Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

well i met this girl on the bus. we hared a laugh or two but she asked out mmy friend calleeq or however u spell it and he said no but i dunno howi ca get her to like me. help!
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well heres the thing caleeq said no to her. hes not datin her shes not his girl. hes tryin 2 help me get her. but we talked lyk once on bus and we got lyk1 laugh. but i think she out of my league. im kyna freaked by what myt hapn if she ses no it would hurt lyk hell i mean i dumped a hot!!!!!!! girl named lindsey who was reely turned on to me and i gave up laptop to be able to get out more. and i gave up about 10 of my frends cuz they tot i shoodnt even try 4 her. i dont want it all to be a waste

2007-10-25 12:09:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for over a year...We've had our ups and downs like any couple, but more ups than anything. We also spend an incredible amount of time together and plan to move in together in the next couple of months. I've been going through some deep family issues and he has been by my side and I truly appreciate that. This week everytime I see him he is so spaced out like Im not even there and I asked him what is wrong, but he says that he has issues at work and to bare with him. I want to know what I can do for him and be there for him but he says to instead leave him alone for a couple days...
Should I worry?

2007-10-25 12:07:03 · 28 answers · asked by Micaela 1 in Singles & Dating

i was thinking about making the first move and start talking to a guy in my class, but my friend said not to cuz then the guy won't appreciate the girl, instead the guys would appreciate girls that they work hard to get. should i make my move?

2007-10-25 12:06:50 · 5 answers · asked by zoey z 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 years old (14 in April) and I've never been kissed. When do you think it will happen? How do I find the right guy? Almost all the girls in my grade have made out or at least kissed, and I feel so left out. How will I know when it is the right time for my first kiss? Please help.

2007-10-25 12:05:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 12:04:32 · 7 answers · asked by vim4you2 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been liking this guy for months now, and I really want to talk to him. Do you think I should have one of my friends tell him I like him? Would you do it? Would it be good or bad??

Please answer and thanks in advance. : )

2007-10-25 12:02:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently received an invitation from my cousin, to attend his daughter's bat mitzvah (the Jewish version of a communion, for those unfamiliar with the term) in late November.

He addressed the invitation to me, not me and 'Guest.' However, he didn't know that I have a girlfriend, and that I'd like to bring her.

I already sent the RSVP back, saying I was coming (the RSVP date was yesterday). My question is, is it proper to ask him if I can bring my girlfriend, even though I was the only one invited, and even though the RSVP date has passed. And if so, how should I go about doing it?

My girlfriend has yet to meet my family, whom I rarely see, since I live in a different state, and I thought that this would be a great opportunity for that to happen.

Thanks.

2007-10-25 12:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by funnyme 2 in Weddings

ok the reason was
my mark on a lab was 93%, but my partner thought that we had it in together even though that wasn't the case..so the mark got divided by 2
so i was like..sobbing at my desk
and i guess my teacher put 2 and 2 together and took my lab report and changed the mark back and told me always to hand it in, in singles
and then i didnt stop crying because now i felt stupid for crying!! :P
nobody saw but my teacher..and when i started talking to explain why i didnt hand it in as a single i was like sobbing..it was so embarassing!! i just couldnt control myself!!
i have a feeling this is something ill never forget and it's really like..painful to think about!! help me feel better/forget about this? :P

sorry this is so long!!

2007-10-25 12:00:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so a guy that I’ve liked for a long time finally asked me on a date a few weeks ago. Every Thursday since then, we’ve gone a date. Things always go exceedingly well, and we always have the best conversation during the dates, and then end up kissing at the end. I can tell that he likes me a lot, or so I thought. But last Thursday, we made plans for Monday. Then, on Monday, he told me that it wasn’t going to work out, but said that he’d call me in a day or two. Well, now it’s Thursday night again, and I haven’t heard anything. I know that he’s a busy guy, and he’s always been reliable in the past. I am just getting freaked out, but don’t want to seem too needy by calling him first, when he said he’d call me. Do you think he’s just busy or what?

2007-10-25 11:55:24 · 10 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 11:54:37 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know all men are different, but i have a question. Do YOU personally like a woman who tells you what to do and is basically in charge of everything in a way... OR do you prefer a woman who is more needy and you like doing things for her. such as picking the restaurant, and YOU being in charge. What is your view on that? and yeah i want YOUR thoughts! thanks

2007-10-25 11:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like i am annoying this girl because every day i say hi to her...and i don';t know..she seems a bit whatever

2007-10-25 11:52:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm extremely shy and not exactly the type to "take initiative". I've been dating a guy for a while and we just started having sex. He was my first and I'm still very new to sex. I feel bad because he's usually the one who does everything. I know he likes more agressive girls who can take control during sex, and I would like to be more forceful... Any tips on how I can do this and what I can do to please him?

2007-10-25 11:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by Juliet 1 in Singles & Dating

oh my gosh!!! i hav been having problems wit my friend jazmin!!! she left to mexico today.... and SHE DIDN'T EVEN BOTHER TO TELL ME!!! I am so sick of her and this other mean girl being TOLTAL JERKS!!! i am SOOOOO MAD!!! I mean me and jazmin always used to get along!! now her and this mean girl kayla are total jerks!!! i feel proud that i can stand up for my self when they are jerks.... but it still hurts. especcialy when it comes from jazmin!!! does anyone else feel that way? how did u handle it cuz i need some suggestions!!!!

2007-10-25 11:50:19 · 2 answers · asked by .. 3 in Friends

For his 25th birthday in December. He has everything he NEEDS...but I want to surprise him with something frivolous?

2007-10-25 11:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does that also mean woman is sending out the signal that she is open to petting? I heard something like this on the radio today..what do you think ladies? If you are very much interested in cuddling a man on a date, do you also expect something more which might lead to perhaps more intimacy?

2007-10-25 11:42:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my best friend (who I've known for years) doesn't want me liking her ex-boyfriend. Wait heres the funny part, she has no problem with her "other" bestfriend liking him. She's said that I better not like him because apperently we made a promise, which I don't remember, and she's been on my case all day long. Plus she liked another guy the whole time she was going out with him!

2007-10-25 11:42:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have just got back together almost a month ago after he left me and our son just after new year.This was the 2nd time, the first being during the summer for 6 weeks, looking back it was obvious he was always going to come back that time but the 2nd time we both thought it was for good.We had been togethet 6 years.Met when i was 17 and he was 22.
He had started seeing a girl he worked with, who is his workmates ex, i met her when we were still together and instantly hated her, they lasted 9 months and had moved in together.When he left he says he loved me but wasn`t in love with me.I was heartbroken but just when i was almost over him he wanted to come back although he said he didnt set out to do it, we were having a birthday party for our son and basically he didnt leave, i saw him in tears and he said he didnt want to be with this girl, who i dont feel in the least bit sorry for as she knew he had a family when she set out to get him and got him she did!

2007-10-25 11:40:31 · 5 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 11:39:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I showed her the dress I wanted her to wear (I am paying for everything) and some others with a simmilar touch. I want the dresses to be blue and this was a beautiful evening blue with a diamond shape back that looked lovely on her. But she said no. She said no to every dress I liked. The only dress she could find in the store was this purple thing that wouldn't go with anything. But she says "I won't be your BM if I can't wear it". When I brought up flowers she insisting on carrying daisies,when I want roses because it'll look nice with the dresses, but again I got the "If you want me to be your BM...." speech. She is trying to decide every little detail of my wedding. Including inviting people I don't even know and she doesn't even ask me! HELP!

2007-10-25 11:36:09 · 36 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Weddings

Ok here the thing my and my boyfriend have been 2gather for about 2yrs now and get along great with a few occastional problems but we always work them out we spend as much time togather as we can and love doin so i love him with all my heart and he claims he feels the same and my mom is gonna sign the papers april 4th 2008 thats like 5 monthes away omg so are we ready?

2007-10-25 11:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by crazybrandy123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-25 11:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsi J 1 in Friends

I just dont understand why I keep attracting the wrong sort of men. All they seem to want from me is sex. I cant seem to meet a nice guy who will take me out on a date and not expect anything after. Am i sending out signals and dont even realise it. Im quite a quiet shy person so i dont understand why i keep meeting these men

2007-10-25 11:30:46 · 32 answers · asked by katie 2 in Singles & Dating

to borrow the lines from a popular poem.."lonely Im so lonely I have nobody to call my own Im Mr (Miss, actually) lonely.."
What do I do now???

2007-10-25 11:30:23 · 2 answers · asked by Sammy 3 in Singles & Dating

This question is for those who've been in the same situation. We've been divorced for a year and a half now, is it normal to feel weird about him re-marrying? We are not the best of friends but we are civil to each other, we are both dating somebody else for over a year now and yet I felt weird when I heard that he's going to get married. Is this natural?

2007-10-25 11:29:52 · 13 answers · asked by millet_0220 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im so confused about this guy he likes me and i like him and he messages me on myspace saying oh i heard u liek this kid i was like wut are u talking about and he told me that some kid told him that i like this guy but i dont i dont even kno the kid. So i sent the guy i like a msg saying i like u and u only but he hasnt been on since the last time i talked to him around 4:00 so wut should i do help

2007-10-25 11:26:01 · 25 answers · asked by valeri ann 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-25 11:23:50 · 16 answers · asked by Caroline J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

really I can not undersatnd ,why do I feel pain every time I feel
love ? perhaps I am mentally ill , when I feel love ,I feel pain ,fear , more loneliness. I think it dosent make any sense .

2007-10-25 11:20:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i am going to a huanted house on saturday so i need these answers asap. At this huanted house i am meeting the guy i like who i have not seen foe like 2 months. I was soo excited. Untill my mom found out that I was going alone to the haunted house with a couple firends she freaked becasue alot of bad stuff happened there last year. So she is making my dad go and my firends dad go too. Now it is going to be soo akward and i really dnt want to go. I cant tell my dad to his face that i dont want him to go b/c that will hurt his feelings . How do i get out him not to come?

2007-10-25 11:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by ari 2 in Singles & Dating

I know I would.

I'm just suprised at how many people always say to "mind your own business" or "don't get involved" or "it's not your problem", etc.

I'm just curious why people feel that way. The thought of being cheated on is awful enough, but it makes me wonder whether my friends would just sit back and laugh at me like many of the people on here.

I can't think of any reason why someone would want to protect the cheater. I mean, you don't need to have a sit down conversation with the whole family, you could even send an anonymous letter.

Thoughts? What would you do?

2007-10-25 11:13:28 · 40 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce