I have a brother that thinks he's more talented than he actually is. I know he's meant for something else, but he's convinced he's the next big thing in music. He's developed quite the Jesus complex and thinks he'll change the world with his two chord wisdom. I don't even recognize him anymore, he has become the ultimate poser. It's not that I'm jealous, he's Really not that good. He's also sensitive and would cry himself to sleep if I told him otherwise. How can I approach this without him severing ties and hating me forever?
2007-10-25 15:20:34 · 4 answers · asked by tim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may be one of those instances where you are going to have to let him find out for himself. If he is as bad as you say, then he is going to get a lot of rejections.
Your family can try and encourage him not to give up on his education and work on building a career outside of the music industry, while he's trying to make it big, and not facilitate him in inflating his ego, if he is truly talentless.
2007-10-25 15:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by concerned neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably your brother has lots of complex You are saying that your brother is very sensible Can you imagine how many times he had been hurt by hes peers at school What hes doing now shows he still have some complex He using the music as a tool to help him ;; his guitar Dont tell him nothing hes a sad soul who needs help
2007-10-25 15:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him a reality check. and just tell him the truth. Better comming from you than Simon on american Idol.
2007-10-25 15:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by r.orphe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When his CD doesn't sell, he'll learn. Just let him brag if it makes him feel better. Seems that's all the po' thangs got.
2007-10-25 15:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋