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My children do receive from their father a modest weekly sum for the basics. However, he has paid for no extras (birthday party gifts, hockey dues, gifts from Santa, softball registration, etc.), no medical/dental bills, and no prescriptions. Be aware please that I provide my children's insurance. In essence, we are struggling to make ends meet. The only extras he has paid for are the two toothbrushes the kids use during the 96 hours a month they see him. I realize the weekly support is more than some single parents can rely on, and I apologize if it seems I am being petty. It's just that it's occured to me that perhaps I'm not making use of some of the standard child support practices out there (ex. I've heard that some parents split the insurance deductible, for instance)

2007-10-25 16:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by ophelia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But she just got married in begining of July of this year, isn't that called an annullment instead, and how do you get one?
She called me and asking me, I don't know I've been married for 9 years, it's my first marriage. Can someone point us to the right direction?

2007-10-25 16:21:34 · 13 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15. my mom kicked me & i threw an apple at her face. her nose bled for a while. then she tried to beat me up and i crawled out the window. she has beaten me up before. i had to deffend myself. i told her sorry. i want to die for what i did. now she is making me swich schools cuz she thinks my school is too violent. help i dont want to switch schools. i will miss my friends and teachers. what should i do. my mom is a drunk

2007-10-25 16:20:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I monitor my son's MySpace page and found today he posted a photo of himself with fake blood pouring out of his mouth down the front of his shirt. It was his main photo. I immediately raised hell and told him to delete it - it was sick looking. He claims it was a "zombie" pic. I told him it just looked ridiculous and sick/gross. It looked graphic like he had cut himself and bled all overhimself. I got extremely angry because he took this pic while I wasn't home. I told him if this was what he was doing when I trusted him home alone then he would no longer be staying home alone anymore. The picture scared me because he was making a growling face - freaked me out. Normally he's a good kid -into war movies, airplanes and music. This was weird - all his other pics on MySpace are normal. I grounded him from the computer for posting such a nasty pic. My question is what is up with teenagers? Do their brains go dormant when they turn 15? He knows better than to post this crap.

2007-10-25 16:20:40 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

son having difficult time and had been a a few rough years being tossed from one counseler to another,He is a beatiful child-who can be so loving and sweet-but has severe anger/behavior problems.Finally this week after waiting for an appt with a child psychiatrist hes been dx with high functioning autism and aspbergers syndrome-so then the ever needy selfish father claims hes coming unglued hearing voices,conversations-animals are biting him that arnt there-damm him couldnt he for even one minute put his son first.Its a ploy.I can watch it-its like watching tv-hes waiting to see if anyone is watching and then acts unusual/out of sorts-we are in the middle of being divorced -i just cant take the lies the stealing the manipulation.ten long years of being told who to speak to.where to go/or not catchiing him in his stories and all he can so is oh well-im done its time-i want more than this-he wont leave the house and unless he threatens physical violence.he likes to lurk stalkfrightenhelp

2007-10-25 16:17:29 · 10 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Marriage & Divorce

well i completely love my boyfrienddd; wee pretty much had a good relationship, the usual with up's and down's. I completelyy trustt himmm becausee preetyy much he earnedd my trust I ...a feww daays agoo onee of his exes, told me that he was cheating on me..whichh I foundd totally ridiculousss & pay no attention to it...until the day after she showed me a picturee of himm kissing anotheeer girl..
i want too trust him, thinking that th picture might be oldddd...but deep insidee i kno that there is a chance that is trueeee....todayy i couldnt see himm cause he saidd he sis had a modeling showw soo he could be with me & not to text him or call him, I tottally feel like if that was a complete liee & that he really is cheatingg on mee, i love himmm but might treust for himmm is completelyy gonee...I havent talk to him abou t causee i want to do it personally...tommorow im going to see but i dont what shouldd i doo ??
what wouldd youu guyss do in my place ?
please & thanx

2007-10-25 16:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by CRAZYINLOVE! 1 in Singles & Dating

He just won't talk. He doesn't even say hello. It is like pulling teeth to get him to look at me. And if I do get him to say anything he tells me he is pissed at everything and is getting ready to snap He says I haven't done anything wrong, then he turns around and says he keeps finding small things I do that piss him off. Like doing my schoolwork when he is near. Then he just won't say anything until we get ready for bed. But he will sit there and text someone. And he always hides it even when I only see it out of the corner of my eye. He keeps thinking I am gonna look over his shoulder, when I respect him more than that. And as for space he normally is out every other night until 2 or 3 am and gets mad when I ask.

2007-10-25 16:15:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my bio book there is a picture of a kid with down syndrom and my friends make fun of it often. It makes me extremely uncomfertable.

They are my best friends and are great people who are smarter than most people I know, which makes it bother me even more.

What should I do???

2007-10-25 16:14:01 · 19 answers · asked by neil_yoshi 1 in Friends

Ok I have been with this man for 25 years now and every year at about the same time he turns into the biggest rear end ? can anybody enlighten me with what might be going on is it possible something traumatized him and it triggers a this behavior. The rest of the year he is a great provider, lover and father. I am not sure I can do 25 more years if I don't figure this out. Last year was without major attitude problem. I thought we had got past the Oct-Dec problem. Please I know I have not given alot of details but if anyone one has a clue please let me know. I am open to just about anything.

2007-10-25 16:11:27 · 16 answers · asked by chippers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone ever heard / know of any young couples in early 20’s that have walked down the aisle, and separated before 12m!!
Any ideas as to the cause of the breakup?????

2007-10-25 16:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by Liz G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My older sister called about 15 minutes ago,She lives in another state.we talk for less then 10 minutes so the conversation is going well untill I tell her I saw one of our cousins who mom just past away.she asks me did I attend the funeral and I told her no I did not attend. she asked why.The reason I did not attend the funeral is because my father side of the family is always treating my mother really bad.My father use to be married to this lady so my father sisters and his neices keep inviting his ex-wife to the funeral and doing alot of other evil things.They are trying to get my father back with this lady.so anyway my sister says she is still your aunt.Then I ask her well why you did not attend,she said because of money problems.so then she got upset with me and wanted to talk to my mom.I know I should have attended the funeral but if I would have attend I know I would have got into it with my aunts or cousins.so I would like to know do you think Im wrong for not attending?

2007-10-25 16:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by TrueWoman 1 in Family

My future husband and I use to do drugs together 7 years ago when we were in middle school, We have both grown from that and come back to each other and we are getting married in December, How do I convince my mother that he is not the same guy he use to be 7 years ago?

I am 19 and I know that I am young and I still have college, I have thought about everything someone needs to think about before getting married. I know that there are other guys out there and guys I will meet in college, but I love him, I always have and he's the one that I've always wanted to be with, even when i was in other relationships. Divorce is not even an option with us. He is in the army right now about to go to Iraq this summer and we are getting married the end of December before I go off to school. we really want to do this right and not elope

My mom hates to talk about it and everyone tells me that these kinda things never work out.
I've prayed about it and I've got a peace about this whole thing.

2007-10-25 16:09:20 · 9 answers · asked by tickerspam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother had sex with this girl and now she's pregnant and broke up with her the day she told him. She calls me, distraught and says she doesn't know what to do, I can't do anything because he's in the military and living all the way in California where he met her. I told him he needs to take responsibility and support her. He says that she's a hoe and hit on the first night... she says something different. So I told him he needs to stand by her until the baby's born and take a paternity test to see for sure. He didn't take that well and said I'm on her side, and I'm not giving him good advice and making me feel like the bad sister. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and they looking at me for an answer.

2007-10-25 16:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by ******* 5 in Family

I'm in my late 20s. Been through a couple of very long term relationships. Just focusing on my career right now and don't have the energy to date anyone. So, I have a lover I see once or twice a week (we've been seeing each other for a month or so). I like him as a person and we are very compatible as lovers. Things are very natural and comfortable right now. Normally I just meet him at his place and leave right after. A couple of days ago, I slept over for the first time. Do you think I may get emotionally attached if I spend more time with him hanging out or sleeping over? I'm a little worried. (I know people will comment on this, so I'll answer first: of course we practice safe sex!)

2007-10-25 16:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 4 in Singles & Dating

He also pays child support to the mother, but his daughter stays with him. What chances does he have to get custody of his daughter?

2007-10-25 16:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by rogers4516 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother pays $100 per month for child support. legally, thats all he has to pay. but is ex gf is on welfare so she doesnt get the money bc it is taken out of her welfare. she never lets us see my neice bc she thinks he is a deadbeat dad. she doesnt understand the situation. i miss my niece i havent seen her since she was 2 years old in the summer time and now she is 3 and i miss and love her. her mom is an idiot and my neice sstill wers diaperss and is on the bottle and her mom sux wud do i do?

2007-10-25 16:03:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

O pious of the heart, I am lost in a love, so great
O pain the hidden secrets will become open debate.
Shipwrecked we just float, O favorable wind arise,
May we one more time gaze upon that familiar trait.
Passage of time and the stars, are but what we fantasize
For compassion and kindness, it is never too late.
In the circle of wine and roses, nightingale’s song is prize
With the aroma and the wine your senses satiate.
O Thou compassionate one, life giver and the wise
One day bestow thy grace upon this mendicant’s state.
For peace of this world and the next, understand what I advise
Magnanimity the lot of friends, and with foes try to relate.

In the land of repute, our passage they will dispute
If this will not suit, don’t stay mute, and transmute dictates of fate.

When destitute and in need, let your love and passion breed
Life’s alchemy, essence and seed, unimagined wealth shall create.

If unruly with pride, with a candle’s zeal your flame will rise
Beloved turns stone to lava, and molten wax manipulate.
The Grail contains but wine, if only you realize
Then the Kingdom of the world, at your feet prostrate.
The good and wise Magi, forgivers of lives and lies
Bearer bring good news, drunkards’ wine consecrate.
With this wine stained robe, Hafiz would never disguise
O untainted pure Master, exempt us from this fate.

2007-10-25 16:03:09 · 1 answers · asked by ahmad p 2 in Singles & Dating

I wanna get something nice for my friend who is getting married in December. help!

2007-10-25 16:02:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was recently married. The judge at city hall who married us; her name was Carol. The marriage cerfticate came in the mail today. The judges name is spelled "Casrol". I recently read in a gossip piece that celebrity Usher and Tameka's marriage license had a similar mistake with the judges name being spelled incorrectly and their marriage may be invalid in the state of Georgia. I was just wondering if it was true. Is my marriage considered invalid due to the clerks mistake?

2007-10-25 16:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by Know It All 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my older brother is doing drugs,
but i dont really know.





my oldest brother had him spend the night at his house,
and he brought some cigarettes over,

it bugs me that, that's something he would do.
because he's not like that.
well you wouldnt know it.

it drives me up the wall,
and i want to do something about it,
but i dont know what to do.

help!

2007-10-25 15:57:30 · 3 answers · asked by MusicisME 1 in Family

the other day my husband and i were hard at it and i was screaming, "F*ck me".... over and over and some other things. we finished our business, very loudly. my child from the other side of the house knocked on the door and asked, "mom, are you ok?" i said "yes, we're just playing an adult game" and he said, "what game?" i replied, "the f*ck me game." he never bothered us again. we were rolling.

2007-10-25 15:56:43 · 16 answers · asked by (!)listen 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hes my manager, hes married and I have a bf of 2 years.
I desperatley need these feelings to stop, but Im finally got a big raise and a good position at my job and I dont wanna quit.
Adam (manager) likes me too. We had a talk about it today and he told me to just keep everything a secret and so will he. Its just, hes such a sweet, good natured person. Hes so gentle and caring with me and for a guy he is so sensitive. I mean, I accidently hurt his feelings because I didnt pity him when he had a headache lol! and the way he looks at me drives me wild, its like he wants to tell me something but he cant. He never has tried anything sexual with me, all the feelings we have are emotional feelings. Im attached to him and its so wrong.

How do i make this stop? I just wanna tell him everything one day and tell him I cant handle the feelings for him anymore and see what he says. This is killing me so bad and I have to keep it such a secret that I cant tell a soul who knows me

2007-10-25 15:56:34 · 35 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

The other night, out of the blue, my fiancee asked me to put her thong on. I said no, but the more I resisted, the more she asked and just wouldnt let it go. So I finally gave in and put them on for her. I have to admit that it felt totally different from wearing boxers. I really liked the texture of them and the way they felt to wear, but I am embarassed to admit it to her. I kind of want to do it again, but what do I say to her? Can any women out there tell me if this kind of thing is ok from a woman's standpoint?

2007-10-25 15:56:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy friend of mine tells me repeatedly he has started to have a mean streak and soemtimes being mean makes him happy.
he has ALWAYS been nice to me and is an awesome listener, so Im distraught that he has any interest in being MEAN on purpose.
He is mid 30s so Im afraid if he starts to be mean this late in life he will never change for the good.
Should I talk to him or run away ?
My friends say that only a crazy guy would tell people he thinks about mean for kicks.

2007-10-25 15:55:33 · 5 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Friends

2007-10-25 15:55:17 · 3 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex bf break for 2 months ago. me and his brother are friends..his brother going to R.O.M soon.his brother asked to to attend his R.O.M..So my ex bf will be there on that day ..so should i go? what will he feel if he see me on that day?

2007-10-25 15:54:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i don't know what to do anymore, i feel so incredibly fed up. i realize i'm not his parent, but his sister, so who am i for him to answer to, right?

my parents though don't know about any of the things he does. he is not a bad person, but he just doesn't care about school--high school. he is soo concerned about his appearance, constantly having a gf, being popular, and every aspect of his social life. he stays after school everyday to hang out even more with his friends...then he comes home and goes on aim to talk even more with his friends. i've talked with his teachers and they tell me that he's doing poorly in his classes. i've tried to talk to him so many times, tried to explain to him in different ways how important it is for him to do well in school. he hears me, but it's in one ear and out the other. before i used to control what he does on the internet by blocking aim and blog sites, and only let him do that on the weekends, then he found other ways to get around

2007-10-25 15:50:51 · 7 answers · asked by smiles 2 in Family

My bridesmaids dresses are Apple Red. What shoe color would go best with the Apple Red?

2007-10-25 15:50:33 · 54 answers · asked by star 1 in Weddings

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