A guy friend of mine tells me repeatedly he has started to have a mean streak and soemtimes being mean makes him happy.
he has ALWAYS been nice to me and is an awesome listener, so Im distraught that he has any interest in being MEAN on purpose.
He is mid 30s so Im afraid if he starts to be mean this late in life he will never change for the good.
Should I talk to him or run away ?
My friends say that only a crazy guy would tell people he thinks about mean for kicks.
2007-10-25 15:55:33 · 5 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh yeah and he does drink too. he is trying to cut back though.
2007-10-25 16:00:52 · update #1
I've noticed alcohol can do this to some people.
2007-10-25 15:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is be careful, you may get hurt in the long run. Especially if he tends to get angry and mean in front of you it may not be directed towards you, but you can almost count on it that this anger and being mean will be directed at you in the future. Just watch yourself, especially if you bring it up to him. Some ppl like him do not like to be confronted. Good Luck!
2007-10-25 22:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away. He is telling you who he is. Do you want him for your friend? You're in trouble if you do. Watch out. He could harm you.
2007-10-25 22:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by lilly101200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do both, talk to him THEN run away...he sounds shallow
2007-10-25 23:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody does
2007-10-25 23:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋