This question is for those who've been in the same situation. We've been divorced for a year and a half now, is it normal to feel weird about him re-marrying? We are not the best of friends but we are civil to each other, we are both dating somebody else for over a year now and yet I felt weird when I heard that he's going to get married. Is this natural?
2007-10-25 11:29:52 · 13 answers · asked by millet_0220 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im sure it is, just remember you shared your life with this person and even though it didn't work out they will always mean something too you. Im sure he would feel the same way if you were getting married.
2007-10-25 11:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by jcc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural if you aren't over him, which is NOT a good thing for you, and for the person you are dating. If you are dating you shouldn't have any emotional baggage like you are having, this is just not working, you should be alone by yourself trying to recover yourself and trying to learn to be single again, you are just avoiding the situation by having someone else in your life, which is a completely mess for what it looks like (dating and the other guy after 1.5 year is getting married). None of the relationships mentioned in your question have the characteristics of a relationship that will work and pure/ture love exists, is just a 'hang out' situation, a "patch" to reality, an "avoidance" of responsibilities. And your husband is definitely not that much of a man for being getting married that early, he looks more like a desperate lady trying to find companionship to not to find the "house alone" - that kind of stuff. i feel sorry for him, and for you too, because you haven't learned to be by yourself and take your time to choose a partner. You have a lot better chances to succed in your life if you do things the hard way and the way they are supposed to be done.....
2007-10-25 13:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure it's natural. But it's part of life, and just be happy for him. I'm happy for my ex that is getting married in feburary, and even though I am happily married, its still weird to find out that he's planning to have a child and all these things with this woman he has known less than six months. But I don't love that man nor want to be with him, but yeah its still weird. I'm happy for him and I feel like they deserve a shot at happiness, he and I just didn't do it for each other. My current husband is awesome beyond awesomeness, and I am so glad I married this one. It will be ok, just wish them well.
2007-10-25 11:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine getting a divorce, and finding out your ex husband was already engaged to another woman, and then the month after your divorce they get married. How would you feel about that?
Personally It hurt a little because I never thought he would find anybody else but he is not happy with her at all they fight all the time so his own fault.
2007-10-25 11:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think so b/c you were married to him and you couldn't help make it work, so you naturally are going to feel a little jealous and possibly scared/worried that she will be better than you in whatever way. Just remember that it didn't work for a reason and you have someone now, so just try to stay busy and not think about it as much as you can.
2007-10-25 11:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how does the unrated version with the extra stanza of garth brooks' "friends in low places" go again, oh yah, i remember now.
u prolly felt and feel wierd b'cause u r remembering what u 2 'should have had' that u both wanted when u 2 spoke ur vows. its normal and natural 2 feel the way u do. and you'll prolly feel it again when u remarry.
2007-10-25 14:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its natural, but you need to get on with your life. Do something that will make you happy.
2007-10-25 12:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by leeyo32 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Back To Your Ex : http://tinyurl.com/vG5NvHlsX7
2015-09-28 01:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by Alva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird to think of him remarrying. He will probably have the same thoughts if you get remarried.
2007-10-25 11:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋