Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

I feel like time alone with your partner is vital after kids come into the picture. I fell that it makes a better marriage and well being in general. I worry about finding quality time for myself and hubby after our baby is born and how our relationship will change. How do you find time for each other and how has your relationship changed once a baby comes into the picture? Just curious if anyone else had this fear when they were pregnant with their first...

2007-10-25 14:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by emmy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP ME

2007-10-25 14:13:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been having a sexual relationship with a friend, but we have talked about how neither of us need or want emotional commitment -just physical connection. We have only slept together once and its one of the first type of experiences like that for me w/ just a friend. What I don't understand is why he isn't just screwing me then getting over with it, instead he will kiss my hand and tell me how nice it is and hold me afterwards. I just really don't understand I always thought that if you weren't in a serious relationship -and just had sex- men would just have SEX and keep it not so cuddlely. Are the rest of you dudes like that? =] seriously..you confuse me. haha Let me know.

2007-10-25 14:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. I know this guy who's girl is 3 grades lower than him and I like him. What should I do , I know I would be better for him.
HELP!!!!

2007-10-25 14:10:39 · 10 answers · asked by Class of '09 York Dragons!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 years and I decided to break up about 2 weeks ago. I've been going through a lot of S*it and it hasn't gotten any better.

I've been dating someone else for the past week and he completley broke my heart and it's been a mess.

My boyfriend (of 3 years) and I had plans for about a month for him to come up this weekend to see me and we were going to get a hotel and have "alone time" together and it was supposed to be romantic.

Once he found out the other guy and I broke up he decided that our plans were back on again and he was coming up.

I'm so stressed out and upset I don't want this "alone time" I want to go back home to see my mother and father and just relax for the weekend. I just don't want any guy in the picture for this weekend. I just want to unwind from this messed up week!!

When I explained this to him he got very angry and wouldn't talk to me. He told me that it was quote un quote "to bad" and he was coming up this weekend!"

WHAT DO I DO!!

2007-10-25 14:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a female who left a unhappy relationship with another female to spark up old flames with my exgirlfriend.

2007-10-25 14:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by NIkki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm creating a "newlywed game"

Just a game of questions... that couples could ask eachother (to see what couple knows the most about each other)

What kind of questions could I have?
Obviously the typical "What's your spouse's middle name?" and "What city was your spouse born in?"

But what are some other CREATIVE questions that could be added to the game?

Thanks!

2007-10-25 14:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 14:00:41 · 3 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Singles & Dating

While in the heat of passion, my current girlfriend asked me to "climax" on her. Is this a common practice? This is the first girl to ever ask this of me. I'm not sure how I feel about this. Please help.

2007-10-25 14:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 14:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by Snow 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 13:57:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi guys,

I met this girl online and we have been friends for over a year. We really got along very fine until the last two months of our "friendship". We weren't in a relationship but I really liked her but there was no way to ask her out as she lived far away. So I kept my feelings to myself. I was in school and sometimes I skipped classes and even work to talk to her(yes i did learn the hard way no to do it)

Now she's getting a little busier with her school and she says she can't even come online for at least 5 minutes to say hi to me. She knew I liked her the whole time and I did so much for her like sending her expensive gifts.

Now she knows I'm hurt a lot, but she just ignores it all. She just acts like she knows nothing about it and acts like nothing happened.

Everyone says the best way to hurt her is to ignore her. Is this the only way? I really want to hurt her emotionally. I want her to know what she did to me.

Tell me what to say the next time we talk.

2007-10-25 13:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by Sean 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this girl for about 8 months now, things are really great between us. I want to marry this girl, however I am trying to get a good job so that I can be financially stable. The problem is that the type of work I enjoy is on the other side of the country, corporate airline stuff, but she has built a life for herself here. I am torn, I want to tell her I am looking for jobs in other states, but we are so happy with our situation now, and I feel I would only be ruining the relationship. I hope she would come with me but she is successful here. Please help!!!

2007-10-25 13:54:39 · 5 answers · asked by jamesl91 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 19 year old liberated woman how has been dating the same guy for 2 years. I have been on the pill all this time and it is getting expensive. I think my boyfriend should pay half, but I don't know him well enough to discuss money with him. How should I go about getting him to pay half ?

2007-10-25 13:53:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want a boyfriend. I want somebody who will respect me, but be willing to kiss me and to tell me he loves me. I want somebody who will die for me. Obviously, I know these things aren't going to happen at my age, but this is really what I want when I get older. Is it so wrong to want a fairytale ending? A classic example-Phantom of the Opera-Raoul was willing to let the Phantom kill him to let Christine go. That's the kind of thing I long for. All of my relationships so far haven't worked out at all. A jerk, a jerk, a jerk. That's the story of my love life. I'm not looking for somebody to tell me how to get this, just somebody who can sympathize with me. Sometimes this keeps me awake at night, thinking how badly I want this. someday...someday...

2007-10-25 13:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by Biology Nerd 5 in Singles & Dating

he kept telling me he loved me...but never asked me out....now that we kinda R going out im not totally sure if he really likes me...he has been considered one of the biggest flirts at school...was he juss doing to me what he did to all the other girls...or does he really like me?

2007-10-25 13:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I was just wondering if you can help me... Im not sure if this is the right place to ask this but Ill ask anyway... ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months and we didnt start having sex until this month because I was waiting for her to be ready. But see... we had sex and now shes pregnantThis makes me love her even more, and I offered to marry her because I love her and I want to have this baby with her. But when I told her that she told me she hated me for getting her pregnant and shes just going to get an abortion! What do I do? I really want to do this with her but she wont let me!? Am I being to clingy? She is my first gf... should I just telll her off and let her be on her way? Im sooo confused!!

2007-10-25 13:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by Samuel H 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a 7 year old step son with autisim(ASD,highfunctioning), he dosent listen to me at all, anything i say, or do, he completely ignores, he will only listen to men, he isnt fond of women, im not sure if this is because his mother abandoned him at the age of 5 (him and his sister) but i am at the end of my rope, the worst part is that he is cohersing his sister into doing bad things aswell.....his father and i have an 18 month old together and i am terrified of him learning these behaviours as well....any advice?

2007-10-25 13:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by meryl m 1 in Family

My son-in-law acts just like a spoiled kid when he's losing in any game. No matter what we're playing! Aren't "GAMES" suppose to be fun!? How would you deal with this situation?

2007-10-25 13:49:27 · 7 answers · asked by tictak kat 7 in Family

Okay so my boyfriend n I like to have sex in weird places....give us sum ideas plz?

2007-10-25 13:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by nvr_ur_bby 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 im in the varsity soccer team girls think im hot but the problem is i dont know how to talk to them. the girlfriends i had were because they approached me. i have no idea what to say to a girl i like. right now i think this girl is really really cute and i really want to talk to her but i have no idea how. i dont know what to say to her without her thinking im a weirdo. should i go up to her and say you look pretty and walk away. i seriously have no idea what to do. i want her to like me but i dont know how to talk to a girl if she doesnt come to me first.

2007-10-25 13:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by guyintrouble 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy is always teasing me. (I have a huge crush on him). he says that I am mean (in a totally joking way) and he twice threw a tennis ball at my face - not hard - in a friendly way(when we were playing tennis). i then "insult" him back and then he sayas that I am "mean". i feel kinda bad sometimes though. when he says i am mean, what else can i say back?

2007-10-25 13:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by pictureabluesky 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i posted up a question a couple days ago. Same guy, him and i have been great friends and really close. But i feel like he's dropping hints that we could be more than that. But its so weird , at school when i see him he passes me by sometimes and doesn't even look my way. AND I KNOW HE SEES ME. But today i had my back completely turned and he was leaving school with his friend and he called my name just to tell me bye. I don't get it. and when i talk to him outside of school we connect on a great level, and we talk for hours. Whats his deal?

2007-10-25 13:48:03 · 1 answers · asked by Red Wings Queen19 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife is a loving person but i seem to be coming in second to everything and everybody. Now don't get me wrong now i don't mind coming in second to my kids but i shouldn't have to come in second to anybody or anything after that. When i ask her to do anything for me it's like it's a chore for her to do and she doesn't really want to do. I'm getting fed up and i don't want to cheat because that will cause more problems. Can someone help me? Please!!

2007-10-25 13:47:54 · 21 answers · asked by Albert W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i tell if they like me cuz i am like bestfriends but my other girl friends say they are flirting with me so how can i tell if they are tellin the truth

2007-10-25 13:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by purplecaitlin 2 in Singles & Dating

he left last november i look after our 15yr old but he refuses to see his dad. my 20yr old agrees that he shouldnt because he wont see his dad. i have had no help and c.s.a have done nothing even though i have been in touch with them, when my husband found out he packed up work. i work full time.

2007-10-25 13:45:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and one of my friends is having an agrueement!! He says you cant contract STDS if you do it with a virgin. I say you could get it if you have sex with to many and then you could end up passing the virus on to other girls. Who is right? Me or Him or Neither....need some answer!!! thank u!

2007-10-25 13:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by bigdreamer7 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with a woman 15 yrs ago. I was only 16/17 yrs old but we still lived together. She cheated on Me several times and stole a check from my mom and forged it, so we split up. She took off for awhile and then She showed back up with a 4 mnth old baby and told me she was mine. Because I was under age, and she had cheated, my parents offered to pay for a DNA test. She refused and ran with the baby. 15 yrs later, she's back and says that if I don't buy her daughter a $5 - $6,000.00 car, I need to pay the $50,000.00+ I owe in child support. She still has not had the DNA test done. I've contacted Child Support in all 6 states she lived in and they can't seem to find a case with me. Is this possible? What do I do? My wife and I have 2 children now and My wife makes o.k. money, but I don't make much. We can't afford a lawyer. Is there help out there for us?

2007-10-25 13:43:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been talking for a long while (4 months) mainly over the phone and through emails. I've seen pictures of him and he's seen pictures of me. I wouldn't say he's the most attractive person to society standards, but I find him EXTREMELY adorable and handsome.

He thinks I'm "hot/beautiful". I think I'm average looking, if not a little below average (for reasons explained in the next paragraph). I've been told that I'm pretty/cute and I always, "Thank" people for the compliment (I don't fish for compliments).

The problem is, I have really bad ACNE and weird acne scars on my face. Most of the pictures he's seen of me are in group photos or photos that are taken from a certain distance so my ACNE isn't THAT visible. The pictures of me that he's seen close up of me were photoshopped (I know, I'm so horrible because this is lying, but I photoshop all my photos and my friends know it and it doesn't bother them...)

2007-10-25 13:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

my sis is so mean. Because im alot thinner and healthier than her she always seems to put me down. I have to earn all the things i get like chanel, hollister, dior, abercrombie all that stuff. She always borrows my stuff and gives it back a month later and then when i ask her for something she always says noe shes 27 honstly i think she has enough money to buy her own stuff. Shes like a little chubby and i do alot of sports and im thinner than her and she always stretches out my shirts and shorts it sucks.
I love her to death shes really mean to me sometimes.
She even was like enturrupting me and my boyfriend on a date and shes just horrible

2007-10-25 13:39:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family