and before lunch. I don't see him before school, after school and during lunch.

Will this work out? I wanna know cause I really really like him. :(

2007-10-25 15:25:24 · 19 answers · asked by x33daniella 2 in Singles & Dating

should i forgave my husband again? the last time he has the girl pregnant but they abborted it..i'ts been 2 years now we are now separated.. and I meet this guy who is a born again christian also.. I fall in love with him... cause he encourage me that there is still life awaits me inspite of everything.. but is this okey?? I mean he is also separated..IS THIS A CHRISTIAN WAY??and in my place no divorce allowed...PLS! HELP...

2007-10-25 15:23:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 15:23:29 · 4 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

That's how tall i am, i was wondering if girls (even those taller) can find a guy of my height good looking if i had a good face, body and clothing sense + friendly, confident and happy personality.

I am 18

2007-10-25 15:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 15:21:37 · 1 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

I knew my boyfriend loved to drink before we got together, but that's your typical army guy. He's been out of the army for a year now, but continously drinks. He's never mean, he's actullay more lovey-dovey when he drinks, never hit me. Why does it bother me so much? I don't drink that often, once in a blue moon because its just something I don't like to do that often. He doesn't drink to get drunk, but he will drink 3 or more mixed drinks a night & I know he's bigger than me & it takes a lot more for him to get drunk than me, but it bothers me. Can anyone tell me why I let it bother me so much? I've confronted him a few times about his drinking problem & he says he'll cut back & does for a few days, then it starts up again. I feel like I'm nagging him. I don't know what to do; He never hurts me & is never mean to me.He did drugs & everything before the army & now all he does is drink. I feel like a nagging girlfriend.

2007-10-25 15:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You and someone that you admire very dearly are stuck in a house together for about a week.

Where do you think it would lead?
Depending on your and your admirer's personality, would you hate each other by the end? Love each other? Lust for each other?

Just a question that's been bugging me. I'd like to see if others think the way I do.

2007-10-25 15:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by Glamou 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a brother that thinks he's more talented than he actually is. I know he's meant for something else, but he's convinced he's the next big thing in music. He's developed quite the Jesus complex and thinks he'll change the world with his two chord wisdom. I don't even recognize him anymore, he has become the ultimate poser. It's not that I'm jealous, he's Really not that good. He's also sensitive and would cry himself to sleep if I told him otherwise. How can I approach this without him severing ties and hating me forever?

2007-10-25 15:20:34 · 4 answers · asked by tim 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is wonderful in other areas of our relationship - he's attentive, loving, affectionate, considerate, etc but when it comes to sex some of those qualities seem to disappear. We have had some really great romps but more often than not I am left feeling like a piece of meat afterwards.

A couple nights ago I wasn't warmed up enough (the fact that he doesn't seem to understand that I need more foreplay is a reacurring problem) and I told him I wasn't ready (for intercourse) yet he went ahead and did it any ways. He asked me during if I was ok and I felt like it really didn't matter if I was or wasn't because he was going to do what he wanted any how. It's like my needs are no longer important when it comes to sex even when I tell him I need more play time.

Could he be craving more aggresion or control from me? He left the AM after for a few days so I haven't been able to talk to him about it but this incident has really upset me.

2007-10-25 15:19:46 · 18 answers · asked by Ersabette 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been having such horrible days these last couple of days... My boyfriend (who i have been with for the last 4 yrs) has changed in 1 day... sunday he was himself (sweet, caring, there for me) and monday everything just went wrong. he was so distant. he said we needed to talk... and later on that night he told me that he was really stressed, that he hasent been happy at his job for a while, that he needed his space to figure things out, that he felt like he was being pressured into marriage (WHEN IT WAS HIS FREAKING IDEA). and ive been trying to give him his space these couple of days but he is really taking advantage of the situation, he comes home really late, last night he came at 3am! he would never blow me off, or come home so late. he used to always sent me text messages saying i love u through out the day but i dont even get that anymore... i dont know what to do. I love him and i want to work things out, but i cant work things out alone. i need help....

2007-10-25 15:15:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce