Is there any relationship between love and pain?

Question

really I can not undersatnd ,why do I feel pain every time I feel
love ? perhaps I am mentally ill , when I feel love ,I feel pain ,fear , more loneliness. I think it dosent make any sense .

Answer 1

Nope because love excites feelings. Whats causing this is what your feeling, not the love. Your feeling "love" for something and thats causing you this. You CAN'T say that everytime you "love" something it hurts you, it doesn't work that way. Love is a simple emotion, its raw, its the exciter of all of your feels. So it could be that the things in your life that you use to "love" are now not making you feel that same way. Instead you feel differently about those things do to other feelings you have. Also pain is a vague word, what your more or less might be refering to from your other descriptions is depression, which is mental pain. AND YES does love have a connection with depression... ooooooo sister, but your depressed thats why you feel that way about what ever it is you "love", which would mean anythings you feel the most about, family, job, money, what ever your passion.....