I'm extremely shy and not exactly the type to "take initiative". I've been dating a guy for a while and we just started having sex. He was my first and I'm still very new to sex. I feel bad because he's usually the one who does everything. I know he likes more agressive girls who can take control during sex, and I would like to be more forceful... Any tips on how I can do this and what I can do to please him?
2007-10-25 11:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by Juliet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pretty simple: push him over and get on top. Also, make more noise (within reason).
2007-10-25 11:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy likes a lot of stuff to please him for this experience. First you have to set the mood. So maybe come up and strip in front of him. Then after that start kissing. Slowly work your way "downstairs" and undo his pants and start giving him a BJ. He will love it and it will set the mood. After you do that for a while then get on a bed or something comfortable and then if you want to be the aggressive one then you want to be on top. Start humping his **** and he will respond. Just keep going. Eventually you will get tired and ask him to either take you from behind or you lay down and he does you that way. Just do what you think would be aggressive and have lots and lots of fun. Try and squirt to. Makes it more pleasurable!
2007-10-25 19:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by mastermind4444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on top of him and forcefully have sex with him. Men love it when u are on top, they dont have to do much lol Be very expressive vocally while u are having sex as well, that may help ur sex life
2007-10-25 18:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by mZwHaTtHaTiZ! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start out slow!! Try giving him a sensual massage before you start fooling around then gradually start making the moves on him, start kissing on his neck and ears and then move down to his chest and if your feeling really frisky move down to his penis.. there is no bad ********..trust me he will enjoy..start tryin diffrent postions.. if you tried missionary try you on top and when you start to enjoy that try doggie style..you both will enjoy that..as long as you feel comfortable with him just go with the flow and it will come naturally!! If you have any other questions feel free to email me!
2007-10-25 18:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Stephie3255 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey i was in your situation about 4 years ago. I felt the same way but i talked to my bf and asked him to teach me and he did. now we have amazing sex. so just ask him how he wants it. its better that way.
2007-10-25 18:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by RAZZEL-DAZZEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u need to have acouple of drinks first and maybe watch some porn together.
2007-10-25 18:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by cmonique03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys like it when girls r on top
and also doggy style
push him around nicely
be loud
and compliment
2007-10-25 18:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by sk8er chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a really hot porn movie w/him! The benefites are all yours!!
2007-10-25 18:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit on his dong and move your hips forward and backward...
2007-10-25 18:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scream
2007-10-25 18:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Brooxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋