ok i am 18 years old and i am attending a local university. I really want to move out and live on my own for a while. I want the freedom that is associated with college and that others who live away from home get to experience. The only problem is that is i leave i know it will be on bad terms. My parents are still trying to give me curfews of 10:30 and i am like are you kidding me and they simply say our house our rules. Which is fair, but my dad is always on me to find college friends, because i still hang out with all of my friends i graduated with... my question is how in the hell do i find college friends when college people do not even go out till 10:30 lol i mean i have to be home when they are just leaving home lol. i can afford living with a roommate, but i work fo my dad(he has seveeral business) and i make like 1200 a month and that is plenty i mean i would only spend like 900 a month on rent, car, cell phone...etc read details below
2007-10-25 15:40:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i am wondering will my dad fire me if i move out, but he needs me more than he thinks i am his only employee, what do yall think
2007-10-25 15:46:07 · update #1
When you make this decision, think it through all the way around, you know your father and how he responds to things. You need to be ready to accept it if it blows up in your face.
2007-10-25 15:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are thinking about getting a place with a roommate. This will get them to thinking about it. They may ask why? then be honest about the curfew thing. I just moved out, and said "I"m out of here!!!" DON'T DO WHAT I DID!!!. My mom threw away all my stuff including clothes, yearbooks, record albums, Boy Scout awards, etc. When I went back for Thanksgiving, they had converted my room into sewing room and I had no place to sleep. After 50 yrs, I would still love to have my yearbooks and pictures.
2007-10-25 22:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try talking to your parents and try to get them to understand you point of view on the idea of moving out. They should understand and want you to become more independent. Its going to be hard on them so try to undestand there point of view too, but make really good points to come back with. Just make sure you are ready and are going to have all the answers that they will be askign you.
2007-10-25 22:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Samanth33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is called growing up...take that step...go find a roommate and move out...your parents will get over the empty nest syndrome way soon and will be back to 20 questions in no time...don't go nuts tho...continue the responsible behavior that you have been taught and finish collage
2007-10-25 22:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by KayKay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out unless you're too emotionally tied to your parents and want them to rule your life.
2007-10-25 22:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by lilly101200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that he will fire ouy..but the college friends thing is kinda impossible since you do have a curefew..=)
2007-10-25 22:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋