I've been having a sexual relationship with a friend, but we have talked about how neither of us need or want emotional commitment -just physical connection. We have only slept together once and its one of the first type of experiences like that for me w/ just a friend. What I don't understand is why he isn't just screwing me then getting over with it, instead he will kiss my hand and tell me how nice it is and hold me afterwards. I just really don't understand I always thought that if you weren't in a serious relationship -and just had sex- men would just have SEX and keep it not so cuddlely. Are the rest of you dudes like that? =] seriously..you confuse me. haha Let me know.
2007-10-25 14:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you a man or a chick, doesn't matter really because they are all different. its hard to have just sex because most of the time someone ends up hurt. In fact with that outlook of just sex you may find someone that really rocks your boat, and you change your mind and want more and he doesn't. Try a swing club, there around if you know were to look, you will need a TAN card... Tested Aids Negitive to get in.
2007-10-25 14:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by tattoo junky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there is a lot of love and affection in your friend for you. Usually men forget everything after they ejaculate. But this guy seems to have genuine feelings for you. He is just scared of getting into a commitment and I think he is being honest with you.
I think you could think of not losing this guy. He seems to be a nice man!
2007-10-25 14:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like this guy is a rare person who even though its just physical, still respect's you and wants to make sure you don't end up feeling cheap or used. my advice is to enjoy it. sounds like you got a good thing going and one day when your both ready it may develop into the best relationship you ever had. old saying, IF IT AINT BROKE DON'T TRY TO FIX IT.
2007-10-25 14:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by br549242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have sex once more trust me and then explain what you want.he will agree and probably let things be respect what you want and actually hoppefully appreciate his lucky position.
2007-10-25 14:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by ahvillian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the stupid 'haha' about at the end!
2007-10-25 15:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by secret society 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋