I am 13 years old (14 in April) and I've never been kissed. When do you think it will happen? How do I find the right guy? Almost all the girls in my grade have made out or at least kissed, and I feel so left out. How will I know when it is the right time for my first kiss? Please help.
2007-10-25 12:05:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like a guy, and I think he likes me back.
2007-10-25 12:05:28 · update #1
I never kissed anyone til I was 18. I had boys after me all the time in high school. Just never felt the need to kiss any of them. My advice, don't kiss just anyone. The first time is an interesting and exciting experience. I am glad I waited to find someone who meant something to me.
Or if you wanted you could always just get it over with. The best part is that your first kiss is always unexpected. It would be worth it to wait and not miss out on that butterfly feeling.
It also kinda shows your maturity to be the one in your grade who doesn't go around kissing everyone. As you get older, guys like the girls who they have to work for. Good luck. It's hard but it'll get easier. :o)
2007-10-25 12:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my mom didn't get her first kiss until she was like 14 3/4 old. and you will know when the right time is. also, i went out with a guy for 9 months {9} and we never kissed
2007-10-25 19:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♫Lauryn♫ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl its okay! i just had my first kiss and i'm 14. wait for that right guy. a first kiss should be special, so to find that right guy make sure you guys click.
and you will never know when it'll happen. thats the good part. when you've been with a boy for a while, it will just happen. wait and make it amazing!
oh and by the way, don't feel left out. i'm the only girl out of my friends to have her first kiss. i bet a lot of people are lying when they all said they did!
good luckk!!
2007-10-25 19:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am young too - older than you though. I have decided that any guy who isn't willing to wait for me isn't the right guy. Don't just hand em out! Kisses are special. If you give out your kiss, it will be easier to give something else, and you will regret it. I don't expect you to do this, but I am saving my first kiss for the day I get married. Think of it this way: everyone else did it to "keep up" with everyone else. You should do it because yo LOVE him and it's special. And you are too special just to give it away so easy.
2007-10-25 19:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the kissing isn't the best part, wait until you have sex!!!!! that's the best!!!!!
but honestly you are making a big deal!! but then again i was just like you at 13, i would wonder why no one would kiss me. now i'm 23 and now i can't get the guys off of me!! ahahah
i had my first kiss at 14 so it will come sooner or later! trust me
2007-10-25 19:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. im 14 and never had a boyfriend and im 15 in feb. dont rush things cuz u want to "be like all the other girls." believe me more ppl then u think have never kissed a boy even tho they claim to have. and u will just know when the rite time is.
2007-10-25 19:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by kivasiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT a big deal. Relax. Plenty of people don't have their first kiss until 5-10 years later. I myself... did not have a real kiss until I was 29 and I'm perfectly normal.
2007-10-25 19:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by tgrx 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13. And yea, I felt the same as you before my first kiss. Which was about 5 months ago...
This guy that you like? Ask him to go somewhere with you! That's what I did. I went up and said "Hey, I like you. Wanna come to the movies tomorrow?". He said yes. And then at the movies we made out!
Good Luck!!
2007-10-25 19:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im 13 and ive never kissed before either
it seems like you only want to because "everyone else is" ...not a good thing to get sucked into
why cant you think for yourself and kiss someone when you think its right, not cuz everyone else has?
2007-10-25 19:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥converse girliee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol chilllllll. It's just kissing... Don't worry about it.. When you're comfortable with a guy enough to WANT to kiss him, you'll know it's the right time :)
2007-10-25 19:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋